Post: #1

Let me preface this post with a key points:

-23 years old, NYC
-Most of the bangs came from Tinder/OKC here in the city or from bars

Whats next for me? Something to give game/sex a new flavor/challenge for me?

I've never done cold approach so would be interested in trying that, but i cant do day game due to my job.. Would have to game girls on the street at night

Try to score older women? Threesome game? Increase SNL rates? Just curious what you've done when you felt you needed to give yourself a new challenge when it comes to women

Post: #2

My first advice would be it's cool to kind of challenge yourself and have fun with gaming, but at the same point don't make it such a challenge that you don't enjoy yourself. In my earlier years I've found myself burning myself out just trying to do too much to the point I wasn't even enjoying myself bouncing from one date to another, swinging by a diff chicks place every night latelight after a date, etc.

I would say a good challenge is just to up the quality level. You didn't mention how these 50 chichs looked but honesty anyone can hit 6's off tinder and other sites all day long, getting 8s, 9,s and 10,s is a challenge though. Also, take the game to street game and real life. I'll be the first to admit I'm lazy and maybe a bit reserved and use online as a crutch sometimes.

Post: #3

they are good looking. Pretty much all white women (45-50 of them) and I am not white, so definitely more prized bangs in my eyes. I would easily be over 100 if I fucked girls my own race haha

Post: #4

I've never done cold approach so would be interested in trying that, but i cant do day game due to my job.. Would have to game girls on the street at night

I don't think you can be well-versed in game without practicing cold approach, whether that be at day or night. It's worlds apart from online game, which is really just show up with a good profile and mass spam hot girls (there's follow up text game and getting them to meet up), but you will improve your body language, conversation skills, and calibration with live, in-person approaches.

Post: #5

Try banging quality. Even strong good-looking guys have much more trouble securing 8s and 9s with massive options. Go clubs - approach models or celebrities. There are always greater challenges ahead.

Post: #6

If you're trying to improve

- cold approach
- night game and day game
- learn how to expand your own social circle
- more attractive/harder to get to girls
- flags - girls from different countries
- sexual bucket list.

It won't make you any happier than you are now though.

WIA

Post: #7

If you feel like "what is there left?"

You could just focus on other aspects of your life

Post: #8

"Most of the bangs came from Tinder/OKC here in the city or from bars"

How do you get lays in bars without cold approaching them ???

Post: #9

(04-04-2015 03:03 PM)B-Nut Wrote:  How do you get lays in bars without cold approaching them ???

Post: #10

So it sounds like we've gone from zero date bangs to zero approach bangs.

Post: #11

(04-04-2015 03:03 PM)B-Nut Wrote:  "Most of the bangs came from Tinder/OKC here in the city or from bars"

How do you get lays in bars without cold approaching them ???

Approaching a woman at a bar isn't a cold approach to me. She's in a social environment where she EXPECTS to be spoken to. To me, a cold approach is approaching a girl in a non-traditional environment (i.e. walking on the street, in a mall, at starbucks, etc.) Two completely different situations...

Post: #12

Quote:Approaching a woman at a bar isn't a cold approach to me. She's in a social environment where she EXPECTS to be spoken to. To me, a cold approach is approaching a girl in a non-traditional environment (i.e. walking on the street, in a mall, at starbucks, etc.) Two completely different situations...

The definition of an approach is entirely dependent on a girl's mental expectation?

Post: #13

(04-04-2015 03:51 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  Approaching a woman at a bar isn't a cold approach to me.

Post: #14

Same, so I'll give you some pointers

1. Whatever goal you choose, don't get herpes doing it
2. 3 some game
3. Collect more flags

Post: #15

Yeah man I totally think speaking to random girls at Starbucks isn't cold approach either,

I mean it's a social place she totally expects me to ask if she likes to put cream in her coffee

Post: #16

50 bang from OKC/Tinder and bars without cold approaching? Wow. Not even the most good looking buddies with game I know pull like that. And I'm in Paris.

Too bad ass, that approaching in bar doesn't even count? Maybe you what's next for you is approaching brides at wedding

And almost all white girls while being non-white himself? High baller troll and subtle race troll all in one.

Guys who have banged 50 girls do not talk like this. And certainly dont go on online forum asks for "what's next" question.

OP must have been one of the 12 apostles of Little Dark our lord protector

Im surprised he still managed to squeeze out a few advice. Guys on rvf are too generous

Post: #17

Trying banging in "exotic places"(i use the term lightly), a stall, a dressing room in a Mall, a bar, a restaurant, in some sort of moving vehicle, a park during daylight. etc. this will add some excitement, and challenge.

