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			<title><![CDATA[She didnt let me have a second bang]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73213.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2019 15:39:10 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Not sure wtf just happened.<br />
Currently im seeing a Tinder girl, this was my fifth date, I banged her in the third date , altought i was inexperienced so sex was bad.<br />
<br />
Today I brought her home to bang her exactly as I did the other time, but this time every time I tried to go down there she would block me, closing her legs and puting  her hand down there. Trust me I tried reescalating, and going back there like 10 times, even forcing a bit. Ive literslly spent 3hours trying to get down. But always the same response . I felt like a rapist at the end<br />
<br />
She did let me grab everything else, except going down there.<br />
<br />
Wtf is going on? <br />
<br />
I even put her hand on my dick (clothed) ans she was ok with it playing a bit]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Not sure wtf just happened.<br />
Currently im seeing a Tinder girl, this was my fifth date, I banged her in the third date , altought i was inexperienced so sex was bad.<br />
<br />
Today I brought her home to bang her exactly as I did the other time, but this time every time I tried to go down there she would block me, closing her legs and puting  her hand down there. Trust me I tried reescalating, and going back there like 10 times, even forcing a bit. Ive literslly spent 3hours trying to get down. But always the same response . I felt like a rapist at the end<br />
<br />
She did let me grab everything else, except going down there.<br />
<br />
Wtf is going on? <br />
<br />
I even put her hand on my dick (clothed) ans she was ok with it playing a bit]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Gaming Asian Women]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73205.html</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2019 20:40:56 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[When I go out, I always picked up Mexican girls and white girls. My question is,how do you pick up an Asian woman (Vietnamese mainly) when you are Hispanic?  I always have a difficult time gaming them. I used to be able to do so back in L.A but it is way different over here in Texas.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[When I go out, I always picked up Mexican girls and white girls. My question is,how do you pick up an Asian woman (Vietnamese mainly) when you are Hispanic?  I always have a difficult time gaming them. I used to be able to do so back in L.A but it is way different over here in Texas.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Morality on making girls cheat]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73183.html</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2019 21:35:59 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I know most guys don't care if she has a boyfriend and I think I don't care much either.<br />
<br />
However, I had a girl over for a 2nd time while she has a bf and both times I couldn't get myself to persist to bang her, I have slept with her twice prior to her being with him. <br />
<br />
I tried for over 3 hours while she was on my bed, at one stage I was eating her pussy which was a mistake (should have just put it in). However, every time she gave hard resists, even though they felt fake, I couldn't get myself to do it. I don't think it was because she had a bf but because she had this guilty face that was making me feel bad lol.<br />
<br />
A couple of times she play wrestled with me and was teasing how I apparently couldn't overpower her. But everytime I did, she went motionless and had the look of being absolutely terified. I would stop and ask and she said thats part of her being submissive (as lame as it is, I asked every single time, being completely baffled as it looked fucking real to me).<br />
<br />
She is a super manipulative person which also scares me. What kept going through my mind was that she had some rape fantasies or something but I couldn't go through with them for fear of her regretting it and fuck knows pressing charges.<br />
<br />
Maybe I'm being silly and I think most guys would have pushed through but I didn't know how to handle it.<br />
<br />
Am I being a wuss or is this not worth the trouble?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know most guys don't care if she has a boyfriend and I think I don't care much either.<br />
<br />
However, I had a girl over for a 2nd time while she has a bf and both times I couldn't get myself to persist to bang her, I have slept with her twice prior to her being with him. <br />
<br />
I tried for over 3 hours while she was on my bed, at one stage I was eating her pussy which was a mistake (should have just put it in). However, every time she gave hard resists, even though they felt fake, I couldn't get myself to do it. I don't think it was because she had a bf but because she had this guilty face that was making me feel bad lol.<br />
<br />
A couple of times she play wrestled with me and was teasing how I apparently couldn't overpower her. But everytime I did, she went motionless and had the look of being absolutely terified. I would stop and ask and she said thats part of her being submissive (as lame as it is, I asked every single time, being completely baffled as it looked fucking real to me).<br />
<br />
She is a super manipulative person which also scares me. What kept going through my mind was that she had some rape fantasies or something but I couldn't go through with them for fear of her regretting it and fuck knows pressing charges.<br />
<br />
Maybe I'm being silly and I think most guys would have pushed through but I didn't know how to handle it.<br />
<br />
Am I being a wuss or is this not worth the trouble?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Nightcrawling my way to Mexico City]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73168.html</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 21:13:16 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[So my bang exploits have been limited to SEA thus far, I will find myself in Mexico City this fall. <br />
<br />
I've read the threads, but here is the bottom line: I'm a 50-year-old, slightly overweight white guy from Nebraska. I do really well in SEA.<br />
<br />
