Post: #51

If I remember it correctly, they met working at mom and pop Italian restaurant in which they were both employed at. She witnessed him do some alpha type activities while there, like stab a guys tires in the parking lot(the guy drove away without protest). They dated for a while and nearly broke it off during brief periods, but they've been married for 28 years. I don't know all of what he did to have her think he walks on water, but I'll give him credit that he has some airtight marriage game as it's called in these parts. I used to ask her for money behind his back and even though she would hand me some in secret, he would be bitching at me the next time I saw him. She's never cheated to any of our knowledge, loves him greatly and supports nearly every stance/argument/opinion he puts out. It's annoying as his child, but respectful as an outside perspective

Post: #52

Captain of the High-school weightlifting team game.

Still today I can't hold a candle to my old man in strength.

Fucker is still pinning me with ease at 65.

Post: #53

My parents were 18 when they met. It was through mutual friends in a nightclub. Before my father said a word to my mother he just took her drink from her hand, swollowed it without asking and put it back down somewhere. Didn't look at her or say anything.

That was their first interaction.

"What an asshole!" my mother thought when she first met him

They crossed paths a few more times afterwards (mutual social circle and all). A few weeks (or months?) later she was in love with him.

Post: #54

pa was beta, met my mother who was working in the library during college. they've been together since

Post: #55

He had reformed bad-boy game (used to do some work for Rayful Edmond in the 80's). Met my mom on a double date. She had a gov't job, he was doing construction and trying to straighten up his life.

She got pregnant with me, threatened to leave if he ever got back into that shit, and they've been together since. Going on 30 years.

Post: #56

My father met my mom on a wedding she did not want to go to. Appearently she was on her own so he invited her to join his table. I think my father was 24 and my mother 22. After that initial meeting they started dating.

My father told me he had a lot of women around at the time but my mother made the best wife material in his eyes.
It is incredible what kind of Red Pill knowledge my father always spits when we talk about women and life. He figured it all out just through life experience.
He was and still is Alpha as fuck.

I guess that is what growing up in the soviet union does for you.

Post: #57

Actually had a conversation about this. My dad being asian actually put forth the effort and learned how to dance tango and all that stuff to pick up hispanics in the clubs . To this day my mom genuinely believes my dad loves to dance when he said to me "it was only did it to get women. " lol .

Post: #58

My dad used "I'm a charming bad boy who plays in a rock band and does drugs" Game. My stepfather used "Hypergamous woman who married a shiftless bad-boy, realized her mistake, and is going after her equally-aged boss with a good future and income potential" Game.

Post: #59

I'm not sure about my Dads game he used on my mom. He was a good bit older then her tho.

I know my Granddad went up to my Grandma at the drive in and took her hand, kissed it, and told her she was beautiful an thats how they met, it was a wrap after that. They are still together to this day... although he cheated on her numerous times. He was still banging out 20 year olds when he was in his early 80s. (money game by that point) But back in the day he was a smooth player with movie star good looks and self made money.

Post: #60

I posted about this in another thread but I'll add it here:

Parents met in high school. My dad was one of, if not the only foreign people in a small town. He had some issues at home, was suspended from school, was a year older than my mom, and was dating one of her friends before he ditched her for my mom.

They went to different undergrads. My dad dropped out after a year because it was "too nerdy". With no money and nowhere to go, he moved in with my mom's mom, who was a lawyer and taught classes at a lower tier college. Dad ended up going to this school while stocking shelves at K-Mart. Parents ended up staying together despite the distance between them. My red pill guess is this is because my mom's mom was in love with my dad, and this made my mom want to stay with him even while away at school. Anyway they ended up getting married in their mid 20s, moving across the country, then popping out me. My dad kept on top of his self improvement, worked his ass off, and my parents are still married to this day.

Basically: bad boy game from a broke motherfucker with a green card won over a privileged white girl with plenty of parental money.

Post: #61

Blind date I believe.

