Post: #926

(08-27-2013 01:11 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  As I am walking on to campus, I see a very cute, thin, brunette with perfect round, perky tits and nice clean milky skin.

WHAT THE HELL!!!??? You are 7/8 with girls 20 years younger?

if so, you win

HATEWORTHY OF THE DAY!!!

Post: #927

(09-08-2013 03:44 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(08-27-2013 01:11 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  As I am walking on to campus, I see a very cute, thin, brunette with perfect round, perky tits and nice clean milky skin.

WHAT THE HELL!!!??? You are 7/8 with girls 20 years younger?

if so, you win

HATEWORTHY OF THE DAY!!!

I'm not sure what you mean???

It sounds like it has something to do with the fact that I sometimes bang girls 20 years younger then myself.

I must say, it is a beautiful thing!

And, I work very hard to find efficient ways of doing it.

Post: #928

great to see your energy gio, good shit.


i did one approach/open this weekend.

was at a party on a roof deck. saw a cute california type blond (i'm dc).

she walked by me once, i said hi. she kept walking.

she walked by me twice, i said hi. she kept walking.

i realized she kept walking likely because i was already talking to another woman (one i wasn't interested in).

so i isolated myself.

two seconds later she is right behind me saying hi.

we talk.

i move her to the other side of the roof deck and around the corner.

15 minutes later her shirt is pulled up, panties pulled down and she is blowing me on the roof deck in downtown dc.

i nut and we go back to the party like nothing ever happened.

good times.

two words involved in approach: Hi and Hi.

it is not always this easy haha

Post: #929

In the library at a local junior college, I see a hot Black girl wearing a low cut blouse showing off her nice body...

She is walking right towards me so I basically just get in her pathway and as soon as we make eye contact..

me: hello
her: hi

She pauses..

me: you look nice today
her: oh thank you
me: whats your name?
her: kamy
me: hi kamy, im gio
her: hey gio
me: can i ask you a question?
her: ok
me: do you date spanish guys
her: yes
me: oh good because i wanna take you out for a drink sometime
her: haha what!
me: haha yeah, you heard me
her: well, umm
me: you're not married are you?
her: no im not
me: well, why dont you put your number in my phone and ill text you later?
her: ok sure

I texted her about 20 mins later and said -- "nice meeting you Kamy.."

She got back to me a few hours later and we set a date for Thursday after school. She canceled that, but we hung out Saturday and it went well. We have been texting everyday.

*****

About 10 minutes later, I see another good looking Black girl with a nice body..

She is on the phone so I wait for her to hang up. I use the exact same game again...

me: hello
her: hi
me: you look nice today
her: thank you
me: let me ask you a question.
her: ok
me: do you date spanish guys?
her: no i never have
me: i wanna be the first
her: lol
me: whats your name?
her: star
me: your name is star?
her: yes
me: i like it, are you from around here?
her: no im from LA
me: oh do u like the bay area?
her: yes so far so good
me: so, are you gonna give me a chance or what?
her: i dont know, i have a bf
me: back in LA?
her: ya
me: well, maybe we can just be friends then
her: i don't know
I eject.

*****

Back in the library, I see a cute Filipina sitting at a table wearing short shorts. Young, thin, long brown hair, great skin. I don't know what to say but I trust myself to figure it out when I get there..

I notice a mini laptop on the table as I walk right past her.. As I'm going by I say..

"thats a cool little laptop"

I go past her and spend 4 minutes pretending to be looking at a group of books behind her. I then turn and pretend to walk past her again but at the last moment I stop and say..

"who makes this little laptop?"

We get into a little chat about mini laptops. It goes ok but I decide to eject because I just didn't get a strong enough vibe to go for her number. I exit the library and continue working other parts of the campus. About 30 minutes later I go back to the library and she is still there.

I go back over to her and say-- "hey, can I right down the brand name of this laptop"

"Yes", she says as she picked up the laptop and searched for the brandname and model. We talked more about laptops and what she is studying in school, etc.

After at least 5 more minutes of chatting, I say -- "well, I need to run but we should exchange numbers and talk again sometime

She says she has a boyfriend but I suspect that she is lying and playing hard to get.

I get her email.