What awaits me in CDMX?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[So my bang exploits have been limited to SEA thus far, I will find myself in Mexico City this fall. <br />
<br />
I've read the threads, but here is the bottom line: I'm a 50-year-old, slightly overweight white guy from Nebraska. I do really well in SEA.<br />
<br />
What awaits me in CDMX?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[How to cope when you have mild autism?]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73164.html</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 12:42:21 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I've taken a long hard look at myself and realized there's a good chance I have mild to severe autism...<br />
<br />
I'm just wondering, do you guys think this will negatively affect my game?<br />
<br />
Are there any tips, strategies, or pro-autistic game threads I should explore?<br />
<br />
Thanks so much guys.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I've taken a long hard look at myself and realized there's a good chance I have mild to severe autism...<br />
<br />
I'm just wondering, do you guys think this will negatively affect my game?<br />
<br />
Are there any tips, strategies, or pro-autistic game threads I should explore?<br />
<br />
Thanks so much guys.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[What next? After first bang and "ghosting"]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 07:29:40 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<a href="thread-73042.html" target="_blank">https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73042.html</a><br />
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Im coming from this thread , and I wouldnt say its really ghosting but anyway..<br />
<br />
Summary: Met a chick from tinder  banged her in the third date, sex was retardedly bad (my first time). I would like to keep her as someone to bang not much more tbh.<br />
<br />
So this is what happened the last.<br />
<br />
We "banged" , really bad sex but idc at this point Idid my first bang and im more than pleased with that.<br />
<br />
After the bang I told her "So ure leaving now right?" , but she suggested to stay for some more time so we started to watch a movie while cudling, then she left after like  40min.<br />
<br />
I didnt hug her or anything, just let her go.<br />
<br />
<br />
Texted her the next day asking if she was back in her city (8pm). She  answered almost instantly saying that she was in her way to her city.<br />
<br />
Copy paste:<br />
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[12/5 18:37] me: Hey! Did u arrive to X already?<br />
[12/5 18:38] girl: Hey<img src="images/smilies/smile.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><br />
[12/5 18:38] girl: Right on my way<br />
[12/5 18:39] me: driving while texting? ?<br />
[12/5 18:44] me: anyway, see un in X this week smday, not sure yet when i'll be free<br />
[12/5 19:15] girl: Nooo waayy (she quoted the driving while texting)<br />
[12/5 19:15] girl: I was on a gas station<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
I havent texted her since. Note that all the text convos have been specifically for logistics. And in this one she skipped the "see u this week" and quoted directly the other one. <br />
<br />
I dont want to look thirsty, and so far i havent done anything else. Im back to tinder looking for chicks, but I only get like 3 dates per year so it may take a while (my citys small)<br />
<br />
How should I act next? Do i hit her uo again suggesting a random date? Do i wait for her to say smtng else? Do i send her smtng random?<br />
<br />
My plan was: Ask her what marvel movie should I watch, since she suggested that we should eventuslly watch em all (shes a fan). And then just tell her to come to my home since Ill be watching it this weekend]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="thread-73042.html" target="_blank">https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73042.html</a><br />
<br />
Im coming from this thread , and I wouldnt say its really ghosting but anyway..<br />
<br />
Summary: Met a chick from tinder  banged her in the third date, sex was retardedly bad (my first time). I would like to keep her as someone to bang not much more tbh.<br />
<br />
So this is what happened the last.<br />
<br />
We "banged" , really bad sex but idc at this point Idid my first bang and im more than pleased with that.<br />
<br />
After the bang I told her "So ure leaving now right?" , but she suggested to stay for some more time so we started to watch a movie while cudling, then she left after like  40min.<br />
<br />
I didnt hug her or anything, just let her go.<br />
<br />
<br />
Texted her the next day asking if she was back in her city (8pm). She  answered almost instantly saying that she was in her way to her city.<br />
<br />
Copy paste:<br />
<br />
[12/5 18:37] me: Hey! Did u arrive to X already?<br />
[12/5 18:38] girl: Hey<img src="images/smilies/smile.gif" style="vertical-align: middle;" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><br />
[12/5 18:38] girl: Right on my way<br />
[12/5 18:39] me: driving while texting? ?<br />
[12/5 18:44] me: anyway, see un in X this week smday, not sure yet when i'll be free<br />
[12/5 19:15] girl: Nooo waayy (she quoted the driving while texting)<br />
[12/5 19:15] girl: I was on a gas station<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
I havent texted her since. Note that all the text convos have been specifically for logistics. And in this one she skipped the "see u this week" and quoted directly the other one. <br />
<br />
I dont want to look thirsty, and so far i havent done anything else. Im back to tinder looking for chicks, but I only get like 3 dates per year so it may take a while (my citys small)<br />
<br />
How should I act next? Do i hit her uo again suggesting a random date? Do i wait for her to say smtng else? Do i send her smtng random?<br />
<br />
My plan was: Ask her what marvel movie should I watch, since she suggested that we should eventuslly watch em all (shes a fan). And then just tell her to come to my home since Ill be watching it this weekend]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[ERASMUS POLAND, BANG STRATEGY]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73154.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2019 13:05:33 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone.<br />
<span style="text-decoration: underline;">I am going to be the next whole year doing erasmus in Poland (Olsztyn). I am in my early 20's.</span><br />
