Post: #1

This decently attractive 7 shows up to my gym yesterday, never seen her before as i am a regular there, working out 5 days a week, so i thought that she might be a guest with someone.

I saw her again today, i guess she's a member now of my gym, so i went up to her at the end of my workout, she was sitting down, relaxing a bit, and talked to her. An advantage i had was that i've seen her couple of times in the past, so i opened with that, but didn't know where so i thought she could help me out with that, turns out we went to the same school years ago.

I swear she was like a deer caught in headlights when i approached her, while i saw couple of old guys (in their 50s/60s) chit chat with her, she was completely open with them and relaxed.

She kept looking left and right every now and then (bad indicator IMO), barely smiles (i didn't smile much either aside from the initial approach to get her to take off her earphones), didn't ask me anything about myself aside from if i went to a school near by the gym and if i was her year (which i did and was).

I then went into normal conversation, asked her what she's been up to after highschool. She didn't bother asking me back.

Basically she didn't meet me half way in the conversation, and didn't bother asking for my name, so i didn't ask for hers, and her body language seemed closed off (chest against knees, and arms around them), so i turned my body sideways and only my face was in her direction. I left it at that, and ejected (i also was running short on time to get to work).

However for the next 5 minutes, every guy in the gym, had this stupid look on his face, staring at me, with their mouths open. I was a GOD for 5 minutes.

P.S: keep in mind i am in TORONTO CANADA for what it's worth.

Any thoughts opinions?

Post: #2

(04-03-2012 10:07 AM)Perseus Wrote:  I swear she was like a deer caught in headlights when i approached her, while i saw couple of old guys (in their 50s/60s) chit chat with her, she was completely open with them and relaxed.

This tells you everything you need to know. I'm guessing you were a little too direct (scared the cat), while these older dudes were dropping natural elderly chat.

The best gym approach, imho, is to get near her and open her over your shoulder while you're doing something else: stretching, putting weights away, whatever.

Post: #3

(04-03-2012 10:51 AM)PDX Wrote:  

(04-03-2012 10:07 AM)Perseus Wrote:  I swear she was like a deer caught in headlights when i approached her, while i saw couple of old guys (in their 50s/60s) chit chat with her, she was completely open with them and relaxed.

This tells you everything you need to know. I'm guessing you were a little too direct (scared the cat), while these older dudes were dropping natural elderly chat.

The best gym approach, imho, is to get near her and open her over your shoulder while you're doing something else: stretching, putting weights away, whatever.

Sounds logical. I guess i was too tired by the end of the workout to cover all angles.

Post: #4

She doesn't seem to be into you but you never know. Keep up the friendly chit chat with her and try to get some good vibes going.

Post: #5

Yeah like PDX said, the old guys had casual chat. Don't chat with her next time, but do things to get her to chat like a wave or like a come here kinda sign.. pulling her towards you non verbally. I wouldn't look too far into her body language because well she was at the gym (as a 7, probably self conscience) and was either sweaty or something with her body, hense shes in the gym. I say go for it again if you feel like it but I wouldn't pursue it this continues. Gym game is tough, usually works best OUTSIDE of the gym IMO.

Post: #6

(04-03-2012 10:07 AM)Perseus Wrote:  Basically she didn't meet me half way in the conversation, and didn't bother asking for my name, so i didn't ask for hers, and her body language seemed closed off (chest against knees, and arms around them), so i turned my body sideways and only my face was in her direction. I left it at that, and ejected (i also was running short on time to get to work).

She's not into you.

Every chick I've banged has told me how much they hate getting hit on at the gym.

They're actually there to work out, and they're doing it to be in shape for the guys they're banging or trying to bang, and those are not usually the thirsty gym rats who will stop their workout to try to spit a few words.

Post: #7

(04-03-2012 10:57 PM)jariel Wrote:  

(04-03-2012 10:07 AM)Perseus Wrote:  Basically she didn't meet me half way in the conversation, and didn't bother asking for my name, so i didn't ask for hers, and her body language seemed closed off (chest against knees, and arms around them), so i turned my body sideways and only my face was in her direction. I left it at that, and ejected (i also was running short on time to get to work).