*****

As I am walking out of the library, I see another cute Asian, slim body, long hair, sexy style. She is walking up the stairs and I am walking down.. Sort of a tricky situation but fuck it..

me: hello
her: hi
me: you're in great shape, do you do yoga?
her: oh no
me: pilates?
her: no
me: you just have great genetics
her: i dont know about that
me: haha. you are lucky
her: i hope so
me: You have an accent. Where are you from?
her: the phillipines
me: oh wow i have a freind who just got back from there, he said it was beautiful.
her: yes it is
me: how long have you been here?
her: 5 years

Blah, blah, blah..

me: we should go out for a beer sometime
her: oh ok

Get her number. Text her later that night -- "hey jessica, nice meeting you today"

She got right back to me.

*****

The next day, I am at a different school, in the library, I see a cute Latina with an ice pack on her ankle reading a book on philosophy..

I walk almost past her but at the last moment I stop and open her..

me: what happened to your ankle
her: i dont now, its swollen
me: were you playing basketball or something?
her: no
me: how did yo hurt it?
her: thats whats crazy is i don't remember anything
me: hmm, thats funny, sometimes we move in the middle of the night and we twist it in a weird way or something.
her: hmm, thats possible
me: or sometimes in the morning we move to fast and tweak it becaue it not really warmed up
her: ok, how do you know all of this
me: i am an ankle expert, i played basketball for 20 years
her: oh ya
me: yup
her: do you teach here?
me: no im a graduate student, what year are you?
her: im a freshman
me: oh from where?
her: im from SF

Blah, blah, blah..

me: wanna exchange numbers
her: ya sure

*****

I also got rejected about 10 times but I don't post those because I can barely remember them.

Honestly, when I get rejected -- I immediately transmute that energy into motivation and desire.

It's like the rejection never happened. These are the mind games that I play with myself.

Post: #930

Giovanny,

Do you have a preferred closing line. Some of yours are "we should grab a beer sometime" "lets exchange numbers" "put your number in my phone and ill txt you later". Have you seen some work better than others or you just say what comes to mind?

Post: #931

This interaction today really pissed me off...

Today I went up to some chick sitting on a bench and did the Yad direct indirect opener.

me: hi excuse me do you have a second. I thought you looked nice and wanted to say hi. What's your name?

*exchange names

I ask the girl what she is up to today and make some witty comments and slowly get her laughing.

Then the entire interaction was me ploughing through her one word reponses which consisted of:

"yup" and "nope"

At first I wanted to call her out on being BY FAR the WORST conversationalist I have ever met. But instead I kept trying to plough through this minefield of a socially handicapped girl.

At the end I decided to go for the hail mary and asked for the number.

Now she comes out with the "i have a boyfriend" line.

I am totally not upset with the fact that she has a boyfriend. Just more so the fact at how brutally horrible this chicks social skills were. I was so close to call her out on her bullshit but I just left.

I dont know if this is a venting post or what... But my god it was like pulling teeth.

Either way, I am happy I forced myself to do it.

Post: #932

I see nothing wrong with her. she wasn't just into you.

If she was doing that in some networking event, you can call her that though. (obviously, you can't hit on her like that)

It's about the situation and how you approach her.

You can get straight ignored just by saying 'excuse me, can I...' at night game.
What if you say the same thing in a coffee shop, she raises her palm and ignore you? People around her will think she is a weird bitch, right?

(09-10-2013 05:24 PM)gandt Wrote:  This interaction today really pissed me off...

Today I went up to some chick sitting on a bench and did the Yad direct indirect opener.

me: hi excuse me do you have a second. I thought you looked nice and wanted to say hi. What's your name?

*exchange names

I ask the girl what she is up to today and make some witty comments and slowly get her laughing.

Then the entire interaction was me ploughing through her one word reponses which consisted of:

"yup" and "nope"

At first I wanted to call her out on being BY FAR the WORST conversationalist I have ever met. But instead I kept trying to plough through this minefield of a socially handicapped girl.

At the end I decided to go for the hail mary and asked for the number.

Now she comes out with the "i have a boyfriend" line.

I am totally not upset with the fact that she has a boyfriend. Just more so the fact at how brutally horrible this chicks social skills were. I was so close to call her out on her bullshit but I just left.

I dont know if this is a venting post or what... But my god it was like pulling teeth.

Either way, I am happy I forced myself to do it.

Post: #933

In the library at a local college, I am in the lobby waiting for the elevator, a very cute blond comes and stands right next to me, tight yoga pants, tight sports bra type of a shirt, hot body, great t*ts and ass..