Post: #62

(04-11-2012 10:37 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  Lately, I've been been asking every married or LTR couple, young and old, how they met. Then, I ask--sometimes in a less direct way--what game the guy used on the girl. If the male and the female are there, I ask them both. Invariably, every single one of these stories have some clear game principles evident: the guy was bold, aggressive, DHV'd, didn't give a fuck, etc. It's super-interesting, and I highly recommend it as an entertaining learning exercise.

I've also starting asking how people's parents met--for basically the same reasons. Of course, depending on where and when they're from, the old-scholers lived in a totally different world than us. Less whoring, more LTR-ing, more feminine women, more old-school chivalry, the list goes on.

How did your parents meet? And, what game did you dad drop on your mom? If you don't know, find the fuck-out.

My dad wore down my mom over the course of several months. They met really young, when she used to have to walk by a street corner where he and his other high-school drop-out buddies used to hang out. He hit her up every time, trying to get her to smile since she was a "very serious girl." One time, he "negged" her by asking her if she would "join his sports team"--quickly adding "as the mascot." She "hated him" and started avoiding that street altogether. He ran into her a few weeks later, ate some food she was carrying, and got her to agree to go out on a date. This first date, she claims, is the "only time he bought [her] anything." They shared a coke. They married like 18 months later, when he got out of the military. She always talks about "how beautiful" the letters were that he periodically sent her from where he was stationed.

My mother still cries on the anniversary of his death and when she hears songs that remind her of him. She never remarried. My dad's game was that tight, I guess.

Lol, similar story here, my dad used persistence game, they met at work and my dad would ask her out once.........she said "no" (and my birth was delayed by 3 months). Then he acted as if everything was completely normal and as if he didn't sweat it. Then the next month he asked her out again still she said nop( and thus I missed the chance to see nirvana play live). He did this two more times until he got an exhausted "yes" from my mother.They went on a date and lived happily ever after. So yep persistence game, unfortunately for me if I try this type of game I will most likely either be fired or face a sexual harassment suit. ahhh the 80s were a simpler time man.......... Sorry to hear about your father as well man.

Post: #63

My dad used attack game. Knocked her over at a skating rink then knocked her up.

Post: #64

Roosh had a good post about this. He mentioned that if you're mom had met your dad in today's environment, that they probably would've never gotten together.

Post: #65

Rock band game. My mom went to a dance my dad's group was playing at, and that's how they met.

They never would have met otherwise, because it was a "wrong side of the tracks" story for my dad -- and the ramifications are still being felt (perhaps in the form of my posts here -- haha).

Post: #66

(04-12-2012 02:11 AM)Screwston Wrote:  Good thread. I asked my mom how my dad treated her and she said he was the sweetest guy she's ever known, but also the biggest asshole Her friend was dating my dad's brother and homegirl played matchmaker. I'd have to ask to see exactly how they met though. I know he had some game going on because she said her friends would always ask why they were dating. Beauty and the beast type of relationship.

Supposedly, he was always getting into fights because so many guys would whistle and say shit to her in front of him. Said one time some guys honked at her on the freeway and he followed them and started whooping his ass when he was walking inside haha. Pretty crazy because I can't even imagine my dad acting like that.

Completely different world in the 70's and 80's. Can you imagine emo kids in girl's pants with glittery shirts getting girls back then?

LMAO!


I'm so jealous of our old men.




Dad used dad used asshole/bad boy game on moms. He was a rebel with tattoos who went to the service young and partied. Mom fell for him HARD. She was still in love with him 20 years after they split up. They weren't really together that long because he was an abusive drunk, but she went back to him every single time.

Post: #67

(04-12-2012 10:04 AM)dickbutt Wrote:  

(04-12-2012 09:03 AM)JoyStick Wrote:  

(04-11-2012 10:59 PM)dickbutt Wrote:  arranged marriage game

Same here.