<br />
Is Olsztyn a decent city? I<span style="font-weight: bold;"> have read that there are tons of erasmus but...there is a good male-female ratio?</span> <br />
I am going to be on a dormitory (residence) with a lot of new people, and a lot of new girls.<br />
<br />
That being said, i have read Poland Thread in order to learn about places to visit, polish girls and so on...but..i need some advice<br />
<br />
I have never left my house, and i don't know how people in residences act.<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: #006400;">I need your advice in order to learn HOW TO GAME in a residence whether or not bang people i am living with, if i should bang in the first weeks some erasmus girls and then go hunting to polish girls...</span></span><br />
<br />
Of course i need <span style="color: #FF0000;">your opinion</span>, it can help me a lot.<br />
so...<span style="font-weight: bold;">HOW WOULD YOU PLAN IT? </span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi everyone.<br />
<span style="text-decoration: underline;">I am going to be the next whole year doing erasmus in Poland (Olsztyn). I am in my early 20's.</span><br />
<br />
Is Olsztyn a decent city? I<span style="font-weight: bold;"> have read that there are tons of erasmus but...there is a good male-female ratio?</span> <br />
I am going to be on a dormitory (residence) with a lot of new people, and a lot of new girls.<br />
<br />
That being said, i have read Poland Thread in order to learn about places to visit, polish girls and so on...but..i need some advice<br />
<br />
I have never left my house, and i don't know how people in residences act.<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: #006400;">I need your advice in order to learn HOW TO GAME in a residence whether or not bang people i am living with, if i should bang in the first weeks some erasmus girls and then go hunting to polish girls...</span></span><br />
<br />
Of course i need <span style="color: #FF0000;">your opinion</span>, it can help me a lot.<br />
so...<span style="font-weight: bold;">HOW WOULD YOU PLAN IT? </span>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[First bang]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73125.html</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2019 22:52:52 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I’ll be hanging out with this girl this weekend to bang she and I both already know. I’m a virgin though and don’t know a whole lot and I don’t know how long I’ll last. What positions, fingering techniques, ways to make her come should I know about? Also how can I ensure I last long enough? I’m 16 as of now on a side note]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’ll be hanging out with this girl this weekend to bang she and I both already know. I’m a virgin though and don’t know a whole lot and I don’t know how long I’ll last. What positions, fingering techniques, ways to make her come should I know about? Also how can I ensure I last long enough? I’m 16 as of now on a side note]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Moved to a new country and struggling]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73105.html</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2019 12:00:44 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[What’s up. I’m from America, and I recently moved to Asia. I’m a newbie in game. However, I was making very significant progress in America. Every month I was improving. I was pretty fucking confident. Now I’m in China. I’ve been here a few months. It’s fucking different here. I actually know the culture decently well, and I can speak basic Chinese. But, I can’t find any girl who’s excited to meet me. There’s no enthusiasm and no attraction. It doesn’t make sense. I don’t get it. I actually had some results with Chinese girls in America, including some who were merely a few days fresh off the boat. I’ve met similar girls here, but they have absolutely zero interest in me. Some of the rejections make no sense. By the way, I don’t mind rejection—it fuels me. But, I want to make progress again.<br />
<br />
This forum has a lot of guys with international experience. Is my experience normal? How can I adjust to the culture better and actually be attractive to women again (like I was back home)?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[What’s up. I’m from America, and I recently moved to Asia. I’m a newbie in game. However, I was making very significant progress in America. Every month I was improving. I was pretty fucking confident. Now I’m in China. I’ve been here a few months. It’s fucking different here. I actually know the culture decently well, and I can speak basic Chinese. But, I can’t find any girl who’s excited to meet me. There’s no enthusiasm and no attraction. It doesn’t make sense. I don’t get it. I actually had some results with Chinese girls in America, including some who were merely a few days fresh off the boat. I’ve met similar girls here, but they have absolutely zero interest in me. Some of the rejections make no sense. By the way, I don’t mind rejection—it fuels me. But, I want to make progress again.<br />
<br />
This forum has a lot of guys with international experience. Is my experience normal? How can I adjust to the culture better and actually be attractive to women again (like I was back home)?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[How to get over it?]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73104.html</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2019 11:41:22 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[A few guys on here know my history, they know some of the unnecessary bullshit I went through. So my question is, how to get over it?<br />
<br />
I’m somewhat successful with women now, way better than my cuck days before finding this forum but I can’t help but form an attachment with every woman I bang. One girl in particular gets to me. She’s the main chick in my small harem and to be honest, we love each other. However we want each other to be free. Last week she fucked some guy and it really got to me. The incident pretty much had me imagaining who, wgere, and why. <br />
<br />
I feel like a high testosterone man wouldn’t have feelings like this, he would just count his notches and he ok. I hate feeling like this. Is there anything I can do to stop being so emotional about women and to stop caring who they fuck. <br />
<br />
