Post: #2826

(07-21-2015 04:32 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(07-20-2015 09:47 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  ...

Who was tighter 39 filipina with 3 kids or 36 blonde white chick with none?

I have my guess... almost a tough call.

It's funny you bring that up but for tightness the Filipina gets the win. Normally I'm not too much into white bottle blondes but this one was so slutty and her tits were so huge that the sex was better than with the Asian. I popped twice within an hour wearing a condom both times. Almost unheard of... Definitely more of a porn star experience.

Post: #2827

Post: #2828

+1, 6 Indian chick with no gag reflex

We matched on Tinder and I invited her out for drinking. Once I got off work I canceled saying I was tired, but Invited her over to chill and watch Suits. After her being flakey for about 20mins she finally decided to come.

On her way over she sent this photo, so she already knew what was going to happen haha.



We ended up watching a show called The Brink for all of 5 minutes before the panties were off. She gave me the best no gag BJ I've ever had, and even let me cum down her throat.

Post: #2829

(07-22-2015 04:34 AM)DMario Wrote:  

In this pic she almost looks like a man. Or is "she"?

Post: #2830

Just banged an old plate, nothing new, but lots of appointments for next week

Post: #2831

+1. First new notch in almost six months, and 40th lifetime.

We had met off okc last year before losing touch. She opened me up on okc two weeks ago, and within 20 mins I had set up a date -> clear indication she was DTF. Got her to come to my place for cooking. Make out but doesn't put out. Then I ask her to meet me after a week or so. We meet for drink, get to my home, and straight to bedroom. She hesitated to sit on bed, so I joked her to lie down, and she did. After 15 mins of make out, she says no sex. Game on. 5 mins later, she was nude. And 10 mins later, I was in.

The excuses and "no sex" line are getting really funny!

Post: #2832

+1
+19 2015

39yo, Blonde (natural) divorced, no kids, Tinder

This is my second blonde in a week and kind of kind of out of the ordinary for me. Being a 43yo white guy in SoCal (OC) I've always done well attracting Asian women whether they were American born or immigrant but the buxom, blonde bombshells have never given me the time of day. Granted these two were both post wall but I still consider this another step in the evolution of my game.

We matched up a couple of days ago and I got her phone number yesterday morning. We texted for a good part of the morning and I pitched the plan of meeting for drinks either last night or tonight. She said she teaches pilates tonight but was free last night so we met at the outdoor mall across from my apartment.

When she walked up she was on the tall side and wearing huge heels with tight black pants and one of those snug fitting button up dress style shirts with exposed shoulders that was about two sizes too small. She apologized for the tight shirt saying the cleaners shrunk it and she was running late and...she just went with it. I could see she had a nice set of tits practically jumping out of the shirt and she said the group of business guys near the parking lot were ogling and cat calling her as she walked by. Um yeah, I wonder why??

We got to the restaurant bar area and sat on a high top bench side by side since the bar was mostly empty. We ordered our drinks and she professed at how nervous she was since this was her third online date in her life. She then rambled about how the two guys prior to me were losers who tried to grope her and stalk her and this whole "online thing" is too scary for her. (uh huh...keep talking)

As the night moved on she would throw various shit tests at me asking me how many Tinder dates I bring to this restaurant, does this work on all your girls, etc. Each time I would casually swat them down and continue the conversation. She then asked me about my photography and I showed her a few photos on my phone and told her about the ones hanging on my walls at home (set the bait!) Then we got to talking about other subjects and my hand would squeeze her shoulder and run down her arm.

At around the 90 minute mark when our drinks were down we had the following exchange:

Me: Come on, let's go see those photos I was telling you about
Her: She let our a huge laugh and said "wow, you're trying to get me to your place! Is that part of your plan?"
Me: (smirking) who says I have a plan? You give me far too much credit
Her: Is that like the old line "come up and see my etchings?"
Me: Clearly you're not listening because I have no etchings
Her: I'm not coming back to your place on the first date

I paid the bill and then said "ok, well let's start walking" and we left the bar and headed to the parking lot. Her and I were parked fairly close and I wasn't going to let her go without a fight.