She is eating jelly beans..

me: thats not a very healthy dinner

She gives me a funny look and I just give her a little flirtacious smirk/smile

you: i know right, but i need the sugar rush
me: oh, well those jelly beans will do the job
her: i hope so
me: i know how it is, sometimes we have just have to eat whatever
her: ya seriously
me: i eat good aout 90% of the time and the other 10% is whatever, you are in great shape so you dont have to worry about it too much
her: yeah, as long as i dont have too many nights like this
me: you'll be ok, what do you study
her: gender relations and womens studies
me: oh thats facinating stuff, women are the new men and men are the new women

She gave me a weird look but I did it on purpose to "push her buttons" and stimulate conversation.

her: well, i dont know if i would go that far
me: gender roles and expectations are evolving so much
her: yes they are
me: what area of this field is most interesting to you
her: honestly, there isn't one area that I like the most, its just something i have been into since i was a kid
me: yeah, it is really interesting stuff
Blah, blah, blah..

me: let me ask you a personal question about your major
her: ok
me: are you straight?
her: haha yes i am
me: good. wanna grab a beer sometime and continue out chat? my name is gio
her: uh umm, hi, im melanie
me: i know its kind of random but, i dont know, i just thought it was nice chatting with you
her: no its cool

She takes out her phone. I get her number.

*****

10 minutes later, I am walking down the stairs at the same school. A cute Latina is about to walk up the stairs just as I am exiting the staircase. We make eye contact and hold it for a second..

me: hello
her: hi
me: how are you today?
her: good
me: where do we know each other from?
her: i don't know
me: are you from around here?
her: no im from sacramento
me: oh are you freezing down here?
her: no i like it
me: you came down here to cool off eh?
her: yes exactly
me: you looked at me and i thought we knew each other
her: ya i dont know?
me: maybe we knew each other in a past life or something?
her: lol
me: you're cute, can i text you later and flirt with you some more?
her: haha i don't know
me: haha your funny, whats your number?
her: um..ok..its 123-4567

*****

I am getting better everyday. Not every appraoch is as smooth as I'd like but the more approaches I do, the more comfortable I get.

Post: #934

Any of you guys want to field test my openers?

Post: #935

(09-10-2013 01:29 PM)XYZ Wrote:  Giovanny,

Do you have a preferred closing line. Some of yours are "we should grab a beer sometime" "lets exchange numbers" "put your number in my phone and ill txt you later". Have you seen some work better than others or you just say what comes to mind?

I don't have one preferred closing line. I just say what comes to mind or what I think will fit the personality of the girl and the vibe of the interaction.

Honestly, the most important thing is that you mean what you say. Thats sounds simple but it is actually really deep. You have to really be authentic in your masculine desires. You can't say it half-assed or with a weak vibe.

How you say it is as important as what you say.

I have been experimenting with a lot of different lines.

I like to be playful and light-hearted while maintaining a strong masculine frame. It's not good to be too serious.

Here are some examples that I like:

"nice chatting with you, we should get a beer or something sometime"

"we should hang out sometime"

"you seem cool, wanna exchange numbers"

I have many more examples in this thread if you go back and look for them.

Play around with different wordings and phrases and find a few lines that you feel comfortable and confident with.

(09-10-2013 05:24 PM)gandt Wrote:  I am happy I forced myself to do it.

Yes, forcing yourself to approach is the most important thing!

Not every girl will be interested in talking. Some people are not very social. Don't take it personal. It's their problem not ours.

When I encounter this, I like to call the girl out in a playful way. It makes it more entertaining for me. Turn it around on her and act like she is the stupid one..

I say..

"Do you speak English"

"Are you a lesbian"

"are you ok, you look like you are in pain"

Stuff like that. Better to f*ck with them instead of letting them f*ck with us.

Keep forcing yourself to approach!

Post: #936

(09-11-2013 12:05 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Any of you guys want to field test my openers?

e-mech I got no problem opening girls and getting numbers, it is finding the time to go to dates 2 and 3 and getting the bang.

Any ways humor us and give us the Opener, it might lead to spreading on Instadate ........

Post: #937

(09-11-2013 01:19 PM)Lothario Wrote:  

(09-11-2013 12:05 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Any of you guys want to field test my openers?

e-mech I got no problem opening girls and getting numbers, it is finding the time to go to dates 2 and 3 and getting the bang.

Any ways humor us and give us the Opener, it might lead to spreading on Instadate ........

Thank you for your vote of confidence lothario but I'm not posting my gold for lurkers. I need some enthusiasm from the collective.