I’m 25 she’s 19, she’s the best looking girl in my harem (a solid 8) and so far the best sex ever (for me and her). <br />
<br />
Sorry if this came off as emotional and weak. I’m improving a lot but this seems to be a sticking point.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A few guys on here know my history, they know some of the unnecessary bullshit I went through. So my question is, how to get over it?<br />
<br />
I’m somewhat successful with women now, way better than my cuck days before finding this forum but I can’t help but form an attachment with every woman I bang. One girl in particular gets to me. She’s the main chick in my small harem and to be honest, we love each other. However we want each other to be free. Last week she fucked some guy and it really got to me. The incident pretty much had me imagaining who, wgere, and why. <br />
<br />
I feel like a high testosterone man wouldn’t have feelings like this, he would just count his notches and he ok. I hate feeling like this. Is there anything I can do to stop being so emotional about women and to stop caring who they fuck. <br />
<br />
I’m 25 she’s 19, she’s the best looking girl in my harem (a solid 8) and so far the best sex ever (for me and her). <br />
<br />
Sorry if this came off as emotional and weak. I’m improving a lot but this seems to be a sticking point.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Response to shit test]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2019 14:19:09 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[How would you respond to the shit test in the following dialogue:<br />
Will I see you tonight?<br />
Her: why dont you see me at work?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[How would you respond to the shit test in the following dialogue:<br />
Will I see you tonight?<br />
Her: why dont you see me at work?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Break Up Lessons and Questions]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73078.html</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2019 00:09:34 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[My LTR of 8 months asked me to take time because I didn’t give her enough attention. In reality I’m sure it’s because I acted beta the last three weeks. <br />
<br />
The last few days I got my game back thanks to good decisions, I think exersice was the biggest factor (in my experience it’s basically a requirement to be able to bang multiple sluts.) <br />
<br />
We FaceTimed and she started with the I need to tell you something, told me we need to take a time and her “reasoning” AKA hamster? <br />
<br />
I started gaming her by <br />
-taking frame<br />
-non reactive / needy<br />
<br />
After doing the above I started saying it was a great 8 months, thanked her for improving my life and told her I hoped she finds a man who can provide her what she needs and is Christian (she attends church 2-3x a week.)<br />
<br />
After that I saw the shift from her facial expressions to her realizing she fucked up.<br />
<br />
I asked her if she was talking to another person twice in a calm way and she said she wasn’t.<br />
<br />
She started complimenting saying I was basically her first boyfriend because she treated all the previous ones like trash and manipulated them. That she never thought of cheating on me because she feared me in a way and reworded it into respecting me immediately after. <br />
<br />
She said she wanted us to be friends and I could feel free to text her, I said dafuq? And she said she would like me to.<br />
<br />
Blah blah blah she said she has to go (her mom got home and she has been seeing me behind her back for amount a month or so) I’m sure this was true.<br />
<br />
I really wanted to find out the truth about her seeing other men so I texted her after she hung up that I had been with three other women in the eight months to see if she would cop to cheating and to permanently next her (I broke up with her 6 times before this and we lived together for 10 days)<br />
<br />
Said to please not talk to her again because I had hurt her more than anyone else before.<br />
<br />
What I learned<br />
- Confirmed AWALT. You have to keep the                      Gina tingles flowing or it’s over<br />
- Alpha fux beta bucks. I know for a fact she would have came over to get fucked later thanks to my last 5 mins of alpha<br />
-Don’t ever feel pity for a woman and stay with her or be nice to her due to it because she will not reciprocate <br />
-Not all women cheat (emotionally probably, almost surely, but not PiV)<br />
<br />
Questions<br />
-Anyone else ended things this way? (Cop yo cheating after break up) <br />
-Could I have damaged her in a big way?<br />
<br />
Closing thoughts <br />
<br />
I somewhat regret copping to the cheating since I could have kept her as a side piece and had major leverage (she caused the breakup so she has to earn another relationship which I wouldn’t have done anyway) but felt it was necessary to burn the bridge and be forced to build my life separately because I did love her a bit (she was my first). Also wouldn’t have made her feel like shit which is the biggest cause of regret.<br />
<br />
<br />
Thoughts? Sorry for the wall of text.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My LTR of 8 months asked me to take time because I didn’t give her enough attention. In reality I’m sure it’s because I acted beta the last three weeks. <br />
<br />
The last few days I got my game back thanks to good decisions, I think exersice was the biggest factor (in my experience it’s basically a requirement to be able to bang multiple sluts.) <br />
<br />
We FaceTimed and she started with the I need to tell you something, told me we need to take a time and her “reasoning” AKA hamster? <br />
<br />
I started gaming her by <br />
-taking frame<br />
-non reactive / needy<br />
<br />
After doing the above I started saying it was a great 8 months, thanked her for improving my life and told her I hoped she finds a man who can provide her what she needs and is Christian (she attends church 2-3x a week.)<br />
<br />
After that I saw the shift from her facial expressions to her realizing she fucked up.<br />
<br />
I asked her if she was talking to another person twice in a calm way and she said she wasn’t.<br />
<br />
She started complimenting saying I was basically her first boyfriend because she treated all the previous ones like trash and manipulated them. That she never thought of cheating on me because she feared me in a way and reworded it into respecting me immediately after. <br />