Me: "Come on, let's take a quick look, it will be fine"
Her: "Nooooo...."
Me: "We'll be good, just a few minutes, I'm right across the street"
Her: "Ummm....uhhhh.....oooookay....BUT I'M NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU"
Me: "Who said anything about sleeping?"
Her: Giggles "Or anything else!"

She follows me over to my place across the street (logistics, logistics, logistics) and I make her take off her shoes when we get inside. She didn't want to have any more alcohol so I poured us some club soda and lime and she looked around at my photos and mentioned how much she liked my place. She sat on the couch and we talked for about 15 minutes. She had said in the bar how much she loved the "50 shades books" so I already had game planned that I was going to go at her more caveman than tender. When I thought the moment was right I reached out, grabbed her and pulled her in and began making out with her. I immediately started firmly pulling her hair from the base of her neck and lightly wrapped my other hand around her neck and she quickly got into it. We were going like animals and then she pushed me back and said "whoah, we need to slow down". I sat back in my seat acting nonchalant and went back to talking to her. She then said "I really liked it but it kind of startled me, I need to go slower". "Sure no problem" and I changed the subject.

Around 10 minutes later I went for another kiss but this time took the slow and sensual route and she ate it up. I used my go to line "we're falling off this couch come on" and stood up and led her to my bed and she hits me with another shit test "oh, we're going to your bed now? Is this how you get your Tinder girls in bed?" I could tell this was one of those comfort and not strength shit tests (I think Julien from RSD did a video on these but I may be wrong) and I simply answered with "you can keep your clothes on, you already know that when you say stop I'll stop" and I could feel the apprehension melt at that moment. She climbed onto my bed and said "I can't believe you got me here but it's kind of entertaining". It was almost like she was a spectator in her own seduction and was enjoying it too much to stop now. Once she laid down getting her clothes off was easy and I went to town eating her pussy and we banged twice before she went home.

Right now I'm sitting at 5/5 on first dates to bangs and I really feel like my game has hit a different level. I attribute this improvement almost solely to working on my body language and giving off a relaxed, loose vibe. In the past I used to be so rigid and fear driven as far as worrying I would miss out on the bang. But now I'm doing a decent job of staying in the zone and not really giving a shit about what happens.

Post: #2833

Awesome pull, well played! Reading this one gets me all amped up. Had a sort of light depression the last couple of days with my ex haunting my mind. Really need to wake the fuck up and start working on my matches and leads.

Post: #2834

Fuck yes OTS, I love the shit tests ones that you still fuck, it makes that bang so much better.

Post: #2835

OTSC, that was a classic online SNL. Your game is tight; you handled it right at every point. I'm curious what was your response to her shit tests about bringing all your Tinder dates to the restaurant and does this work on all your girls?

Your logistics are great! I wish I had a restaurant within a short walk. My house is only two minutes from my meeting place and even then I worry I'm going to lose them. My view is anything more than a 10 minute drive gives them too much time to cool off and change their mind.

Your line that she could keep her clothes on is excellent because it gave her the comfort and excuse she needed to justify going to your bed.

The observation that she was enjoying being a spectator in her own seduction is a good insight; we all know women lie when they say that they don't like players. Most guys are gameless and are either awkward, which embarrasses and puts off the girl, or too aggressive too early which scares her. Women really appreciate a smooth seduction which makes them feel that they are being handled well and turns them on.

Post: #2836

OTSC, great storytelling and a very smooth depiction of a play-by-play blueprint to overcome LMR. +1

Post: #2837

(07-23-2015 12:02 PM)MrXY Wrote:  OTSC, that was a classic online SNL. Your game is tight; you handled it right at every point. I'm curious what was your response to her shit tests about bringing all your Tinder dates to the restaurant and does this work on all your girls?

Your logistics are great! I wish I had a restaurant within a short walk. My house is only two minutes from my meeting place and even then I worry I'm going to lose them. My view is anything more than a 10 minute drive gives them too much time to cool off and change their mind.

Your line that she could keep her clothes on is excellent because it gave her the comfort and excuse she needed to justify going to your bed.