If I get blown out because my shit goes viral I'm going to

Post: #938

(09-11-2013 12:05 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Any of you guys want to field test my openers?

Post some of them here and I will try them out.

Post: #939

It's not what you say, it's the confidence with which you say it. Why do you think hot girls fall for guys who pretend to be athletes, actors, Rockefellers, whatever? You can't blame a girl who doesn't know every single NHL and MLB player by name and face. But those guys can 'sell' it.

I've told girls I sculpted the Bull statue on Wall St. I can't even finger-paint. They still bought it hook, line and sinker.

Post: #940

To giovanny or anyone else,

In what cases do you close by asking for a phone number? There's the obvious case where she is acting very interested and its a natural end to the conversation.

But I've been in other situations where the girl is giving short answers and not asking me questions, suddenly says she has to go, or a number of other things. A lot of times I just eject since I feel like she is not interested but I wonder if I should just go for the number every time because maybe she's nervous or a bad conversationalist or in a rush. Have you ever had success with these girls who seem uninterested?

Post: #941

I met this high school girl (High school down here is from ages 11-16 usually ), she was out of school a little earlier than normal.

Me : Ditching school now are we
Her : No awa (it's a slang down here), I just have to go and print my project.
Me : (I Blanked out) What subject
Her : Business, I have to go now
Me : Ok

Fail, serious fail

(This is from my 100 approach thread I thought I'd just post it here as well)

Post: #942

(09-11-2013 09:28 PM)XYZ Wrote:  To giovanny or anyone else,

In what cases do you close by asking for a phone number? There's the obvious case where she is acting very interested and its a natural end to the conversation.

But I've been in other situations where the girl is giving short answers and not asking me questions, suddenly says she has to go, or a number of other things. A lot of times I just eject since I feel like she is not interested but I wonder if I should just go for the number every time because maybe she's nervous or a bad conversationalist or in a rush. Have you ever had success with these girls who seem uninterested?

Obviously it is up to you in the end.

Just know that if you don't go for it then there is a 0% chance you will bang her.

ABC = Always Be Closing

Post: #943

(09-11-2013 01:52 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Thank you for your vote of confidence lothario but I'm not posting my gold for lurkers. I need some enthusiasm from the collective.

If I get blown out because my shit goes viral I'm going to

I want to hear them.

I will tell you my openers. I am warning you though, they are some next level shit.

When a girl is sitting down working on her computer:
"What are you working on?"

Used this opener yesterday, and set up a date with her for today.

When a girl is reading a book:
"What are you reading?"

A girl at the bar:
"How is your night going?"

Used this over labor day weekend. Fucked her two hours later. She even showed me her snake farm.

Post: #944

Saw a cute girl in the park I just had to talk to. She was sitting on some steps eating something. I decided to wait until she is done eating, then do a direct approach, because walking up to her on the steps where she was isolated would be a bold move and going indirect would be incongruent. She got up and left after she was done eating though. Spotted her a little while later sitting in a more communal seating area. I sat nearby and fucked around on my phone for a minute. She was taking pictures, so I opened with "you're not from around here are you?" I went indirect. She was very responsive to conversation. She is from Germany and is half German and half Filipino. She had a really nice look, I'd say she was an 8. She is headed back home Wednesday and was waiting in the park for her friend (a "she" friend). I invested 30 minutes of conversation, then said I had to take off. I didn't ask for the digits since she was staying with a friend and leaving Wednesday. I gave her a hug when I left and she blushed. She smiled and thanked me for the conversation.

In retrospect, I wish I had asked for the digits. I think she probably wouldn't have given them, but nothing ventured, nothing gained. Also felt the conversation was too tame. Need to sexualize things a bit perhaps - by being a little more direct. Could have been a completely different vibe if I told her she looked nice right off the bat.

But, this is what you do. You experiment, then you break down what you did well and what you could have done differently.

Upward and onward.

Post: #945

Good Job Dusty on carrying the conversation for 30 min. IMO you should have asked for a date/Insta or date later in the evening or tomorrow and try to bang on 1st date, you still had enough time till wednesday to even get the bang on date 2 or 3.

Like the mantra goes you go for Bang, if can't get that then settle for a BJ, HJ and so on .......

Post: #946

(09-14-2013 07:06 PM)Lothario Wrote:  Good Job Dusty on carrying the conversation for 30 min. IMO you should have asked for a date/Insta or date later in the evening or tomorrow and try to bang on 1st date, you still had enough time till wednesday to even get the bang on date 2 or 3.