<br />
She said she wanted us to be friends and I could feel free to text her, I said dafuq? And she said she would like me to.<br />
<br />
Blah blah blah she said she has to go (her mom got home and she has been seeing me behind her back for amount a month or so) I’m sure this was true.<br />
<br />
I really wanted to find out the truth about her seeing other men so I texted her after she hung up that I had been with three other women in the eight months to see if she would cop to cheating and to permanently next her (I broke up with her 6 times before this and we lived together for 10 days)<br />
<br />
Said to please not talk to her again because I had hurt her more than anyone else before.<br />
<br />
What I learned<br />
- Confirmed AWALT. You have to keep the                      Gina tingles flowing or it’s over<br />
- Alpha fux beta bucks. I know for a fact she would have came over to get fucked later thanks to my last 5 mins of alpha<br />
-Don’t ever feel pity for a woman and stay with her or be nice to her due to it because she will not reciprocate <br />
-Not all women cheat (emotionally probably, almost surely, but not PiV)<br />
<br />
Questions<br />
-Anyone else ended things this way? (Cop yo cheating after break up) <br />
-Could I have damaged her in a big way?<br />
<br />
Closing thoughts <br />
<br />
I somewhat regret copping to the cheating since I could have kept her as a side piece and had major leverage (she caused the breakup so she has to earn another relationship which I wouldn’t have done anyway) but felt it was necessary to burn the bridge and be forced to build my life separately because I did love her a bit (she was my first). Also wouldn’t have made her feel like shit which is the biggest cause of regret.<br />
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Thoughts? Sorry for the wall of text.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[genital warts]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73075.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2019 19:56:30 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I got genital warts sometime last year, i think this is the most common STD and something like 90% of sexually active ppl have it, and given that ive fucked about 250 girls ive probably had it for a while. Well i developed symptoms last year and pretty much knew what it was but I only had two small, round warts..they almost looked like skin tags and didnt have the "cauliflower" texture some do. Anyway i pretty much left it untreated and kept fucking girls as usual. It wasnt until one super hot girl, a solid 8, called me out when she noticed my warts..needless to say it was fucking embarrassing and she said she wasnt comfortable fucking me and left the room. LOL!!<br />
 I finally went to my doctor and he prescribed podofilox solution, which is a two week treatment. well i tried it and it didnt really work, the warts were smaller but still there and it also irritated the surrounding skin so for a while they looked worse. I gave up of podofilox and was planning to get cryosurgery, then i stumbled on this wart removal product on amazon and read the reviews which were good, so i decided to give it a shot. Its called "wart and mole vanish" costs &#36;70 and i pretty much just followed the instructions. I used an emery board to roughen up the warts, then i applied the cream and repeated again. The warts turned black and developed a scab then they fell off in about 3 days. Im about 1 month post and the warts are all gone, i still have a bit of discoloration from the treatment but it gets better with time. So anyway i just wanted to recommend that product to anyone here that might have GW and hasnt had luck with other treatments.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got genital warts sometime last year, i think this is the most common STD and something like 90% of sexually active ppl have it, and given that ive fucked about 250 girls ive probably had it for a while. Well i developed symptoms last year and pretty much knew what it was but I only had two small, round warts..they almost looked like skin tags and didnt have the "cauliflower" texture some do. Anyway i pretty much left it untreated and kept fucking girls as usual. It wasnt until one super hot girl, a solid 8, called me out when she noticed my warts..needless to say it was fucking embarrassing and she said she wasnt comfortable fucking me and left the room. LOL!!<br />
 I finally went to my doctor and he prescribed podofilox solution, which is a two week treatment. well i tried it and it didnt really work, the warts were smaller but still there and it also irritated the surrounding skin so for a while they looked worse. I gave up of podofilox and was planning to get cryosurgery, then i stumbled on this wart removal product on amazon and read the reviews which were good, so i decided to give it a shot. Its called "wart and mole vanish" costs &#36;70 and i pretty much just followed the instructions. I used an emery board to roughen up the warts, then i applied the cream and repeated again. The warts turned black and developed a scab then they fell off in about 3 days. Im about 1 month post and the warts are all gone, i still have a bit of discoloration from the treatment but it gets better with time. So anyway i just wanted to recommend that product to anyone here that might have GW and hasnt had luck with other treatments.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[A mid thirties journal]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73073.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2019 12:01:50 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: bold;">Bio: </span><br />
Mid 30s, Asian, 5'8, average-looks-and-built, (sometimes girls say I am cute, mostly in Asia), knows game since 2008 but very on and off practice. My journal is a learning journey - I very welcome any comments and suggestions.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Background: </span><br />
In the past few years I've approached girls, maybe several openings each month, and it's really not going anywhere I'd like and I ended up doing a lot of online gaming which I realized, by now, it's a waste of time. <br />
<br />