The observation that she was enjoying being a spectator in her own seduction is a good insight; we all know women lie when they say that they don't like players. Most guys are gameless and are either awkward, which embarrasses and puts off the girl, or too aggressive too early which scares her. Women really appreciate a smooth seduction which makes them feel that they are being handled well and turns them on.

Thanks MrXy, that means a lot coming from you. I've been following your advice ever since I joined the forum and you're one of the RVF gurus I look up to.

For the "do you do this with all girls..." type of shit tests I would use the Julien (again, I think it was him who said this) line and said "I can't believe you wouldn't think you're special, that's so modest of you". She would laugh and then persist saying "you didn't answer my question" and I brushed it off saying I've taken date or two here in the past and she would smirk and say "uh huh..." Like any shit test I think she was really trying to see if she could get me rattled, defensive or apologetic for my behavior which there was no way in hell I was going to fall for.

As for the spectator in their own seduction you're right that women will openly player hate but then when they encounter a guy who has a smooth plan, handles their objections and moves quickly but in slow increments they can't help but be impressed and want the interaction to continue because they're having so much fun.

Post: #2838

I found the RSD video on comfort shit tests.

Post: #2839

(07-23-2015 12:31 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(07-23-2015 12:02 PM)MrXY Wrote:  OTSC, that was a classic online SNL. Your game is tight; you handled it right at every point. I'm curious what was your response to her shit tests about bringing all your Tinder dates to the restaurant and does this work on all your girls?

Your logistics are great! I wish I had a restaurant within a short walk. My house is only two minutes from my meeting place and even then I worry I'm going to lose them. My view is anything more than a 10 minute drive gives them too much time to cool off and change their mind.

Your line that she could keep her clothes on is excellent because it gave her the comfort and excuse she needed to justify going to your bed.

The observation that she was enjoying being a spectator in her own seduction is a good insight; we all know women lie when they say that they don't like players. Most guys are gameless and are either awkward, which embarrasses and puts off the girl, or too aggressive too early which scares her. Women really appreciate a smooth seduction which makes them feel that they are being handled well and turns them on.

Thanks MrXy, that means a lot coming from you. I've been following your advice ever since I joined the forum and you're one of the RVF gurus I look up to.

For the "do you do this with all girls..." type of shit tests I would use the Julien (again, I think it was him who said this) line and said "I can't believe you wouldn't think you're special, that's so modest of you". She would laugh and then persist saying "you didn't answer my question" and I brushed it off saying I've taken date or two here in the past and she would smirk and say "uh huh..." Like any shit test I think she was really trying to see if she could get me rattled, defensive or apologetic for my behavior which there was no way in hell I was going to fall for.

As for the spectator in their own seduction you're right that women will openly player hate but then when they encounter a guy who has a smooth plan, handles their objections and moves quickly but in slow increments they can't help but be impressed and want the interaction to continue because they're having so much fun.

I've always dropped lines such as:

"Only the cute ones" -smirk-
"yeah all 1000 of them" -laugh-
"why, you expected a red carpet affair ?"

I'm a smartass and I'll make a bitch laugh doing it.

Always cut that shit down with a smile, you'll get them laughing and more comfortable. Women like a man who won't take any shit, it's service with a smile.

I've never been the too forward aggressive guy, but I've been the gameless awkward guy.

Don't be that guy, there is NOTHING like a smooth transition from venue to venue, or venue to home.

The key is exactly what OTS did, dropped bait, hints, used the bait in convo. Women love being shown things a man created, in OTS's case it's pics, in mine it's my rifle or vinyls or whatever.

Post: #2840

Awesome report OTSC, I'm sure it took a lot of trial and error to get to that point but it seems like you're back and sharper than before. I'm definitely taking notes!

Post: #2841

(07-23-2015 09:54 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I used my go to line "we're falling off this couch come on" and stood up and led her to my bed and she hits me with another shit test "oh, we're going to your bed now? Is this how you get your Tinder girls in bed?"

What's with all this talking?

