Post: #1

part 1 - girl has insecurities about our 'relationship' - so she often jokes about me having other girls on the side. it's obvious joking, so I play along.

however - a recent trip to a club had her 'upping' the joking to where it sure didn't seem like joking. a case of mistaken identity had a pissed off woman bitching @ me - making the girl I was there with take the 'joking' to beyond joking and even going so far as to say she has people there who see what I do and it's finally catching up with me. later she says that was just "joking" to cover her insecurities.

I flat out told her, making that shit up is beyond joking and it's not appreciated.

Thoughts?

part 2 - same club night and she tells me she isn't going to dance tonight. fine - I do want to dance, but because of her insecurities, won't go and dance w/ the other girls... we stand, watch others dancing and chat w/ mutual friends. I go to washroom and return to find her on dance floor with her friends and a couple unknown beta-guys.

what is shitty is this ended up later in the night and I was bored, I lost my 'high energy state' (otherwise would have blown her b.s. off and started dancing with other women). So, I wandered off and gamed a few other women - out of view of the girl I came with.

Anyway, I expressed 'annoyance' with her behavior and now she's all pissy about it. What is really, really shitty, is I should be at the club tonight (without her) and having fun -- but, that b.s. from her the other night, has me in a shitty mood.

what would you have done?

Thanks guys!

Post: #2

(09-05-2009 11:30 PM)mcr Wrote:  part 1 - girl has insecurities about our 'relationship' - so she often jokes about me having other girls on the side. it's obvious joking, so I play along.

however - a recent trip to a club had her 'upping' the joking to where it sure didn't seem like joking. a case of mistaken identity had a pissed off woman bitching @ me - making the girl I was there with take the 'joking' to beyond joking and even going so far as to say she has people there who see what I do and it's finally catching up with me. later she says that was just "joking" to cover her insecurities.

I flat out told her, making that shit up is beyond joking and it's not appreciated.

Thoughts?

part 2 - same club night and she tells me she isn't going to dance tonight. fine - I do want to dance, but because of her insecurities, won't go and dance w/ the other girls... we stand, watch others dancing and chat w/ mutual friends. I go to washroom and return to find her on dance floor with her friends and a couple unknown beta-guys.

what is shitty is this ended up later in the night and I was bored, I lost my 'high energy state' (otherwise would have blown her b.s. off and started dancing with other women). So, I wandered off and gamed a few other women - out of view of the girl I came with.

Anyway, I expressed 'annoyance' with her behavior and now she's all pissy about it. What is really, really shitty, is I should be at the club tonight (without her) and having fun -- but, that b.s. from her the other night, has me in a shitty mood.

what would you have done?

Thanks guys!

Why bring sand to the beach?

Post: #3

(09-06-2009 03:54 PM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  Why bring sand to the beach?

Well said. My thoughts exactly.