There is a very interesting power in bathroom. It weighs in heavily with the game. If a girl is about to get fucked she will almost always use the bathroom first, to check her pussy I believe. Man, I'm so happy I wasn't born with a pussy. It would be like having a leaky bloody asshole where your dick is supposed to be.

Maybe girls are crazy just because they have pussies. I'd be freaked out if I had a pulsating, drooling toothless mouth between my legs; a smelly sheath of mucus that babies slide out of.

It's no wonder that they don't understand our sex drive. They are probably thinking "why does this guy want my fetid flesh dumpling so bad? There must be something wrong with him."

For this reason, just wanting pussy is a DLV. That's why you have to make it look like you are into her personality.

Last weekend I called things off with the hipster chick with the nice ass I posted upthread.

I'm not, strictly speaking, 'in a relationship' right now, but among the several girls I see regularly, this chick was obviously the side trim, and she knew it and resented it, so she was forever starting bullshit arguments and asking me to tell her I "cared" about her. ("I care about you" being the low rent version of "I love you.")

Finally I had enough. Sent her back to Brooklyn and blocked her number from my phone. After several days of me not responding to her texts, on Christmas Eve she emails this drawing:



I think that's supposed to be me & my scrotum (both depicted @ 1/16th scale). I responded that I appreciated how she captured the thigh gap at bottom left.

Ten years ago, if you told me that one day, I'd have bitches sending me fan art, I'd have been like... "yeah, I can see that."

(12-28-2013 12:26 PM)soup Wrote:  For this reason, just wanting pussy is a DLV. That's why you have to make it look like you are into her personality.

Fucking brilliant, overdue +1.

(12-28-2013 02:50 PM)LouieG Wrote:  Last weekend I called things off with the hipster chick with the nice ass I posted upthread.

I'm not, strictly speaking, 'in a relationship' right now, but among the several girls I see regularly, this chick was obviously the side trim, and she knew it and resented it, so she was forever starting bullshit arguments and asking me to tell her I "cared" about her. ("I care about you" being the low rent version of "I love you.")

Finally I had enough. Sent her back to Brooklyn and blocked her number from my phone. After several days of me not responding to her texts, on Christmas Eve she emails this drawing:



I think that's supposed to be me & my scrotum (both depicted @ 1/16th scale). I responded that I appreciated how she captured the thigh gap at bottom left.

Ten years ago, if you told me that one day, I'd have bitches sending me fan art, I'd have been like... "yeah, I can see that."

Give her to me.

Kinda depressed after this chick didn't respond to me after I replied to her today saying what's up. My game sucks and I should probably stop caring so much about random girls and just bang the girl that's into me and likes me. My friend tells me she was into me at the house party we threw (sitting on my lap, etc) and I should have isolated her then and escalated, but stupid me thought it's a bad idea and I should get a date for later. Now she's not responding and I don't know how to keep her on the roll without being desperate. I wonder how soup does it.

On the other hand, I went to a meetup.com event tonight and talked to a bunch of new people today and it was fun, so it wasn't all doom and gloom. Time for a little introspection as to what I want to achieve in 2014, game- and life-wise.

Pipeline takes precedent most of the time. I encourage every guy here to grow and nourish their pipeline. You will have pussy hitting you up when you least expect it.

I'm such a neat freak- I hate finding my underwear in my pants the next day after a heat of the moment bang. I just want to have them near the bed where they usually are.

Trying to setup a date with the Russian blonde model but my schedule is packed with social obligations. Her last message to me yesterday: "Look forward to meeting you." I know the clock is ticking on this one... she's too hot to leave dangling.

Have a 400 date with a mixed chick I found on OKC. She has a undergrad and Master already and working on another one. Seems to be cool. Sushi and saki. I cant smash any time soon so I probably wont escalate too hard. Will kino 4sho.

Lately I have been grabbing chicks necks. Done it three times the last two days with my regular waitresses. No resistance and two smiles from it. When the magazines talk about the nape of the neck I thought they were bullshittin. Ive been using that to gauge if I can choke the chick during the lay later on.

4 out of my last 6 lays have approved being choked. 2 out of 6 enjoyed being slapped in the face.