Cause I'm too lazy to carry bitches over my shoulder anymore, I just get up from the couch go to my big storage closet, return with my plastic wheelbarrow and just roll her off the couch and dump her into it and cart her to the bedroom, and dump her over onto my grizzly bear rug.

This isn't a UN treaty your negotiating.

Post: #2842

+1

A 22 year old brunette just left my place. She's somewhat tatted up, with a nose piercing, with a cunt-ish personality but happened to be DTF where I was in the right place at the right time.

Met her last weekend at a coffee shop when I was doing my work (my new business). I was wrapping things up and about to leave, when I see her totally focused on whatever was on her laptop.

The initial conversation went like this (if my memory serves me correctly):

Me: "Hi"
Her: No response, still focused on her laptop, probably didn't hear me
Me: "Hi, you with the laptop, you seem really focused" (with a smile)
Her: Looks up, and says "what?"
Me: Repeated what I said
Her: "Yeah, I'm doing some school work"
Me: "Isn't school out for the summer?"
Her: "It's for summer school"
Me: "Oh right of course, what school?"
Her: "University of Houston"
Me: "That's cool, I'm a tutor there" (bait)
Her: Perks up a little, and says "oh what do you tutor?"
Me: "Sign language for their interpreter program"
Her: "Oh that's cool" (kinda leaves me hanging there, but she keeps looking at me, so I keep going)
Me: "But I haven't had the time to really tutor there every day, because I have my own business." (another bait)
Her: "What business?"
Me: "Oh it's a freelance business"
Her: Raises an expectant eyebrow, "but I mean, like, what do you do?"

Here, I could have given a straight answer and said I'm a freelance writer or a programmer. But that's kinda boring, I thought. So I decided to troll her a little.

Me: "Well, see... that's kind of secret..."
Her: Furrowed eyebrows
Me: Pretend to look around to make sure no one can hear me, lean over to her, and whisper "I'm a hacker"
Her: Gives a bemused not-sure-if-serious smile (first time she smiles in this whole interaction)
Me: "Shhh, don't tell anyone! I mean I contract myself out to the government, like FBI, CIA, NSA, and do stuff that you really don't wanna know about."
Her: Gives off an I-don't-believe-you chuckle

I feel this isn't going well and I'm thinking NEXT. But instead I do a little bit of a hail mary:

Me: "Well I gotta run, have somewhere else to be right now, so why don't we grab a drink sometime?"
Her: "Sure, you want my phone number?"

So I get her # and leave. Not expecting much out of this one, I text her a few days later, "hey it's CleanSlate, how are you?". To my surprise she responds within a few minutes: "I'm good, how are u?"

After little inane back and forth, I pitch for a meet tonight without being specific about where. She takes three hours to reply back, with "ok where?"

My gut told me not to pitch for a meet at my place for ZDB, but to meet at a cafe across the street instead. So I told her to meet me there, and she said "ok". I'm thinking just "ok"? Blah. Serious lack of enthusiasm, and I think I'm just wasting my time.

But I go meet her anyway. I stay at my place until she texts me "i'm here", and then head out... so I could be 5 minutes late - on purpose.

She was wearing tight black shorts and a flimsy blouse, showing quite a bit of skin. Tattooed skin on her upper arm and another group of tattoos on her calf. Definitely a slut tell. I order a round of drinks, and sit us down onto bar stools.

One thing I noticed that as she sat down, she did not cross her legs. Instead she faced straight to me with her legs slightly apart. She'd keep putting her elbow on the bar, rest her head on her fist, tilting her head at an angle, and practically stare at me.

Blaring neon sign: DOWN TO FUCK

I don't even remember what we were talking about. Mostly inane boring stuff. Then she says, "this place is kinda boring".

What a cunt-ish thing to say, but let's see how I could use this to my advantage... I think for a minute, and then I say "you're right, it is kinda boring. Let's finish our drinks and we'll go somewhere else."

Her: "Where?"
Me: "Somewhere more fun."
Her: "But like, where?"
Me: "It's a surprise" (with a smirk)
Her: "No I don't like surprises. Tell me where." (with a hard challenging stare)

I wanted to smack her face right then, but I control myself. I couldn't think of a good retort to this, so I don't say anything. Instead I flick my eyebrows once, take a long sip of my drink, with a slight smirk.