She's not into you.

Every chick I've banged has told me how much they hate getting hit on at the gym.

They're actually there to work out, and they're doing it to be in shape for the guys they're banging or trying to bang, and those are not usually the thirsty gym rats who will stop their workout to try to spit a few words.

Frankly, i threw myself in there with no expectations/outcome independent. I ejected right away after sensing that she wasn't responding. Into me or not, i would've ejected either way.

Post: #8

You didn't try to chat to her while she was on the thigh machine, by any chance? It's a bad move.

Post: #9

When I talk to chicks at the gym I assume they have a boyfriend and somehow inteject that assumption into the conversation, to help them with the idea that they are not being hit on but just chatted up.

Then if they don't have a bf you have opened them without putting them on the defensive. If they do have a bf the you've saved the time and hassle, but can also possibly use them as a springboard to befriend them both and meet their single friends.

Post: #10

Dude...you should be at the gym to fucking work.out. Period. I don't chit chat with my buddies, I don't watch the game, I don't shoot the shit with the trainers until my workout is over. The only time I even talk to a female is when she approaches me. If your pushing weight and sculpting your body, they WILL approach. Watch for chicks keeping close proximity to you..(ie lingering around your area/treadmill...hanging around the water until you pass..) and open them after your shower or in the parking lot.....I just laugh when I see guys blow themselves out while a chick is mid-workout.

I am in the process of getting one of the trainers Club Sweater from my gym, I go to a well known expensive gym in my area and only trainers have them. The plan is to "accidentaly" leave her place with it on when I finally fuck her. Been wanting one of those for a while yet..

Post: #11

i wish my gym had hot chicks.

my gym is meatheads only. hah.

Post: #12

I'ved pulled a couple of chicks from the gym. The two best ways:

1. Over by the stretching/foam rolling area. If she's receptive to being opened, she'll start stretching near you. (Sometimes they'll even put on a show.)

2. On the cardio machines/bikes.

I've never picked up a girl in the main weight room area. When other guys try it, it mostly fails.

Post: #13

(04-06-2012 02:55 PM)Feo Wrote:  Dude...you should be at the gym to fucking work.out. Period. I don't chit chat with my buddies, I don't watch the game, I don't shoot the shit with the trainers until my workout is over. The only time I even talk to a female is when she approaches me. If your pushing weight and sculpting your body, they WILL approach. Watch for chicks keeping close proximity to you..(ie lingering around your area/treadmill...hanging around the water until you pass..) and open them after your shower or in the parking lot.....I just laugh when I see guys blow themselves out while a chick is mid-workout.

I am in the process of getting one of the trainers Club Sweater from my gym, I go to a well known expensive gym in my area and only trainers have them. The plan is to "accidentaly" leave her place with it on when I finally fuck her. Been wanting one of those for a while yet..

Update: I stand by the "let them approach you" method. Banging the fuck out of the trainer on a once or twice per week basis. this chick is super hot..super tight..bubbly little ass..swallows cock like a beer bong..it's all good, but it's going to take a while to get over the callouses on her hands..hmm


Update 2: Still no Club Sweater..

Post: #14

Is she a blonde (natural one) ? How tall is she?

Post: #15

(04-03-2012 10:07 AM)Perseus Wrote:  This decently attractive 7 shows up to my gym yesterday, never seen her before as i am a regular there, working out 5 days a week, so i thought that she might be a guest with someone.

I don’t want to hijack the thread but define decently attractive 7. She is either a 7, 6, or 5. I get thrown off by the number system here. I know it’s subjective, but I've read on a thread here that a 7 is a girl that if had a chance to close and didn't you would regret it. 6 you wouldn’t think too much about it. I think that’s a good rule of thumb for the difference between a 6 and 7. You drop the ball on a 6 "whatever" but drop the ball on a 7 "fuck me".

Post: #16

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