In the end when a woman is about to come you can do what you what. Finger in the ass, choking, strong hair pulling. They cant do shit because the cumming feels so good. Some begin to like it and open up. Its a huge turn on to see a chicks reaction when something is done to them for the first time and they dont k ow how to feel. I am thinking, "yea. Got you bitch."

Anyway todays date should be interesting.

Turned down what probably would have been my last notch of the year. Saw a decent looking blonde early 40's sitting alone at the bar and from her body language I could tell she was wanting to be approached so I did.She had been on a POF date that didn't go well and I guess she was frustrated at not getting laid. Within 10 minutes she was telling me that I could come stay in her guest room "sometime" if i was out on that side of town. But it was past 2am and I was tired and just not feeling her so I walked away. Got 25 notches in 2014 so pretty satisfied with that.

At this point I have two regulars and another who is mad at me after she noticed fingernail scratches on the my back, so I may have lost her. Pipeline is almost exhausted at this point because I haven't been working on it much lately.

But it's a new year with a fresh cycle and I'm thinking about plans to get more and better quality pussy in 2014. I'm optimistic.

25 notches in a year is incredible! New pussy every other week....

Hard man it definitely is much more than the average guy. That said, I know guys who get four times that amount so it's not completely impossible.

I believe you Soup, I believe you...

Sadly I had to turn down meeting up with the Russian blonde this afternoon -- she actually offered a specific time to meet. But she's still messaging me tonight so I view that as a good sign to meet up with her later in the week.

Went out to a local wine tasting bar tonight. A late 30s brunette, pretty and looked to be in decent shape, was there when I showed up, but I ignored her at first since most women in that age group aren't that interesting to me (in bed). But she starts talking to me and lets me know she's waiting for some guy she'd met off OKC. Funny how my lack of interest made me more attractive to her. Probably could have picked her up if her date didn't show up. Still, I wasn't that interested...

I'm not really sure how to articulate this, but I'm having trouble talking to girls that aren't my "type"

The girls I vibe with well are hipsterish chicks or more regular looking girls that have some sort of rebellious streak, but never too rebellious... Closet rocker chicks I guess. Introverted nerdy girls, but never too nerdy

Meanwhile I just got tinder and 90% of chicks on there are the sorority type. They follow all the trends and seem very invested in their social presence. Generic university white chick uniform.

In uni I was good friends with a high status sorority chick. Knew her from highschool, no chance of really reversing the highschool image of me so she was a study buddy and occasionally social proof.

Wed study or I'd run into her at the bar and shed introduce me to her hot friends. It was like talking to an alien race. I'd start doing my usual stuff, joking like I do, talking like I do. The same stuff that gets the semi rebellious nerdy chicks who are on 20 different meds to fall in love and these chicks would just stare blankly. I realized the same shit wasn't going to fly so I sat back and started getting them to talk about themselves and then I would be the onestaringbblankly.


My friends are all kind of similar to the girls I do well with. If I ever try talking to the guys
The sorority type girls talk to its the same as talking to the sorority type girls. Its like we're on completely different wavelengths.

So back to my question. Do you guys think it's possible to change your type of girl? Or at least do well with a wider variety?

I've tried game on these types but sooner or later they always catch on to my vibe and it puts them off. I can look the part and use all the game I want but something always Sub communicates that were completely different people.

(12-26-2013 09:08 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  Man I am trying to get couple more notches before yearend..and have couple more tentative lizards for tonight...my fear is she wants me for herself and try to fix m e....don't wanna waste time. ..

Funny shit...she just said if I don't want to drive she will pick me up!...

Anyway I am goin in...will report back...will get a notch either way..

Updating on this. I got the notch thursday night with the original 7 who told me I was a player...but i did get numbers from her friends and danced with them...weird night but got the notch and watched some weird chick behavior as i had bottle service with 6 girls from panama colombia and mexico...trying to fuck each other to pay for their share of bottle service...it was pathetic...

She is still nuts as exhibits from her txt last night...

