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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-10-2015 10:21 AM)Holy(Muff)Diver Wrote: Hey, good thread.
I've been experimenting with fast seduction and going for quick lays as soon as meet girls off various different apps. After a few line exchanges, I tell them to come straight over to my place. This has only worked once for me. I ended up laying this chubby girl that was a 5 at best. The only English words she could speak (or rather, scream) were "OH BABY, OH BABY!" as I fucked her raw-dog. In hindsight, it wasn't such a bright idea but I never ended up catching anything. lmao
Anyway, I met a university student earlier tonight. I told her to come over and she asked where I live. I tell her and she says its too far for her. We continue talking and she says she wants me to sing her a song and then she'll "fall straight into my arms." Is this a shit test, or should I actually sing for her?
In the West, its a shit test and you should not
In China, they love kareoke and they LOVE to listen to westerner's sing.
I woo'ed a girl by singing wonderwall in a kareoke place.
Wonderwall has gotten me laid so many times...
People love to hate it, but they love it.
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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-10-2015 10:21 AM)Holy(Muff)Diver Wrote: Hey, good thread.
I've been experimenting with fast seduction and going for quick lays as soon as meet girls off various different apps. After a few line exchanges, I tell them to come straight over to my place. This has only worked once for me. I ended up laying this chubby girl that was a 5 at best. The only English words she could speak (or rather, scream) were "OH BABY, OH BABY!" as I fucked her raw-dog. In hindsight, it wasn't such a bright idea but I never ended up catching anything. lmao
Anyway, I met a university student earlier tonight. I told her to come over and she asked where I live. I tell her and she says its too far for her. We continue talking and she says she wants me to sing her a song and then she'll "fall straight into my arms." Is this a shit test, or should I actually sing for her?
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(02-19-2015 03:43 PM)TravelerKai Wrote: (02-19-2015 01:35 PM)Fortis Wrote: Atlant,
How do most english teachers dress? I'm going to china and want to avoid any sort of stigmas if I can help it. I"m assuming they wear poorly fitted clothing and look like shit? Any examples though?
In China that teacher stigma is not as bad as Taiwan. Lots there literally have no opinion on it. A few hot ones there told me before online before my first trip hey wished I would stay and teach English there.
For us non white guys, the kinds of women that would scoff at a teacher would not date you anyway. Rely on the exotic factor and your game.
For what it's worth I stole Chinese girls from 3 white engineers, 2 of which I had no idea, 1 I did not care. You could easily take them from White dudes that are teachers as well by having actual game and not being lame as fuck. The women are not as money hungry as people think. They are more potential or success hungry than actual money. Many Chinese women, especially the multi lingual ones, want romance very badly. Quite a few love R&B and country music love songs. I got plenty play out of using the Lady Antebellum song. As well as Brian McKnight, Case, ginuwine, Avant, etc. Invite them to your place to listen to some stuff or send them a nice song over qq. It reminds them of you and gets you in their heads.
Just don't dress like Africans. They wear boat shoes, shorts, and Tommy hilfiger. Stuff like that. Some dress very hip hop like but screw it up. It looks very try hard. Keep it simple and neat.
Looking like an American is not hard for us, but for them it is. I would avoid hip hop looks as well. It really isn't popular there like guys sometimes like to say it is. Not like Thailand or the Philippines.
Edit: Oh yeah make sure you send them the lyrics to the song so they can read or translate that. Corny love stuff like this works like a charm in China. Poems are okay but only girls with really good English can understand them.
It's a shit test but a super easy one. They want romance. Hook her up and see if she hooks you up. It's that simple. If you are like me and suck at singing, they don't care, do some KTV with them. That's a homerun right there. Especially if you try to sing a Chinese song.
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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-11-2015 10:57 AM)Lizard King Wrote: Apologies for the slightly off-topic post.