Like the mantra goes you go for Bang, if can't get that then settle for a BJ, HJ and so on .......

You're right, I played it too safe this time. There's always a next time. You learn and apply going forward.

I don't think an insta-date would have worked because she was waiting for her friend. But I would have lost nothing by asking for the digits or email and trying to arrange something before she left.

It's funny, I talked to a couple Colombian's right before I talked to her. The Colombian's were a little chunky, but I got warmed up. I said some of the same exact stuff with the pretty Filipino/German as what I said to the Colombian's 20 minutes before that, accept it rolled off my tongue easier and I was smoother from the practice. LOL

Post: #947

Went to the mall today. Since I am still young at this game I seem to gravitate towards the mall employees since they are forced to talk to you.

I hit about 5 different stores.

Buckle: I walk in and head straight towards the back where I see the female employees. I start chatting them up and they are very open and then one of the male employees who greeted me at the front door came back and asked if I was shopping for a girlfriend. He seemed very hostile towards me and then I said "no but I am looking for a boyfriend" and moved close to him.

I should have said "yeah do you know where I can find one?" Either way he was definitely protecting his territory and buckle and didn't like that I was flirting with the girls.


After getting no luck at Target and Victoria Secret because the girls were married I decided to try Aeropostale.

This girl starts helping me out. Probably a 6.

Me: I like this sweater here. What do you think?

Her: Yeah it looks good. Do you want to try it on?

Me: Yeah but you probably dont have my size.

Her: What size?

Me: Medium?

Her: Right here. Do you like this lovely maroon color?

Me: Yes is that really what it is called?

Her: Yea and this is called steel gray.

Me: oh really those are weird names.

Her: yeah but that is what they are called.

I later find out she was just being super sarcastic with me and they weren't really called that. So I proceeded to pull out my phone and ask her to put her phone number in it. She says "sure" grabs it to put her number in. I say "just joking I was being sarcastic" and pull my phone back. haha She looks sad but then I give it back to her to put her number in my phone. She is 24 and just got back to town from college.


I definitely need practice on my game when interruptions get involved like the buckle guy who was trying orbit these girls so I couldn't flirt with them. I wish I would've said something that made him look like the beta orbiter he was but was caught off guard because he literally came to the back of the store just to come say that to me and try to break up our flirty interactions.

Post: #948

Been back at school for 2 weeks. I've never appreciated freshman girls so much.

1st week I was really excited to be back and was approaching girls (90% freshman) like a madman.

I have a an Iphone app called Last Night's Numbers...I suggest you all download it if you have trouble keeping track of numbers or if you forget a girls name. The app stores all your numbers in the order that you added them to your phone (it even has all the history dating back however many months or years you've had your phone)

So the 1st week I went hard...I checked LNN, and during the first 3 days of school, I collected 17 freshman girls numbers. Now that may not seem particularly important, because we all want to results, not just numbers...but I'm in a fraternity, and we have a house party once a week. 17 girls I texted that weekend to come through, only a few responded and came, but they all their own girlfriends...that shows me me that getting lots of #'s can be beneficial, at least in college: more drunks girls for me and my boys.

My approach style has been strictly direct. I've never really gone direct during the day, but I've really not been giving a fuck lately, and been feeling pretty bold and confident. A lot of people say college is different than real-life, you need to get into social circles to get with girls, you should go indirect etc. but I've been having my best results yet being ballsy and forward.

Here are a few of my approaches from week 1:

1. Really pretty Persian girl walking with her friend in the dining hall.

I purposely sit at a tall round table in the middle of the cafeteria, right by the food (everyone walks by me to grab food or drinks. As she passed by I stick my arm out.

Me: Hey, come over here.
Her: What?
Me: come here, I want to talk to you guys (I wave my hand beckoning them towards me and my friend)
Me: I just saw you guys walking by, I think you're really cute...wanted to introduce myself. I'm Spider
Her: I'm tiny sexy girl, this is my friend
Me: Are you guys freshman, did you just move in this weekend?
Her: Yeah..blah blah blah
Me: Cool, well I think you guys will have a good time, I lived in your dorms when I was a freshman.
Her: Oh cool, where do you live blah blah?
Me: blah blah...Anyway, me and my friends are going to be having a pre game in our suite tonight. come through with friends, what's your number?


