Post: #1

matt girl in club on valentines day. was directt with her folder I thought she was absolutely adorable. got her number spoke to her on phone texted a few times try to make it date. would have met up but I was too busy and had other dates so I told I call the next week. text todayy what's your schedule looking like. she told me what days she was available. then she texts do you have facebook ?


Fuck do I respond to this? " what you don't remember what I look like already?"

Post: #2

String her along on the subject ..."yeah why?"

She'll give some bs answer. Just say "sorry I don't know you well enough yet".

Or just flat out say "No I don't".

Post: #3

(02-27-2012 06:51 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  String her along on the subject ..."yeah why?"

She'll give some bs answer. Just say "sorry I don't know you well enough yet".

Or just flat out say "No I don't".

Her text was: "i work everyday but thursday and saturday. do you have a facebook?"

You don't think this is sufficient?:

"what you don't remember what i look like anymore? "

or

then add: "lets do drinks... how's thurs at 7pm?"

or

"yea why? and how bout drinks thurs at 7pm?"

The reason why is this... I have 2 weeks left here and then leaving for the east coast for 6 months. She knows this... not sure if she forgot but I definitely told her upon meeting her and a phone convo. I'm being a lil aggressive but straight to the point.

thx for advice, if you think the original answer/response "yea why?" works best then i'll use it... its pretty much as straight to the point as you can get.

Post: #4

My general rule of thumb for text messages is one thought per text. "Yeah why?" should be good.

Don't do conversations over text. It's a typical girl trap to milk attention from you. Keep it short and set a date to meet up.

Post: #5

My response - I would have given her my name and told her to add me, then move to lock up the date. I'd then leave her as a Pending Request.

"Yeah, add me, Bunta Fujiwara. Thursday works for me" and then lock it up.

She assumes you will immediately accept, so when you don't, it bugs 'em. Girls I've done this with always bring it up when you see them, and now that I think about it, they're always flirty in that way like they'll hit you on the the arm with wide eyes and a smile. Tease her about it, tell her you will accept (maybe you will), and change subject.

Post: #6

Boring. When I'm not into giving my FB to someone, I just say: oh, you see I don't use much... bla bla bla...