Post: #1

I am 34 and my game is much tighter than 10 years ago ( I had no game at all back then)
I also look much better than when I was in my 20’ and I get much more attention from girls now.

Anyway, I am aware of time passing by. Vast majority of my friends got married and have their families.

How long do you think are you going to stay in game?

Post: #2

(04-07-2012 06:10 AM)muzrub77 Wrote:  I am 34 and my game is much tighter than 10 years ago ( I had no game at all back then)
I also look much better than when I was in my 20’ and I get much more attention from girls now.

Anyway, I am aware of time passing by. Vast majority of my friends got married and have their families.

How long do you think are you going to stay in game?

If there's anything I've learned from 40+ guys in the manosphere, it's that there is no exit to the game. Should you choose to marry and settle down with kids, you'll want to still be running game, just a different type of game. Rollo Tomassi and The Rational Male talks about this from time to time, unfortunately I think he deleted his recent Wife Whisperer post. Athol Kay at Married Man Sex Life is also worth checking out.

Post: #3

My dad says that as I approach 30, I will get tired of going out and meeting women. He got married at 29 years old.

Post: #4

I do want to get married, I do want to have kids, but I can't really imagine myself ever having a truly monogamous relationship. So, my hope is forever - Except that at some point it'll transform more into threesome game or the occasional ONS game, with me being committed to one woman emotionally but not necessarily physically.

Post: #5

I just can't ever see myself getting married. I've "seen too much" of the dark side of women. Once you've fucked a couple married chicks, or even perused the cheating facebook whores on the Misc. trolls threads, you start to lose hope that you're going to find the elusive one, who won't flirt with a ripped dude on facebook because she's "bored".

Forever for me. I may stay with a woman longer than usual as I get older or if I impregnante her, but for now it's impossible to imagine settling with someone.

Post: #6

I'm out here in Kuwait on my second deployment. These married bitches are off the chain. Fuck that. I'm not interested in spreading my seed so I won't get married. I don't want to die alone so late 40's early 50's I may look to settle down. Maybe retire in Belize or Philippines with a 30 or 40 something. Until then I hope to travel the world, fuck what I can, and avoid making babies.

Post: #7

I had an interesting fuck session today. I was chatting with my girl while fucking, bringing in some visualizations and role play. I told her that I was going to leave town for a while, and wondered if she'd still be here for me when I got back. When I started talking about her fucking other guys while I was gone, going into some seductive, playful, and erotic detail, her pussy dried up. Usually that sort of things turns girls on. Then when I talked about her being faithful and bonded and fucking only me, her basement flooded.

So she's built for fidelity, but I'm not going to marry her. In fact, as I get older I realize that I have to put even more effort into learning game. I've done relatively well for myself over the years, but that's not saying much; most men don't have satisfying love and sex lives. In order to keep serial and parallel monogamy going in the romance stage with twenty something girls, I'll need to bring more and more to the table. I'm already pushing my way through my mid forties, am short, balding and in my prime was never close to handsome.

Finally I have the finances. About time, and I'd say just in time. Now I'm working on language skills in a country where I have serious advantage. Next I'll have to learn cold approach. I've not needed any of those things this last decade. I'm preparing.

Game will last until I'm dead. And I plan to die from a fucking heart attack.

Post: #8

Forever

However, that does not preclude me having LTRs-it's just that I will continue having flings and ONS on the side

Post: #9

I'll probably stay in the game forever.

Now that I understand the true nature of women, I feel as though I can never trust one enough to commit especially to her. This is because women have no sense of loyalty, only what makes their vaginas tingle and their hamsters spin.

Seeing close male friends and relatives get put through the divorce courts keeps me motivated. Some of them seemed to have married genuinely decent women, who of course changed for the worst immediately after the nuptials.

I figure that once I'm too old to effectively run game on the kinds of girls I enjoy, then hopefully I'll have enough cash flow to bang attractive hookers. Beats late-life celibacy.

Post: #10

The game mindset is a permanent part of your core. It does not disappear at some stage in life. Sure, your priorities may shift, but inside you'll always have the game vibe and outlook.

Many older men can be active in the game until the end. Here in LA, it is common to see a 50+ year old guy with a girl half his age.

I was lucky to crank out 2 kids early in life. My divorce was super expensive, but worth it. Now I have the world at my fingertips.

With the anti-male laws, why would you ever want to get married? I won't marry again. Been there, done that, still paying for it!

Post: #11

Shit, my dad gamed a 19 year old when he was 51, she was pregnant by 21, and now that he's 72 he still has a beautiful wife who is only 41, and a 19 year old daughter. There's no time limit to game for a man, and you should continue to use game techniques when married, if that's your goal.

I'm almost 40, and I can't imagine life without confidence, frame, upper hand and self control.

