Post: #3651

I must be getting player fatigue.

I have 3 girls I'm working to try to squeeze a bang out of, at this point I'd just rather fap to the thought of them than put in the work to further the text game trench and set up things for date1 and date2's double booking, timing days and schedules and all that. And I am out of town again the weekend which throws a wrench into trying to nail down these bangs within the week.

Post: #3652

OKC is KILLING ME, i have good openers and responses but as soon as I try to number close these attention whores ghost on me.

Tinder's doing ok for me.

@travesty Yeah I feel like I'm getting that also, I've got a busy schedule to begin with, also a main girl, fitting in a dtf or a new date is tough .

I notice I don't really give a shit what I'm texting right now. I need to take a step back and focus catching up on my work and handling things around the house.

I feel super stressed out, the only real time I enjoy is with my main when we're banging and she complements my nights.

Post: #3653

I get a lot of validation and esteem from knowing that a girl wants me. So while I feel good about fucking a girl, I feel bad when I don't here from her or she makes it difficult to see her again. It's kind of a vicious cycle that I would like to master. Any thoughts?

Post: #3654

Fuck them better

Youre probably not being dominant and rough enough or cumming too quick

Post: #3655

(10-01-2014 05:42 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Fuck them better

Youre probably not being dominant and rough enough or cumming too quick

THIS.

How exactly are you fucking them ? Just hard ?

Or slapping, choking, whips/cuffs/blindfolds, etc ?

I've ventured far out of my missionary position, every man should do this and be comfortable in the bedroom.

Post: #3656

I fuck like shit. 7 years of bland "love making" to my wife. I guess I lack confidence and experience in that respect. I was afraid that's what it was.

Post: #3657

Damn this cute girl who I sit next to just cut her hair into a bob and went from an 8 to a 5.5. It went all the way down to her butt before now it's at her shoulders. My hair is almost as long as hers. It's sad, really. When will they learn? At least she didn't get a buzz.

Post: #3658

Dupe

Post: #3659

(10-01-2014 05:57 PM)Rage_on Wrote:  I fuck like shit. 7 years of bland "love making" to my wife. I guess I lack confidence and experience in that respect. I was afraid that's what it was.

You'll get there bro. Just remember, chicks love being dominated in bed. Smack the ass, pull the hair, talk dirty to her, forcibly throw her one position into another. This is a requirement for dating younger girls. Guys their age don't know how to fuck, and of the big advantages older guys have is sexual experience.

There's a solid post on this somewhere. Giovonny drops gems on the regular, let me see if I can find some posts to link.

Post: #3660

(09-30-2014 08:07 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(09-30-2014 03:23 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  back to back first dates today:

date 1: coffee shop
date 2: mall. Told her I needed to go pick up some new cologne. My theory is this will go well because all females love shopping, and I'm guaranteed to have a bottle of cologne that I know she loves.

Oh, both are 19. A ten year age difference.

date 1 flaked. actually the first flake I've had in a long time.
date 2 went swimmingly. although she had her sister with her at the mall. Both those chicks are hot, good genes in that family. We'll see where it goes, I'm hoping I can pull the decade-bang (10 year age difference) off, but you can never tell with chicks that age.

10 years is nothing. There's no difference at that age between 26-36 [and 46 in some cases] for them. You're simply 'older.' If you're in shape and don't show your age they will hook up with you if they like you.

Post: #3661

Successfully gamed 2 girls in the past 24 hours.

1) Last nite met this tall blonde German around 26. Former ballerina, no longer super thin. We got slightly drunk, talked about the Zodiac [lol girls...however she did guess my sign within 2 minutes of meeting me with zero hints!] and she gladly showed off some of her moves in a dark corner of the bar for me. Legs 100% awesome. Kept rubbing her ass all over me. However, she lives ~100mi away and was visiting friends. Got the #, she was really into me, if she comes back into town this one is in the bag. Really sweet feminine face.

2) Walking near a park today, saw this petite brunette 20-21yr old waiting near the entrance. Dressed very well, but looking down at the ground, like in that 'waiting' mode face was neutral and not smiling or frowning. I walked over to her and complimented her neutral-tone outfit.
Some people call this immense effort 'Day Game,' I call it 'what I do between meetings.'

She very slowly looked up, starting at the shoes, then the suit, shirt, and when she got to the tie/pocket square combo she had a smile on her face. Finally she makes eye contact and blurts out 'You're hot!' with a huge grin.
Gentleman, I think that's an IOI.

I agreed, and we chatted a bit, seemed to be holding back a little, but had the sparkly eyes. couldn't instadate due to some study thing with the girl she was waiting for [I think going to a museum iirc] when she turned down ice cream I knew it was important. Gave me her digits and I did as well of course.