Post: #18

Focus on self-improvement that will pay off in the long term (ex : career, learning a new language). There's always room for improvement, and the worst thing we can do is to stop improving/learning.

Post: #19

(04-04-2015 08:00 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  50 bang from OKC/Tinder and bars without cold approaching? Wow. Not even the most good looking buddies with game I know pull like that. And I'm in Paris.

Too bad ass, that approaching in bar doesn't even count? Maybe you what's next for you is approaching brides at wedding

And almost all white girls while being non-white himself? High baller troll and subtle race troll all in one.

Guys who have banged 50 girls do not talk like this. And certainly dont go on online forum asks for "what's next" question.

OP must have been one of the 12 apostles of Little Dark our lord protector

Im surprised he still managed to squeeze out a few advice. Guys on rvf are too generous

I've been here for nearly two years. I'm not trolling about a thing.

we are just arguing about semantics here.

was I trolling when I made this thread nearly two years ago?

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Post: #20

So 45-50 quality bangs from Tinder and OKC? My spidey senses are tingling.

One the one hand, NYC is the city that slutes from all over the world come to to live it up and ride the carousel, on the other hand.....What everyone else is saying.

Post: #21

(04-04-2015 10:40 PM)Fortis Wrote:  So 45-50 quality bangs from Tinder and OKC? My spidey senses are tingling.

One the one hand, NYC is the city that slutes from all over the world come to to live it up and ride the carousel, on the other hand.....What everyone else is saying.

He's 23 and in NYC, that's not out of this world at all.
And he's been rocking since 18, that's ~1 girl every month.

If the internet is your culture, you've got the energy and the lust, and you're in one of the best pick up environments in the country - you should be doing #'s like that.

The homey soup did 1 a week for a year, primarily from online.

I'm more surprised that he didn't find one fine chick that he just wanted to chill with.
That's usually what stops most guys. They run through 6's and 7's, and then meet a chick that's an 8, who also happens to be cool. Suddenly they're in love.

Love knocks out a lot of players. I know i've been hit with the okey doke before.

WIA

Post: #22

^ That's what I'm saying. Trust me, I know lol. I live outside of NYC and whenever I get a particularly hot match they're almost always based in NYC and it pisses me off. If there is any place where a guy can put in work online and pull a different woman every week it is NYC.

Good for him that he hasn't let a cool chick lock him down just yet. I know too many guys who get locked down by the first decent looking girl who comes their way. Hell, I know a few cats who let themselves get locked down by cool 5s. IF she's cool I guess it works, but I couldn't be caught in a relationship with a five. Something about that just hurts to think about and hurts to see.

The only thing that makes me agree with others that this guy is possibly lying is that he's saying they're all quality. I doubt even soup banged 7+ every week. Also this whole thing about cold approaching and such has me doubting this fellow. Not that it really fucking matters.

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In the event that you're not lying: What next? I don't know. Are you enjoying yourself. If you're digging it, then keep on going. Don't let dogmatic pick up attitudes sway you. Some guys swear that your lays don't count unless you met her from cold approach. Whatever. I'd say that you should find a way to make this more fun for yourself. If you find night game fun, start trying to pull the majority of your lays that way. If you find day game fun then try to pull chicks from cold approaching in the middle of the day. Whatever keeps you interested.

Post: #23

Assuming legitimacy (which is difficult, this question seems so obvious to answer, so its purpose is more than likely something else):
I like to keep a list of goals in this area which are specific, and either a stretch or just satisfying a curiosity. Hypothetical examples:
- A girl over 30
- An Uzbekistani girl
- Threesome
- Approach to bang under 1 hour
- Sex on beach
- Daygame approach to bang in one interaction

You should be able to pull all that off in a week and without cold approaching right?

Post: #24

Only 23 and the OP has already found out that there's nothing behind the curtain and the best part of game was the jaunt up the Yellow Brick Road.

Post: #25

Shit bro you've already banged 50 broads.
get a rotation going. Have one for every day of the week.
start introducing them to each other. Thats how to crack off 3somes. Call 10 say you're having a get together. Call 2 of your boys. when everyone is there? Music. Party. The whole time you're throwing innuendos "hey Ashley Jen's hot eh, you keep looking at her!"
But hell man you've already banged 50 broads which is very normal for 23, so I assume you'd already know which gurls have kissed girls or are freaky. Go through the black book and have some fun.