Her: One question, I didn't wanted to touch this subject , but you did use condom right?;/ as I remember you did,, but it was so fast and so not sexy from my side that I can't remember 100 % 9:08 PM

Me: Yup 100% 9:08 PM

Her: Ok I knew I saw it, but I was more concentrate on your size my respects !! 9:09 PM

Her: Ok night night 9:10 PM

But notch count at 17 and I am out of gas with a full pipeline.. I could have hit 20 but lately lacking motivation and energy...

Overall not a bad year as I have a wife and a kid...a full time girl friend and then more on side...I am running out of venues to take girls without running into current or former lays... almost thinking of taking a couple of months respite from gaming...

(12-30-2013 05:33 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I'm not really sure how to articulate this, but I'm having trouble talking to girls that aren't my "type"

The girls I vibe with well are hipsterish chicks or more regular looking girls that have some sort of rebellious streak, but never too rebellious... Closet rocker chicks I guess. Introverted nerdy girls, but never too nerdy

Meanwhile I just got tinder and 90% of chicks on there are the sorority type. They follow all the trends and seem very invested in their social presence. Generic university white chick uniform.

In uni I was good friends with a high status sorority chick. Knew her from highschool, no chance of really reversing the highschool image of me so she was a study buddy and occasionally social proof.

Wed study or I'd run into her at the bar and shed introduce me to her hot friends. It was like talking to an alien race. I'd start doing my usual stuff, joking like I do, talking like I do. The same stuff that gets the semi rebellious nerdy chicks who are on 20 different meds to fall in love and these chicks would just stare blankly. I realized the same shit wasn't going to fly so I sat back and started getting them to talk about themselves and then I would be the onestaringbblankly.


My friends are all kind of similar to the girls I do well with. If I ever try talking to the guys
The sorority type girls talk to its the same as talking to the sorority type girls. Its like we're on completely different wavelengths.

So back to my question. Do you guys think it's possible to change your type of girl? Or at least do well with a wider variety?

I've tried game on these types but sooner or later they always catch on to my vibe and it puts them off. I can look the part and use all the game I want but something always Sub communicates that were completely different people.

The key to gaming specifically sorority type girls is keeping the conversation light. Im like you, i get a long better with hipster type chicks better, though unlike you i prefer to fuck a sorority girl any day lol. The key is to keep the convo light, dont talk about bands, politics or heavy shit like that. Instead talk about shit like: what sorority she's in, who is her big, who is her little, whats her "gang sign"( hand signal that represents her sorority), ask her about bid day went, does she want another little, shit like that. Overall with a sorority girl (especial at night) is just to make fun of her lightly and constantly, mix that with some "SHOTS" and your golden. For smart guys its sometimes hard to dumb themselves down in order to get the lay. Pretty much just act like a overconfident vally girl with a dick aka a frat boy

Booked pretty solid next few days ---Social gatherings, NYE parties etc

OKC meetup with a prospect, early 30's, today at 4pm coffee shop. Has been very receptive up until now. She suggested an initial meetup place, but I overruled it. Logistics favor my job, shorter trip. Squeezing this one in basically, but can prove promising.

Tommorow late morning another OKC prospect scheduled to come out late morning, sexualized texting up til now understanding and seeking the bang on her end. Nude pics sent by her, meets my approval.

Christmas party/dinner/bowling for job on Friday. Now sure how it falls after New Year, but oh well. At any rate, the ole ball coach will be recruiting.

Saturday another OKC, mid-20's contestant wants to cum on down, and test herself and experience an older guy. Just got out of a 2 yr relationship. Finds me "refreshing" and "different". As always double-booking in case of flake.

Upward bound into the New Year!!!

(12-30-2013 12:11 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  

(12-26-2013 09:08 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  Man I am trying to get couple more notches before yearend..and have couple more tentative lizards for tonight...my fear is she wants me for herself and try to fix m e....don't wanna waste time. ..

Funny shit...she just said if I don't want to drive she will pick me up!...

Anyway I am goin in...will report back...will get a notch either way..

Updating on this. I got the notch thursday night with the original 7 who told me I was a player...but i did get numbers from her friends and danced with them...weird night but got the notch and watched some weird chick behavior as i had bottle service with 6 girls from panama colombia and mexico...trying to fuck each other to pay for their share of bottle service...it was pathetic...

