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approach--what to do when she says no
I have been working my game, asking girls if they want to meet for lunch at some point and getting their numbers. So far I have been successful, but there have been some that have said they're really busy this semester, which obviously means that they're not interested. How should I respond to that without sounding like a wussy?
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09-07-2009 10:23 PM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
Same as you would any girl you meet anywhere. 'Nice meeting you.' if she kept it cordial, 'peace' otherwise. Nod at her, and walk away.
09-07-2009 11:01 PM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
"How should I respond to that without sounding like a wussy?"

Too bad princess, you are missing out.

Next!

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09-07-2009 11:54 PM
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Wink RE: approach--what to do when she says no
usually saying ''No'' bores me alot...so when a girl says No i turn my head and walk away as if girl is stinking.

(Yeah it sounds anti-game...but i dont give a shit 2 girls who says no)
09-08-2009 12:15 AM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
What basil said.

But why are you asking girls to lunch?

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09-08-2009 12:57 PM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
^^^^^Because I can't ask for the bang right away
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
If you're 21 or over you should be asking for drinks, nothing more or less.
You're not making out with the girl at the end of lunch.

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09-08-2009 10:17 PM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
I want to get to the point where my inner game is so tight I can say

"Too bad princess, you are missing out," without missing a beat. And not feel like an asshole or laugh at my own words later. Just have it be no big deal that I would say something like that.

I want to get there in no more than 2 years.
09-09-2009 01:51 AM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
(09-09-2009 01:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I want to get to the point where my inner game is so tight I can say

"Too bad princess, you are missing out," without missing a beat. And not feel like an asshole or laugh at my own words later. Just have it be no big deal that I would say something like that.

I want to get there in no more than 2 years.

Lame goal, lame words, terrible game.

Someone offers to sell you their rinky dinky Honda for 10k, way over market value. You tell him to take a hike. When he says, "you're missing out" are you gonna change your mind? If you have any sack, you'll be thinking "you can go fuck yourself."
09-09-2009 08:56 AM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
(09-09-2009 01:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I want to get to the point where my inner game is so tight I can say

"Too bad princess, you are missing out," without missing a beat. And not feel like an asshole or laugh at my own words later. Just have it be no big deal that I would say something like that.

I want to get there in no more than 2 years.

Two years? Just do it today, or tomorrow. I do this line all the time, it doesn't work at all in any sense, usually gets a laugh, or an angry sarcastic "ok, bud."
09-09-2009 10:32 AM
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
(09-09-2009 08:56 AM)basilransom Wrote:  
(09-09-2009 01:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I want to get to the point where my inner game is so tight I can say

"Too bad princess, you are missing out," without missing a beat. And not feel like an asshole or laugh at my own words later. Just have it be no big deal that I would say something like that.

I want to get there in no more than 2 years.

Lame goal, lame words, terrible game.

Someone offers to sell you their rinky dinky Honda for 10k, way over market value. You tell him to take a hike. When he says, "you're missing out" are you gonna change your mind? If you have any sack, you'll be thinking "you can go fuck yourself."

The point is you have to have the attitude that it is her loss.

Which it is if you have it going on.

Not so much the words, the vibe.

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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
"you're missing out" is a great line because it tells the girl you're higher value AND reinforces your own self that you are. The latter should be the cornerstone of your game.
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RE: approach--what to do when she says no
Right but showing the girl you have higher value is pointless at that point right? Hmmm unless you see them again. But the latter part is definitely worth it. Today I invited a girl over a party I'm having in a week and she said she would be out of town. I said, "Well you'll be missing out then." It felt really good.
09-14-2009 10:19 PM
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