Phone has blown up in the past few hours with various texts and photos [so far sfw]. This girl is ~half my age. They honestly don't care if they like you.

Lesson #7 of Game: Some girls are just dying to be opened.
I bet it was 50% my game, 25% she loves suited up guys, 25% broke up over the summer and needs a bf but is not outgoing.

Lesson #29: You will never know which girls will think you're handsome if you don't get them to look at you.

Post: #3662

(10-01-2014 07:45 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(10-01-2014 05:57 PM)Rage_on Wrote:  I fuck like shit. 7 years of bland "love making" to my wife. I guess I lack confidence and experience in that respect. I was afraid that's what it was.

You'll get there bro. Just remember, chicks love being dominated in bed. Smack the ass, pull the hair, talk dirty to her, forcibly throw her one position into another. This is a requirement for dating younger girls. Guys their age don't know how to fuck, and of the big advantages older guys have is sexual experience.

There's a solid post on this somewhere. Giovonny drops gems on the regular, let me see if I can find some posts to link.

There are many solid threads and gems on this. The BDSM thread is a great place to start.

Post: #3663

Last night I got drinks with a girl I fucked two weekends ago because I want to set up a consistent rotation.

After a few drinks, the night we had sex came up in conversation. She went on about how she thought I wasn't gonna call her back or something (she even left her necklace at my place). Anyways, she eventually said how hot it was that I dominated her and she commented how strong I was, and I'd never call myself strong. She used to be with some beta dude who probably softly had sex with her and bought her food all the time. She said she'd never been fucked like that before. Bottom line, you'd be surprised at how much chicks love it when you get physical and dominate them. I'm learning this first hand and it's awesome.

Just be assertive and don't apologize. Hold her hands/arms down when you're face to face and pull her hair when you're going from behind. Maybe push her face into the pillow. She won't forget.

Post: #3664

(09-29-2014 02:22 PM)AfgScarface Wrote:  Trojam naturalambs worked for me but they are expensive. Almost feels like the real deal.

I tried those a couple times, the most memorable impression I have is that they literally stunk.

Post: #3665

(10-01-2014 10:39 PM)horn Wrote:  

(10-01-2014 07:45 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(10-01-2014 05:57 PM)Rage_on Wrote:  I fuck like shit. 7 years of bland "love making" to my wife. I guess I lack confidence and experience in that respect. I was afraid that's what it was.

You'll get there bro. Just remember, chicks love being dominated in bed. Smack the ass, pull the hair, talk dirty to her, forcibly throw her one position into another. This is a requirement for dating younger girls. Guys their age don't know how to fuck, and of the big advantages older guys have is sexual experience.

There's a solid post on this somewhere. Giovonny drops gems on the regular, let me see if I can find some posts to link.

There are many solid threads and gems on this. The BDSM thread is a great place to start.

It's worth noting that you can be dominant/masculine in the sack without having to go anywhere near real BDSM...although a couple of BDSM moves can really help without having to go into the society.

I wouldn't consider spanking to be BDSM unless you are really going hard. Tying one wrist/arm to the bed is so mild it barely qualifies. Ditto on grabbing the hair.

Post: #3666

(10-01-2014 10:46 PM)keysersoze Wrote:  Last night I got drinks with a girl I fucked two weekends ago because I want to set up a consistent rotation.

After a few drinks, the night we had sex came up in conversation. She went on about how she thought I wasn't gonna call her back or something (she even left her necklace at my place). Anyways, she eventually said how hot it was that I dominated her and she commented how strong I was, and I'd never call myself strong. She used to be with some beta dude who probably softly had sex with her and bought her food all the time. She said she'd never been fucked like that before. Bottom line, you'd be surprised at how much chicks love it when you get physical and dominate them. I'm learning this first hand and it's awesome.

Just be assertive and don't apologize. Hold her hands/arms down when you're face to face and pull her hair when you're going from behind. Maybe push her face into the pillow. She won't forget.

Think of sexual performance as a parallel to what we teach about game - most guys are too beta, shoot themselves in the foot, and have poor performance that is self-inflicted. You up the leadership and boldness and you go from gray-man in her eyes to a colorful stud who gives her a good time.

You wonder why chicks become Alpha Widows? Because there are so few guys who can really do it for them in the sack, and they don't forget.

(Personally, my go-to move recently has been nibbling/biting the neck - thanks MikeCF - which normally produces a nice involuntary inhalation of breath coinciding with the gina tingles.)

Post: #3667

Hah so one girl had flaked this morning, another finally texted me back and invited me over to her apartment jaccuzzi

Almost had another notch with the tall blonde she may have no tits but she's got that tight firm ass. Soooo much LMR and no's so i backed off in paranoia.