He was a beta and never had a girl before my mom. That's why I'm learning how to Mack on girls from this site.

my father is a fucking ultrabeta. and i don't say this nonchalantly or jokingly; thinking about it truly brings about a pain in my heart, or some shit. it's tragic. my mother at best begrudgingly appreciates my father. she has no attraction for him and recoils at the rare instances of his cloying touch. they haven't had sex since 1984, though i think my father might be impotent. they get along goofily these days; the best comparison might be george costanza's parents. my destiny is to be the opposite of him and be assdeep in pussy

I can't tell if your being serious or not, but HOly shit! 1984?

Post: #68

Caveman- was selling qualides at the club to a black chick he was friends with saw a hit stacked green eyes blonde who just moved into town from Miami-closed that same night. My Dad was a baller- took more risks than many-hes a good dude but he annoys the hell out of me with his pushy steamroller
Type a antics and epic ranting (I'm a Virgo he's an Aries were totally opposite but me and him are both dudes who don't choke in real combat- I'm low key he's flamboyant- were both crazy- I believe it's a Latin thing). I have my social phobias from growing up in isolation in a redneck USA area- when I'm around New Yorkers and South Fla crowd I'm at home bcuz at my core I'm a hot blooded Mediterranenan barbarian. I wish we had more savagery- if your honest about what masculinity and raw energy is you cannot deny the inherent potential for brutality inside of a mans psyche. Men build and destroy women nurture and commune its a line versus a circle energetically.

Post: #69

Coincidentally, me and my dad had a talk about this yesterday while we were hanging out. I suppose he was using a form aloof, indifferent game (he used provider beta game before with his former exes and he eventually manned the fuck up and HAD to lay down the law). It took him a while for him to get back into the game since his most recent ex died in a motorcycle accident, and his bros had to talk him into getting back to his old self again many months after this unfortunate circumstance happened. He did master the art of seduction obviously, as I wouldn't even be here typing my post.

Too bad I can't say the same nowadays, because the now 20 years they've been together, he has been beta backsliding into oblivion.

Post: #70

(04-11-2014 03:31 PM)Redwood Wrote:  Too bad I can't say the same nowadays, because the now 20 years they've been together, he has been beta backsliding into oblivion.

There's really no stopping that, my friend. We are born beta and die beta. As existing alphas grow old and turn back into betas it opens the scene for new young betas to come and assert their alphaness.

This cycle occurs within all male mammals, my my knowledge. Lions are a great example. The first start off in the wild hunting for their own food, but once they get strong enough they find another older alpha to kill and then they become the a pride leader of their own. However eventually he too grows old only to be replaced by a younger alpha.

Gotta have respect for the game and you should also respect your Dad's efforts despite him going back to beta. You will be there too someday.

Post: #71

Stud hockey player in a Canadian city. Nothin' else really to say.

Post: #72

My dad was a player who was married and had a few girlfriends. One was my mom. She was about that life and then had my black ass.

Post: #73

Hmm.

Good question.

My dad was persistant. When she asked him how serious he was, he showed her his chequebook. He was also quite good looking back then. He also had pre approval from many of his female friends speaking well of him to my mom.

My mom played the madonna game. Seriously - slept with like 13 men on the first/second date, and then made my dad wait until they were married. It makes me mad just thinking about it. I honestly wonder if my dad even knows.

Post: #74

They met in college, my mom did all the initiating, my dad was pretty beta, but a good looking beta.

Post: #75

(04-13-2014 11:31 PM)Tytalus Wrote:  Hmm.

Good question.

My dad was persistant. When she asked him how serious he was, he showed her his chequebook. He was also quite good looking back then. He also had pre approval from many of his female friends speaking well of him to my mom.

My mom played the madonna game. Seriously - slept with like 13 men on the first/second date, and then made my dad wait until they were married. It makes me mad just thinking about it. I honestly wonder if my dad even knows.

I'm curious as to how you know this? lol