I've started to game more seriously by my standard since beginning of April and opened around 30 sets in April, 70% of my openings were night games, but I've also pushed myself to open in days which I think were about 10 give or take. I had two lays so am happy with the progress in a month but want to 1) improve and 2) be consistent. <br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">My journals for April:</span> <br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-29228-post-1964934.html#pid1964934" target="_blank">Blowing out the whole bar, closed one in disco</a><br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-29228-post-1967041.html#pid1967041" target="_blank">Another day (and night) running game</a><br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-32925-post-1968802.html#pid1968802" target="_blank"> EDM music gig alcohol free night game, expat bar make out</a> <br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-32925-post-1971462.html#pid1971462" target="_blank">Follow up dates, and hotel make outs</a><br />
<br />
PS: From now on I'll be putting my journals directly in this thread. <br />
<br />
Thanks]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: bold;">Bio: </span><br />
Mid 30s, Asian, 5'8, average-looks-and-built, (sometimes girls say I am cute, mostly in Asia), knows game since 2008 but very on and off practice. My journal is a learning journey - I very welcome any comments and suggestions.<br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">Background: </span><br />
In the past few years I've approached girls, maybe several openings each month, and it's really not going anywhere I'd like and I ended up doing a lot of online gaming which I realized, by now, it's a waste of time. <br />
<br />
I've started to game more seriously by my standard since beginning of April and opened around 30 sets in April, 70% of my openings were night games, but I've also pushed myself to open in days which I think were about 10 give or take. I had two lays so am happy with the progress in a month but want to 1) improve and 2) be consistent. <br />
<br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;">My journals for April:</span> <br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-29228-post-1964934.html#pid1964934" target="_blank">Blowing out the whole bar, closed one in disco</a><br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-29228-post-1967041.html#pid1967041" target="_blank">Another day (and night) running game</a><br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-32925-post-1968802.html#pid1968802" target="_blank"> EDM music gig alcohol free night game, expat bar make out</a> <br />
<a href="https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-32925-post-1971462.html#pid1971462" target="_blank">Follow up dates, and hotel make outs</a><br />
<br />
PS: From now on I'll be putting my journals directly in this thread. <br />
<br />
Thanks]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Fly to a City to Meet a Chick]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73045.html</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2019 09:02:02 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I met a girl (7.5) at a festival and hung out with that weekend. Things didn’t progress past heavy making out because she was on her period. However after she kept sending me messages and indicating interest. She offered to come to my city but given her vacation days and my (likely) responsibility to split the costs at least, I decided to join her at a work conferenced  in another state. <br />
<br />
In the few weeks in between festival and conference, we talked a bunch and she clearly wanted it. She made me get an STD test which I obliged and so on. All in all I felt pretty good about it. <br />
<br />
Fast forward to trip, I met up with her at hotel but she wouldn’t kiss me in lobby, which she says is to prevent coworkers from seeing us. Fine. In hotel room, she demurs after some heavy makeout because she doesn’t want to give it up right away and would prefer to wait until after our date that night. We spent the rest of the afternoon cuddling and talking before heading to the restaurant. She tells me she likes me and I dodge a response. One red flag is that she keeps getting snaps from her former drug dealer boyfriend during the afternoon whom she dumped because he was hooking up with a prostitute. But I didn’t object beyond minima because it’s her life etc. <br />
<br />
I bring her to a nice but not too fancy spot a short Uber ride away. Dinner is relaxed and fun and she’s into me. I started to show her some childhood photos and noticed a slight change in energy but nothing concrete. I did have a couple of glasses of wine so could be the cause. <br />
<br />
At end of meal I go to her side of the booth and try to make out with her. She rejects me and says she doesn’t want to make out in an empty restaurant. <br />
<br />
I hold her hand in the Uber back (just to see if she pulls away) and once back in the room we start making out. I ask her what’s wrong after she resists advances and she replies, “Nothing.”<br />
<br />
Once I try to get her pants off she says she can’t because the situation is too forced and expectations are too high. I sit on the couch and start digging for some info. She then says that she was sexually assaulted a month ago and this triggered her because she has feelings for me—even though she’s been with guys since then. She started to cry (and told me it’s only the fourth time ever) before asking how she can make it up to me and apologizing for wasting my time and money. <br />
<br />
I’m inclined to call horse shit but I’m curious to hear others’ thoughts. Also is it worth spending another night? Flight is tomorrow so I’m leaning towards just getting a hotel room.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I met a girl (7.5) at a festival and hung out with that weekend. Things didn’t progress past heavy making out because she was on her period. However after she kept sending me messages and indicating interest. She offered to come to my city but given her vacation days and my (likely) responsibility to split the costs at least, I decided to join her at a work conferenced  in another state. <br />
<br />
In the few weeks in between festival and conference, we talked a bunch and she clearly wanted it. She made me get an STD test which I obliged and so on. All in all I felt pretty good about it. <br />
<br />