She is still nuts as exhibits from her txt last night...

Her: One question, I didn't wanted to touch this subject , but you did use condom right?;/ as I remember you did,, but it was so fast and so not sexy from my side that I can't remember 100 % 9:08 PM

Me: Yup 100% 9:08 PM

Her: Ok I knew I saw it, but I was more concentrate on your size my respects !! 9:09 PM

Her: Ok night night 9:10 PM

But notch count at 17 and I am out of gas with a full pipeline.. I could have hit 20 but lately lacking motivation and energy...

Overall not a bad year as I have a wife and a kid...a full time girl friend and then more on side...I am running out of venues to take girls without running into current or former lays... almost thinking of taking a couple of months respite from gaming...

Could you give some more insight as to how you keep them from finding out about each other? Specifically the wife. Burner phone?

@Sketness

Thanks for the input, my post should have been in the drunk lounge, ha.

I don't really ever get too "heavy" in my talk (unless a girl prompts it and I kind of reinforce some dumb revelation she had about her life recently). I usually just talk about nothing and joke around, but like you said it seems as if I need to make the focus nearly entirely on them.

I don't really have the ability to articulate it, but I'm convinced its a 'vibe' thing. I can't remember who made the post, but it was a great post. It was essentially how guys see a girl and know instantly if he'd bang or not. girls may get attracted physically instantly as well, but then they factor in countless other variables: who the guy is with, how hes dressed, how hes talking, has he fucked one of her friends, did her ex look kind of similar. All that kind of stuff.

I can't pinpoint one exact thing as to why just my presence/look/vibe/how I talk is turning off (or at least making it much harder) for me to get with a certain group of girls. Its a limiting belief that can be overcome, I can change physically, but would that leave me incongruent with my 'inner' self. I also want to be able to describe the unconscious, subtle signals that tell other people so much about you.

Girls can sniff out certain types of dudes nearly immediately. I've been to parties with friends and girls can tell just by looking at a guy whether or not he gets laid, is a beta niceguy or 'creepy' even if they all look the same and don't say anything.

Its the same phenomenon as being able to sniff out sluts by the "slut face" or gay guys with a "gay face"

Other than the above the best example of what I'm talking about is with music.

I show some people what I listen to. Its usually the easy listening chill stuff instead of the metal music. I like listening to it to relax. If I show a girl that is my "type" she will mirror my opinions saying its very good/relaxing/etc. I show a girl who is not my type and she will say something like "oooh this is so depressing/sad/etc" Different perceptions, but what causes these perceptions and how can they be manipulated. What are the factors that cause someone to be able to instantaneously get a sense of who someone is when general appearance is relatively constant.

(12-30-2013 06:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  @Sketness

Thanks for the input, my post should have been in the drunk lounge, ha.

I don't really ever get too "heavy" in my talk (unless a girl prompts it and I kind of reinforce some dumb revelation she had about her life recently). I usually just talk about nothing and joke around, but like you said it seems as if I need to make the focus nearly entirely on them.

I don't really have the ability to articulate it, but I'm convinced its a 'vibe' thing. I can't remember who made the post, but it was a great post. It was essentially how guys see a girl and know instantly if he'd bang or not. girls may get attracted physically instantly as well, but then they factor in countless other variables: who the guy is with, how hes dressed, how hes talking, has he fucked one of her friends, did her ex look kind of similar. All that kind of stuff.

I can't pinpoint one exact thing as to why just my presence/look/vibe/how I talk is turning off (or at least making it much harder) for me to get with a certain group of girls. Its a limiting belief that can be overcome, I can change physically, but would that leave me incongruent with my 'inner' self. I also want to be able to describe the unconscious, subtle signals that tell other people so much about you.

Girls can sniff out certain types of dudes nearly immediately. I've been to parties with friends and girls can tell just by looking at a guy whether or not he gets laid, is a beta niceguy or 'creepy' even if they all look the same and don't say anything.

Its the same phenomenon as being able to sniff out sluts by the "slut face" or gay guys with a "gay face"

Other than the above the best example of what I'm talking about is with music.