Good thing is I know she loves it rough and she dug what I was doing to her.

I really doubt I'd have the bang, but whatever, my intentions are extemely clear to her.

Love being aggressive.

Post: #3668

Problem is i tried cavemaning a few times, then waited it out also, im wondering if there was anything else i could do.

She even said "im not that easy" to which i said "im not either" she also said "i'll have less self control" as I moved her from the couch to her bed.

Post: #3669

I know there is a lot of threads on RSD and their relevancy but I really like this video.

Post: #3670

One of my clients is a 25 year old model. The girl looked like she was a soft 7, but upon mentioning she was a model (acted like I wasn't interested of course) she showed me her pictures and kept trying to impress me.

She looked way better in her pictures, like a solid 9. Debating whether to hook up after my work is done or let her introduce me to her model friends.

Post: #3671

(10-02-2014 02:27 PM)simondice Wrote:  One of my clients is a 25 year old model. The girl looked like she was a soft 7, but upon mentioning she was a model (acted like I wasn't interested of course) she showed me her pictures and kept trying to impress me.

She looked way better in her pictures, like a solid 9. Debating whether to hook up after my work is done or let her introduce me to her model friends.

Why not do both ? Introduce first, bang her, then her friends ?

Post: #3672

(10-02-2014 12:19 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  Think of sexual performance as a parallel to what we teach about game - most guys are too beta, shoot themselves in the foot, and have poor performance that is self-inflicted. You up the leadership and boldness and you go from gray-man in her eyes to a colorful stud who gives her a good time.

You wonder why chicks become Alpha Widows? Because there are so few guys who can really do it for them in the sack, and they don't forget.

(Personally, my go-to move recently has been nibbling/biting the neck - thanks MikeCF - which normally produces a nice involuntary inhalation of breath coinciding with the gina tingles.)

Absolutely. It's incredibly ironic, because when I was more beta, and I was actually really into a girl, I would not fuck them as aggressively. The less I give a shit, the more dominant I am, resulting in better (or at least more memorable) sex. It's a strange paradox.

But yeah, this probably further has to do with why women cheat. After having sex so many times, I'm sure the aggressiveness fades a bit, so they crave it from a new partner.

The neck is a great place. I like to bite the ear too.

Post: #3673

You control the frame you control the game.

I repeat this to myself when I have mental fatigue from harem management, new prospects, work, and alcohol/drug abuse.

It works.

I had sex with pretty damn attractive 23yo half Thai half white Brit looks mostly Thai from a campus day game approach. Turns out she was a virgin. She already sees us in a sort of relationship. She's been nothing but cool to me. I am going along with it for mental well-being. I can't scratch her as a harem girl. It goes against my principles. I am treating this one with some grace. She deserves it.

Post: #3674

(10-02-2014 04:58 PM)keysersoze Wrote:  

(10-02-2014 12:19 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  Think of sexual performance as a parallel to what we teach about game - most guys are too beta, shoot themselves in the foot, and have poor performance that is self-inflicted. You up the leadership and boldness and you go from gray-man in her eyes to a colorful stud who gives her a good time.

You wonder why chicks become Alpha Widows? Because there are so few guys who can really do it for them in the sack, and they don't forget.

(Personally, my go-to move recently has been nibbling/biting the neck - thanks MikeCF - which normally produces a nice involuntary inhalation of breath coinciding with the gina tingles.)

Absolutely. It's incredibly ironic, because when I was more beta, and I was actually really into a girl, I would not fuck them as aggressively. The less I give a shit, the more dominant I am, resulting in better (or at least more memorable) sex. It's a strange paradox.

But yeah, this probably further has to do with why women cheat. After having sex so many times, I'm sure the aggressiveness fades a bit, so they crave it from a new partner.

The neck is a great place. I like to bite the ear too.

I have a rotation and it can be boring, chasing a new girl and fucking her ? Completely Aggro.

I suggest guys invest in at least a good whip, maybe some shackles, blinders (the ones you sleep in), some rope also.

After a good make out my first kino go to back of the base of the head, gribbing the hair and pulling it straight back and chomping on their neck.

Post: #3675

I had a girl at my house. Since I have no television she asked, "what do you do with your free time?"
"I read a lot, write some, and I play guitar....also I try to fuck lots of girls."
"I like that one the best", she said.
This is amazing to me. I never would have dreamed of saying something like that to a girl I was interested in. Girls aren't what I'd hoped they were my whole life. This is difficult for me, however, they're are a lot easier to get in the sack. It's a strange paradox. Either cling to the lofty notions of the beautiful princess, and always be disappointed. Or fuck em and toss em and be disappointed. At least the latter is honest.