I was reading this thread yesterday, and decided to try Wechat for the hell of it(I live in the UK). Anyway, I have a date with a 24 year old Chinese girl tonight. This is a completely new experience for me, and I am a little lost as to how to proceed. She refused to meet me in public or at a bar/pub/cafe, and suggested she came to my home. If an English girl was going to come to my home, I would assume that she was DTF, but I can't make that assumption with this girl as I have no experience of Chinese women.
Suggestions welcomed.
Hmm.. May sound weird, but in this situation, use Tuthmosis' datasheet and this thread:
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Make sure you are relaxed and feel her out first. Use common sense. Some women are too smart for their own good, especially Chinese women, and might use a bold move like this to shit test you. Chances are good she is just super curious or a freak.
If you don't get a first date bang, just work her a second or third time. Chinese women's magic number is always 3. (for regular girls at least)
Make sure you have a good setup and prepare before she comes well like the guys talk about in that thread.
Good luck.
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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-11-2015 11:49 AM)Lizard King Wrote: Thanks mate.
I think I was allowing some fear/confusion to develop because I'm going in to uncharted territory, but that's half the fun.
My experience with chinese girls is that they are really easy to play. I wont say game because honestly dealing with them is the way dealing with girls should work, and I haven't been studying game long (Ive been relying on my looks, job, and 8 years of public speaking training) Anyways, The culture doesn't really encourage individuality. The majority of the women in china follow the same patterns. Go to university, get a job they hate, and on weekends shop and eat with friends when they arent complaining about how much their life sucks. I have had several girls tell me that they dont have a favorite anything that everything in life is " dont hate and dont like". They want to be excited a little bit and they want some romance (something that most chinese men arent very good at). Unless your chinese is really good or she has great english game is going to be hard to get across. Even simple jokes can leave them staring blankly. Keep it simple, be a little romantic, but push the kino and get a kiss on the first date minimum. You can try game and see how she reacts. But like another poster said most will go to bed with you on the second or thrid date. Its not hard and they are pretty cute and feminine so its actually pretty fun getting to that point. If you go hard asshole usually though you may not have great results.
This wasnt just for you, I dont think your inexperienced or anything. Just saw some opportunity to drop my opinion on the asians since my style of game works very well on them. Ill be trying more techniques out of Bang myself as I read through it and my chinese improves. But game isnt needed much other than kina, confidence, and a good smile.
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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-15-2015 06:28 PM)Duly.noted Wrote: (03-11-2015 11:49 AM)Lizard King Wrote: Thanks mate.
I think I was allowing some fear/confusion to develop because I'm going in to uncharted territory, but that's half the fun.
My experience with chinese girls is that they are really easy to play. I wont say game because honestly dealing with them is the way dealing with girls should work, and I haven't been studying game long (Ive been relying on my looks, job, and 8 years of public speaking training) Anyways, The culture doesn't really encourage individuality. The majority of the women in china follow the same patterns. Go to university, get a job they hate, and on weekends shop and eat with friends when they arent complaining about how much their life sucks. I have had several girls tell me that they dont have a favorite anything that everything in life is " dont hate and dont like". They want to be excited a little bit and they want some romance (something that most chinese men arent very good at). Unless your chinese is really good or she has great english game is going to be hard to get across. Even simple jokes can leave them staring blankly. Keep it simple, be a little romantic, but push the kino and get a kiss on the first date minimum. You can try game and see how she reacts. But like another poster said most will go to bed with you on the second or thrid date. Its not hard and they are pretty cute and feminine so its actually pretty fun getting to that point. If you go hard asshole usually though you may not have great results.
This wasnt just for you, I dont think your inexperienced or anything. Just saw some opportunity to drop my opinion on the asians since my style of game works very well on them. Ill be trying more techniques out of Bang myself as I read through it and my chinese improves. But game isnt needed much other than kina, confidence, and a good smile.
Your insight and information is useful, thanks.
I was apprehensive because I had never had any kind of interaction with a Chinese person before, knew very little about the culture/people etc.