I show some people what I listen to. Its usually the easy listening chill stuff instead of the metal music. I like listening to it to relax. If I show a girl that is my "type" she will mirror my opinions saying its very good/relaxing/etc. I show a girl who is not my type and she will say something like "oooh this is so depressing/sad/etc" Different perceptions, but what causes these perceptions and how can they be manipulated. What are the factors that cause someone to be able to instantaneously get a sense of who someone is when general appearance is relatively constant.

Check this out... people see what you project. If you project the aloof attitude( the i could give 3 fucks and a chicken what you think) attitude two things will start to happen. 1. you will start to believe what you project. 2. others will start to believe because YOU yourself believe it. I think what gets most of us (me included) is that we get to caught up in what we think others think about us,the reality is, people can not read your mind they can only read your outward emotions and body language. So the key is to first control your mind and your body will naturally project what you have already internally told it to believe.

Man I struggle with this eveyday I go out, but what I do is I constantly tell myself that I AM THE SHIT, these hoes are here to perform and jump through MY hoops, and if a bitch doesen't comply... its off to the next one. My main point is, your mind is a powerful tool. In the Christan bible there is a text that says "as a man thinkith, so he will do-ith" It is once your mind is right that your body will follow.

It it then you will start to see girls being pulled towards your because you have that 'something special' IF you act like you get pussy on the reg, bitches will believe you get pussy on the reg, and we all know how girls act towards guys they perceive are good with women

(12-30-2013 04:20 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Booked pretty solid next few days ---Social gatherings, NYE parties etc

OKC meetup with a prospect, early 30's, today at 4pm coffee shop. Has been very receptive up until now. She suggested an initial meetup place, but I overruled it. Logistics favor my job, shorter trip. Squeezing this one in basically, but can prove promising.

Tommorow late morning another OKC prospect scheduled to come out late morning, sexualized texting up til now understanding and seeking the bang on her end. Nude pics sent by her, meets my approval.

Christmas party/dinner/bowling for job on Friday. Now sure how it falls after New Year, but oh well. At any rate, the ole ball coach will be recruiting.

Saturday another OKC, mid-20's contestant wants to cum on down, and test herself and experience an older guy. Just got out of a 2 yr relationship. Finds me "refreshing" and "different". As always double-booking in case of flake.

Upward bound into the New Year!!!

Update:Coffee shop meetup SIF'D....Spotted her big ass before she saw me....Mission Aborted

2nd prospect flaked, early morning text...number deleted. Digging back into the pipeline for replacement. One monkey don't stop no show...

Banged two different members of my rotation yesterday. Nothing really special, but I haven't done that in a while. Maybe it's a hurdle I need to get over, but I feel like a bit of a scumbag. The first girl is great: smart, pretty cool, good looking, definite relationship material; but the second was a total dumpster fire. Messed aroud with her earlier in the year, but went radio silent until she called me up when because she was in town. I didn't really feel like crushing her, but I don't usually pass up getting laid. However, I'm having a bit of buyer's remorse as she definately was no prize. Actually, I'm quite disappointed in myself.

I'm hanging out with the first one this evening for new years. I'm not sure how I'll do hanging out with her and her friends knowning that in the 28 hours since I saw her I was smashing some other lizard. Anyone else have thoughts like this or how they deal with such things?

I guess if this is the lifestyle we choose for ourselves, then these things have to be dealt with.

Starting the night off right- just got some nerdy librarian looking girl's number in the subway. I can tell she's got a sexy thin body underneath her big coat. Opened her by asking how long she'd been waiting for train. Then I asked her to tell me the color of the new guitar I was carrying because it seemed like an inbetween tone to me.

Bait was dropped. Number given. Might be a flake but we won't know until later.

I finally got my first non-SIF tinder match and she wants to bang!!!

This shit is awesome, even though my inbox isn't blowing up its a big self-esteem boost (wasthisbeta). The worst chicks on the app are like the 'bangable' chicks in the WYB thread

Chose a NYE party based on the quality of chicks "attending" on the event's facebook pages. Kissed one of the hot chicks that I checked out on the event page lolllll. Couldn't take her home, she was with a large group of friends, too much pressure I guess…