Fast forward to trip, I met up with her at hotel but she wouldn’t kiss me in lobby, which she says is to prevent coworkers from seeing us. Fine. In hotel room, she demurs after some heavy makeout because she doesn’t want to give it up right away and would prefer to wait until after our date that night. We spent the rest of the afternoon cuddling and talking before heading to the restaurant. She tells me she likes me and I dodge a response. One red flag is that she keeps getting snaps from her former drug dealer boyfriend during the afternoon whom she dumped because he was hooking up with a prostitute. But I didn’t object beyond minima because it’s her life etc. <br />
<br />
I bring her to a nice but not too fancy spot a short Uber ride away. Dinner is relaxed and fun and she’s into me. I started to show her some childhood photos and noticed a slight change in energy but nothing concrete. I did have a couple of glasses of wine so could be the cause. <br />
<br />
At end of meal I go to her side of the booth and try to make out with her. She rejects me and says she doesn’t want to make out in an empty restaurant. <br />
<br />
I hold her hand in the Uber back (just to see if she pulls away) and once back in the room we start making out. I ask her what’s wrong after she resists advances and she replies, “Nothing.”<br />
<br />
Once I try to get her pants off she says she can’t because the situation is too forced and expectations are too high. I sit on the couch and start digging for some info. She then says that she was sexually assaulted a month ago and this triggered her because she has feelings for me—even though she’s been with guys since then. She started to cry (and told me it’s only the fourth time ever) before asking how she can make it up to me and apologizing for wasting my time and money. <br />
<br />
I’m inclined to call horse shit but I’m curious to hear others’ thoughts. Also is it worth spending another night? Flight is tomorrow so I’m leaning towards just getting a hotel room.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[I fucked up in the first date (Tinder-No kiss)]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73042.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2019 19:41:40 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[So I went to this first date in a long while, I havent dated in 5 months or so. It was a really hot eastern european girl. We went for drinks and talked a lot, then I decided to take her to a park where we could sit shoulder to shoulder.<br />
<br />
And I didnt kiss her, despite having her close as fuck for a good while and looking closely into my eyes... When it was obvious that she wanted it 100% (Dont ask me why, im just a beta)<br />
<br />
Then I accompanied her home, where she lives alone and she was giving signals that she wanted me in. I got nervous and just said, see u later and left (at least i could have kissed her as a goodbye but i felt so awkward after the park), u should have seen the expression in her face, like "unbelievable". Not even a kiss in the cheeks. I basically became an omega.<br />
<br />
I fucked up really bad to be honest and what is done is done. Is this even recoverable?<br />
<br />
Should I text her or something?<br />
<br />
I have another date with another girl in 2 days. I hope I dont fuck it up as bad, I will take this as a lesson]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[So I went to this first date in a long while, I havent dated in 5 months or so. It was a really hot eastern european girl. We went for drinks and talked a lot, then I decided to take her to a park where we could sit shoulder to shoulder.<br />
<br />
And I didnt kiss her, despite having her close as fuck for a good while and looking closely into my eyes... When it was obvious that she wanted it 100% (Dont ask me why, im just a beta)<br />
<br />
Then I accompanied her home, where she lives alone and she was giving signals that she wanted me in. I got nervous and just said, see u later and left (at least i could have kissed her as a goodbye but i felt so awkward after the park), u should have seen the expression in her face, like "unbelievable". Not even a kiss in the cheeks. I basically became an omega.<br />
<br />
I fucked up really bad to be honest and what is done is done. Is this even recoverable?<br />
<br />
Should I text her or something?<br />
<br />
I have another date with another girl in 2 days. I hope I dont fuck it up as bad, I will take this as a lesson]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Turning on/off insta account?]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73037.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2019 13:55:00 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Any reason why some girls turn on privacy and turn it off?<br />
<br />
Off/on for some time and vice versa]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Any reason why some girls turn on privacy and turn it off?<br />
<br />
Off/on for some time and vice versa]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Asian Student in Germany - Any Advice?]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73029.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2019 08:44:26 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I'm headed over to Hamburg for a semester abroad and am looking for advice on how to game the ladies. I'm 23, on the shorter side (1.68m/5'6) and probably average in looks (6.5-7). I don't know any German but I'm currently learning what I can. Total newbie, but I think my style would be what most of you would call "beta" game. <br />
<br />
Does anyone have an idea on what type of game I should run? I've travelled a fair bit around Europe and am a pretty good conversationalist. Seems like most of you advise avoiding the German women but a good portion of the other international students (&gt;30%) are American, so not sure if that's where I should go as well. FWIW, I'm at a small private school so there aren't that many people to game, but there's the University of Hamburg nearby. <br />
<br />
I've read some of the few threads/datasheets on Hamburg here, but not sure if the advice would be applicable to my present situation. Any advice related to living in Germany would be welcome as well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I'm headed over to Hamburg for a semester abroad and am looking for advice on how to game the ladies. I'm 23, on the shorter side (1.68m/5'6) and probably average in looks (6.5-7). I don't know any German but I'm currently learning what I can. Total newbie, but I think my style would be what most of you would call "beta" game. <br />
<br />