She gives me an expectant look.

I take another sip, and say "finish your drink, then I'll tell you where."

She picks up her drink and finishes the whole thing in one gulp.

I drop some cash at the bar, and say "let's go."

Her: "Where are we going?"
Me: "That building over there."
Her: "Is that your place?"
Me: "Yes"
Her: "Why are we going there?"
Me: "Because this place is boring, right?"
Her: She laughs. "And your place is more interesting?"
Me: "I don't know, let's find out."

She doesn't say another word. My heart is pounding, but I pretend to be all nonchalant about it. I KNOW she is DTF, but I didn't really understand why she's being a bitch about it.

We enter my place. I close the door behind me, and I pull her over to me, spin her around, push her against my door and start kissing her. Almost to my surprise, she bear hugs with her grabbing my hair and shirt... kissing me back passionately.

The rest is history.

Even when I was pounding her from behind, it wasn't all that great. For a long time I could not cum. I was fantasizing about some filipinas that I'd banged during my trip to help me blow my nut. I realized that I need that sweet femininity that American girls are sorely lacking... once I'd gotten a taste of that abroad, it's hard to go back.

But at least I got the notch.

Post: #2843

(07-23-2015 10:15 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  Her: Raises an expectant eyebrow, "but I mean, like, what do you do?"

Best explanation of computer work ever:

Post: #2844

First POF bang! 34, we chatted a bit on Whatsapp and it was on. We went straight to a hotel near her place. She said she hasn't had sex since January. I will definitely bang again. Nice body for a 34.

Post: #2845

+1 Hungarian girl... this is probably not my most memorable bang ever because I had to go through the lognest LMR ever...however the girl is an Olympian from the 2012 olympics and she will participate in the 2016 if all goes well, she is taller than me and she also have a doctorate. I was thnking wtf am I doing with this girl during the date she was hyper non-interesting in the first 15 min but I got her to laugh and open up and after venue change we got in the corner of a dark street on my way home and we made out there and it was epic under the very revealing dress I could feel her G-string and her pussy and noticed it was wet. She wanted to go back home because she had training the next day very early but then she missed the bus (thank god) so I proposed her to sleep at my place which was close, she hesitated and she agreed with.

Put a lot of work to get her to have sex took a almost all night and we had it in the morning, she missed 30 min of her training. Since I had to work all night I was extremely horny and hard all night so it didn't take long to come. She has a rocking athlete body with I loved.

Post: #2846

(07-25-2015 04:41 AM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  ...however the girl is an Olympian from the 2012 olympics and she will participate in the 2016 if all goes well, she is taller than me and she also have a doctorate.
(...)
She has a rocking athlete body with I loved.

Impressive. I´m curious, how did you meet her?

Post: #2847

I met her from tinder, she has an impressive resume for sure. I actually did lot of the work on whatsapp but when I met her i was surprised at how cold she was but it didn't take long to get her to laugh and smile.

Post: #2848

+1 4/10 polish girl i might be generous... basically got super drunk last night with the RVF members, was being social with this girl in a bar, she invited me for shots and got me super drunk, she brought me back to her place and we banged. Woke up this morning, didn't know where I was and realized this girl is not fine..plus I missed my train.

Post: #2849

(07-26-2015 03:29 PM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  +1 4/10 polish girl i might be generous... basically got super drunk last night with the RVF members, was being social with this girl in a bar, she invited me for shots and got me super drunk, she brought me back to her place and we banged. Woke up this morning, didn't know where I was and realized this girl is not fine..plus I missed my train.

   

Post: #2850

Great story, CleanSlate. I think at the meetup she was doing everything she could to communicate she just wanted to get fucked hard. In my experience, that was her way of saying 'don't take me to 3 bars and then ice cream, just pls take me to your bed.'

As you say, you noticed the slut tell immediately. Once you saw how open her body language was to start, and later her being upset at the 'inane boring stuff,' it was already go-time. But you closed really well, finish the drink*, drop the cash, and drag her home.




* You don't really need to finish the drink, her or you....