2. Hottest freshman I've seen thus far on campus. Most attractive girl I've ever approached. This chick is a dime.

I spot her in the dining hall (1st weekend of school I spent hours lurking in the d hall and right outside freshman dorms buying my time till I saw a freshman I wanted. Anyway, this chick is sitting with 5 dudes Fuck. I examine these guys closer and 2 of them look gay – the others look like losers. I’m guessing they were floormates…I follow them outside figuring out when I can get in between these dudes and approach. They head to a little freshman concert going on on the soccer field. Perfect.

Me: Excuse me, do you know whose performing this concert?
Her: Yeah, I think her names Karmin, she’s a youtube star or something.
Me: Weird I’ve never heard of her...(turn round and introduce myself to the guys, shaking their hands excessively hard.)
Her: What year are you, where do you live?
She’s looking up at me with interest and I can tell she's attracted to me.
Me: Come over here, lets go sit on the grass for a sec
Pull her away from her guy friends and take her where the music isn’t too loud. Talk about where we’re from (she’s Bulgarian) and do some other comfort-building chat. Her friends come back to scoop her, so I take her number and leave with a kiss on the cheek.

Note (girl # 1): I invite her to a party, and when I get there, 3 girls come up to me (apparently friends with her) and are like, hey are you Spider? We’ve heard a lot about you. Apparently the girl told all her friends how she was stopped and approached directly by a handsome young man in the dining hall. When I chatted her up later, she kept telling me that nobody has ever done that to her…only drunk guys at night. (this to me means keep approaching directly) - I have hooked up with this girl a few times now, she is getting slightly attached (which I don’t mind) – no bang yet, hopefully this week.

Note (girl # 2): I’ve gone out with her a few times, taken her and some of her lame guy friends to my fraternity’s party. The reason I took the guys is because I think it helped me demonstrate high value…at the end of the night of the night they thanked me profusely for letting them come (most non-frat guys are not let in) I have not gotten with this girl yet, I think it’s a self-esteem issue on my part – even though she hits me up, I feel like she’s just too hot.

I wrote up these 2 approaches because it marks an evolution in my game. These are the 2 most attractive girls I’ve ever approached – I used to only approach girls that were cute, but thought why waste my time with the girls I thought were above an 8? Well, fuck that

Something else I’d like some advice on is this: One of the reasons I was approaching so much during the 1st few days of school is because my roommate is a dope wingman. I introduced him to game about a year ago, and he loves approaching with me. After the 1st week however though, he got flooded with work (tough major) and went back to being a lazy unmotivated bum. It’s a lot of fun going with him to the dining hall or near the freshman dorms to approach, but he’s just not down anymore. Because of that, I’m finding myself much less motivated – and honestly it’s just not as fun doing it solo.

Post: #949

Well done Spider. I told the forum this Kid is going to be a beast. Oh my what I would have given to have discovered game in my younger years, well better to have found game later then never.

Keep it up Spider and do inform us of your conquests .......

Post: #950

(09-15-2013 01:16 PM)Spider Wrote:  I've been having my best results yet being ballsy and forward.

Young girls respect "Ballsy and Forward". They have to. They have never felt masculine power like that. This can work especially well during the first few weeks of school when they really wanna party and fuck.

There is a time for direct and there is a time for indirect. I think you did a good job by choosing to go direct this time.

Frat boys who act like pussys don't do as well as frat boys who act like bosses!

This is college, you can go a little crazy and people will forgive you.

(09-15-2013 01:16 PM)Spider Wrote:  I have not gotten with this girl yet, I think it’s a self-esteem issue on my part – even though she hits me up, I feel like she’s just too hot.

No, no, fuck that!

She is hot because she was designed to make your dick hard.

She is not above you. You are above her.

Believe that --Not because I say so, but, because its true.

(09-15-2013 01:16 PM)Spider Wrote:  Something else I’d like some advice on is this: One of the reasons I was approaching so much during the 1st few days of school is because my roommate is a dope wingman. I introduced him to game about a year ago, and he loves approaching with me. After the 1st week however though, he got flooded with work (tough major) and went back to being a lazy unmotivated bum. It’s a lot of fun going with him to the dining hall or near the freshman dorms to approach, but he’s just not down anymore. Because of that, I’m finding myself much less motivated – and honestly it’s just not as fun doing it solo.

-Offer to buy your roommate dinner if he goes out with you
-Find other wingman
-Do crazier shit to keep yourself entertained
-Learn to enjoy going out solo
-Help him with his homework so he has time to help you