I found her to be a typical Millennial female: smart phone addict, materialistic, not very affectionate. The sex was OK, but she just lay there, so I probably should have built more comfort to get her into it more. I think she is in a relationship and likes to bang on the side.
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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-16-2015 02:46 AM)Lizard King Wrote: (03-15-2015 06:28 PM)Duly.noted Wrote: (03-11-2015 11:49 AM)Lizard King Wrote: Thanks mate.
I think I was allowing some fear/confusion to develop because I'm going in to uncharted territory, but that's half the fun.
My experience with chinese girls is that they are really easy to play. I wont say game because honestly dealing with them is the way dealing with girls should work, and I haven't been studying game long (Ive been relying on my looks, job, and 8 years of public speaking training) Anyways, The culture doesn't really encourage individuality. The majority of the women in china follow the same patterns. Go to university, get a job they hate, and on weekends shop and eat with friends when they arent complaining about how much their life sucks. I have had several girls tell me that they dont have a favorite anything that everything in life is " dont hate and dont like". They want to be excited a little bit and they want some romance (something that most chinese men arent very good at). Unless your chinese is really good or she has great english game is going to be hard to get across. Even simple jokes can leave them staring blankly. Keep it simple, be a little romantic, but push the kino and get a kiss on the first date minimum. You can try game and see how she reacts. But like another poster said most will go to bed with you on the second or thrid date. Its not hard and they are pretty cute and feminine so its actually pretty fun getting to that point. If you go hard asshole usually though you may not have great results.
This wasnt just for you, I dont think your inexperienced or anything. Just saw some opportunity to drop my opinion on the asians since my style of game works very well on them. Ill be trying more techniques out of Bang myself as I read through it and my chinese improves. But game isnt needed much other than kina, confidence, and a good smile.
Your insight and information is useful, thanks.
I was apprehensive because I had never had any kind of interaction with a Chinese person before, knew very little about the culture/people etc.
I found her to be a typical Millennial female: smart phone addict, materialistic, not very affectionate. The sex was OK, but she just lay there, so I probably should have built more comfort to get her into it more. I think she is in a relationship and likes to bang on the side.
Are you in Asia? Or the united states? Because if you are stateside they aren't much different than American girls. Just hotter. Although that might just be my yellow fever lol. Using that app tantan I have actually had some success finding girls in larger US cities. I spoof my gps coordinates for that and tinder so I can check out any city or location before I go there. Tantan was a new add to this scoping system but its going well. Ive been trying to identify the areas of my city in china with the highest concentration of hot girls. If you do it with tinder you can check out a city a day before you go and see if you get any good results.
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Shijiazhuang has a very low foreigner population, so you're novelty is quite high there, and its a very populous city. I didn't find a lot of lookers there myself, but no doubt they exist.
Cid, I'd consider trying to hit a club there if I were you. You'll definitely get some heavy attention, I'd think. When I went to clubs outside the city centers in Shenzhen, it was instant DHV/SMV. Girls literally competing for my attention. The only problem was my hosts were trying to graciously (in their minds) arrange for company for me by paying for it, while I'd rather earn it. Anyway, see if you can check one out.
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RE: Dating Guide for Mainland China
(03-18-2015 11:57 PM)dogthom Wrote: I'm considering Beijing as my next stop...
But I'm wondering: Are a lot of these girls okay with being used for sex?
China is still a conservative country, and if you start banging non-Pro's some of them might think you are interested in marriage.
It's unfair to lead women on, and it can also be dangerous in some countries.
The language barrier can complicate things somewhat as well when it comes to making your intentions clear that this is just for fun, and nothing serious.
I live in Beijing. There are a lot of girls that would expect a relationship, but I manage to get laid a bunch without being a dick or disappointing women.
Also, Beijing is an international city. It's not like there are only local women here. You can bang Russian sluts, Thai sluts, American sluts, Taiwanese sluts, etc.
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