Does anyone have an idea on what type of game I should run? I've travelled a fair bit around Europe and am a pretty good conversationalist. Seems like most of you advise avoiding the German women but a good portion of the other international students (&gt;30%) are American, so not sure if that's where I should go as well. FWIW, I'm at a small private school so there aren't that many people to game, but there's the University of Hamburg nearby. <br />
<br />
I've read some of the few threads/datasheets on Hamburg here, but not sure if the advice would be applicable to my present situation. Any advice related to living in Germany would be welcome as well.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Feedback regarding apartment location]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73022.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 28 Apr 2019 22:59:15 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi guys, I need some input regarding apartment location. So I just moved to a new city for a new job, currently staying in a hotel. This city is kind of dead in terms of nightlife, but there are cities within ~25 - 45 miles where the nightlife is good.<br />
<br />
Since this is a new job and also a new career for me, I don't want to stay too far away, as there is a learning curve with the work I'm doing. At the same time, because of proximity to these other cities, this move would allow me access to some great night spots.<br />
<br />
I am thinking of staying midway between my work location and one of the cities that is 25 miles away. But the midway point is also a dead place.<br />
<br />
So my question is, should I just stay near my work and do the best by gaming in the nearest city, or should I stay midway, or just live in the nearest city  that is 25 miles away. Fortunately, traffic won't be bad to and from work.<br />
<br />
About me - I have a decent career, am active and fit, have upgraded my style after starting to read this forum, and am more outgoing than when I started on this journey. <br />
<br />
My main goal is to improve my night game, specifically, SNLs. My SNL game sucks, and I feel that staying close to a target-rich location would help me get good at this aspect. <br />
<br />
If I live 25 miles away from the target venue, is it going to be hard to pull from the bar/club? What would be an optimal distance in your opinion? I know that walking distance to the bars in this city would be the best, but this would put me 25 miles away from work, and I will go out just once or twice on weekdays. <br />
<br />
What are some of the other steps that I could take to help me progress in getting same night lays? Thanks for your help, guys.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi guys, I need some input regarding apartment location. So I just moved to a new city for a new job, currently staying in a hotel. This city is kind of dead in terms of nightlife, but there are cities within ~25 - 45 miles where the nightlife is good.<br />
<br />
Since this is a new job and also a new career for me, I don't want to stay too far away, as there is a learning curve with the work I'm doing. At the same time, because of proximity to these other cities, this move would allow me access to some great night spots.<br />
<br />
I am thinking of staying midway between my work location and one of the cities that is 25 miles away. But the midway point is also a dead place.<br />
<br />
So my question is, should I just stay near my work and do the best by gaming in the nearest city, or should I stay midway, or just live in the nearest city  that is 25 miles away. Fortunately, traffic won't be bad to and from work.<br />
<br />
About me - I have a decent career, am active and fit, have upgraded my style after starting to read this forum, and am more outgoing than when I started on this journey. <br />
<br />
My main goal is to improve my night game, specifically, SNLs. My SNL game sucks, and I feel that staying close to a target-rich location would help me get good at this aspect. <br />
<br />
If I live 25 miles away from the target venue, is it going to be hard to pull from the bar/club? What would be an optimal distance in your opinion? I know that walking distance to the bars in this city would be the best, but this would put me 25 miles away from work, and I will go out just once or twice on weekdays. <br />
<br />
What are some of the other steps that I could take to help me progress in getting same night lays? Thanks for your help, guys.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA["Do you do this with a lot of girls?"]]></title>
			<link>https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73015.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 28 Apr 2019 04:47:58 -0400</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[So last weekend i had a girl over, she seemed quite nervous at first, found out later she had only slept with 2 guys before. Both were her boyfriends. So she was quite inexperienced. When i pulled her home and we undressed, she wouldn't let me pull down her panties just yet and she kept saying some weird things. "Do you do this with a lot of girls?" i said not really no and she kept asking "so how many girls have you slept with?". I avoided the question and just told her it didn't matter. I didn't give her an answer. I have been thinking that it could have been a shit test? But im quite confused to why girls ask these stupid questions that don't matter. What exactly is she trying to get out of it?<br />
<br />
I ended up sleeping with her but it took a bit of effort. I assured her shit like this is not a one-night thing with and that this was different bla bla bla and it worked.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[So last weekend i had a girl over, she seemed quite nervous at first, found out later she had only slept with 2 guys before. Both were her boyfriends. So she was quite inexperienced. When i pulled her home and we undressed, she wouldn't let me pull down her panties just yet and she kept saying some weird things. "Do you do this with a lot of girls?" i said not really no and she kept asking "so how many girls have you slept with?". I avoided the question and just told her it didn't matter. I didn't give her an answer. I have been thinking that it could have been a shit test? But im quite confused to why girls ask these stupid questions that don't matter. What exactly is she trying to get out of it?<br />
<br />
I ended up sleeping with her but it took a bit of effort. I assured her shit like this is not a one-night thing with and that this was different bla bla bla and it worked.]]></content:encoded>
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