When will you care less about notches and more about longevity and domestic support? When your testosterone levels fall. It happens to some guys at 28, and happens to other guys at 48. My testosterone fell drastically at 26, so I settled down, married, got fatter.

When she dumped my beta provider ass for the new alpha, I decided to get fit, eat healthy, and make money -- my testosterone levels skyrocketed in my early 30s, and I've never looked back. One of my best friends is closing in on 50 and he still meets and dates women in their early 20s -- he has no money, isn't the best looking guy, but he's witting and confident and cocky and there's no end in sight for him.

Testosterone makes game work. Keep yours high and you may never give it up.

Post: #12

When I stop getting the emotional fulfilment end of human relationships from fuck buddies who like me a bit too much.

Post: #13

Tough call. I divorced at 40 after 19 years and I'm in a transition phase where I still just really like LTRs and really don't want to hurt the few good women I meet. On the other hand, I'm enjoying the hell out of flirting and realizing that I've got a lot of learning and growing to do, not to mention the sex is fantastically better than anything in my marriage even approached.

Still, I really did like being married for a lot of reasons. IF I can find a beautiful, loyal, feminine, nurturing woman who also makes as much or more than I do, I'd consider it. But since such creatures tend to be as mythical as unicorns or griffins, I'm probably single for a good long time.

Post: #14

(04-07-2012 01:35 PM)ABDada Wrote:  Shit, my dad gamed a 19 year old when he was 51, she was pregnant by 21, and now that he's 72 he still has a beautiful wife who is only 41, and a 19 year old daughter. There's no time limit to game for a man, and you should continue to use game techniques when married, if that's your goal.

I'm almost 40, and I can't imagine life without confidence, frame, upper hand and self control.

When will you care less about notches and more about longevity and domestic support? When your testosterone levels fall. It happens to some guys at 28, and happens to other guys at 48. My testosterone fell drastically at 26, so I settled down, married, got fatter.

When she dumped my beta provider ass for the new alpha, I decided to get fit, eat healthy, and make money -- my testosterone levels skyrocketed in my early 30s, and I've never looked back. One of my best friends is closing in on 50 and he still meets and dates women in their early 20s -- he has no money, isn't the best looking guy, but he's witting and confident and cocky and there's no end in sight for him.

Testosterone makes game work. Keep yours high and you may never give it up.

Post of the day . Your father is my inspiration. We as men have the upper hand because we get better with age. After 25, women tend to their attractiveness. 30 they are fucked and they know it. You ever see a 30something that you know was gorgeous in her 20's but lost it after 30. It's a sad sight. There is that 10% whose beauty stays with them until their 40's. Thats what I want when I'm 50+.

I'm not saying that there aren't 30 and 40something that aren't gorgeous. I'm saying that the majority of women fall off after 30, especially women of European decent. Women are like cars. There are new models every year. I plan to ride those models up until I'm 50 haha. Just have to create finances to support the lifestyle I want to enjoy and keep my mind and body right.

Post: #15

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The game forum has turned into nothing more than a rehash of old topics

Post: #16

Most women find men between 30- 40s most attractive. Time is less gracious to women though. They are like flowers… and withers away soon. Men are more like a wine, they improve with age.

Post: #17

(04-07-2012 03:48 PM)Samseau Wrote:  /thread-5661.html

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The game forum has turned into nothing more than a rehash of old topics

Do we have any forum admin that can lock reference old threads? Before I post a new thread, I try to search first.

Post: #18

(04-07-2012 03:48 PM)Samseau Wrote:  /thread-5661.html

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The game forum has turned into nothing more than a rehash of old topics

The Game forum is now the least interesting of all the boards on the Forum, but repeat threads are a normal part of any forum.

Post: #19

this is a tough question... i am approaching 40... never been in a relationship for more than 6 months and dont really want to. HOWEVER i dont like going out and partying much anymore, my body cant handle being out late, hangovers etc etc...one day it would be nice to have a kid aswell but i cant see myself being with a girl. i would rather hang out with mates and just continue fucking women. but like i said the older u get the less u can be fucked going through all the bullshit involved with women.

Post: #20

I'm 50 now, a former player, now settled with a fine wife and 2 kids. So maybe I can contribute a bit here.

The answer is, you never stop playing the game. You just re-direct your game skills to a different purpose. My goal as a husband and father is to provide shelter, food, and love to my wife and kids, and to keep my wife from getting too whacky. All of this is increasingly hard to do in a world that is utterly hostile to traditional families, but it's the challenge I have chosen. Maybe I'll end up dead or destitute in a few years, but if children succeed then I'll die happy.

All of this is possible because I was lucky enough to find a 1950s-type woman..gorgeous, sweet, American woman who is so utterly non-feminist that it's almost funny to watch hard-core feminists try to talk to her.

There are plenty of women in America just like this, like maybe 20% of the female population. However must be snapped up quick, or must be found where-ever they are hidden.