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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
(04-06-2012 07:51 AM)Rurik Wrote: (04-06-2012 05:39 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote: (04-06-2012 01:03 AM)WhoZis Wrote: (04-06-2012 12:27 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote: I have brought 3 girls to my apartment and that has never been an issue(I live in a 9 story building with security) So, there is no legal problem...
Ahhh so dreams can come true 
Maybe a better place for a writer to live and work than Philippines then?
But internet pipelining will be your best bet, as in the malls and streets, few people speak decent english. And the nightlife hangouts here seem full of pros and golddiggers.
There are alot of foreigners here, now, but nowhere near the level of Bangkok. AMEN for that.
Vietnam cupid?
Yes Rurik, Vietnam Cupid seems pretty good. There are various vietnam internet dating sites. Just try a google search for top vietnam dating sites and you will get a list of the best. Next week, I will try another one, as well. Shelling out for 2 or 3 internet dating sites is a good investment here, as you will get better english speakers than day or even night game. Just stick to the 23 to 26 yr olds and when they come to your pad absolutely go caveman, as they put up more resistance the filipino girls, but in the end they give in, as long as you refuse to take no as an answer.
Will try dating some 18 to 21 yr olds next week, as the philippines spoiled me in that regards. Im sure it will take more time, but have had my fill of 24 to 26 yr olds. Though, in Vietnam the girls take better care of themselves, so they age much better than in the Philippines.
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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
(04-07-2012 06:37 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote: than day or even night game. Just stick to the 23 to 26 yr olds and when they come to your pad absolutely go caveman, as they put up more resistance the filipino girls, but in the end they give in, as long as you refuse to take no as an answer.
Will try dating some 18 to 21 yr olds next week, as the philippines spoiled me in that regards. Im sure it will take more time, but have had my fill of 24 to 26 yr olds. Though, in Vietnam the girls take better care of themselves, so they age much better than in the Philippines.
Thanks for info. I looked at some online and they look more Western than filipinas, maybe just cherry-picked photos.
Does anyone have a feel for age-acceptance for older guys there? What I'm hoping is guys have seen those couples with a girl accompanying a guy who could be her grandfather.
I looked on vietnamese cupid and they mostly are requesting 15 year max age difference.
You guys in your 20's and 30's as if Asia goes YoungNCool only, there is no place left to go but Africa. Of course, you're too cool to get old, right?!
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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
(10-21-2012 09:30 PM)iknowexactly Wrote: (04-07-2012 06:37 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote: than day or even night game. Just stick to the 23 to 26 yr olds and when they come to your pad absolutely go caveman, as they put up more resistance the filipino girls, but in the end they give in, as long as you refuse to take no as an answer.
Will try dating some 18 to 21 yr olds next week, as the philippines spoiled me in that regards. Im sure it will take more time, but have had my fill of 24 to 26 yr olds. Though, in Vietnam the girls take better care of themselves, so they age much better than in the Philippines.
Thanks for info. I looked at some online and they look more Western than filipinas, maybe just cherry-picked photos.
Does anyone have a feel for age-acceptance for older guys there? What I'm hoping is guys have seen those couples with a girl accompanying a guy who could be her grandfather.
I looked on vietnamese cupid and they mostly are requesting 15 year max age difference.
You guys in your 20's and 30's as if Asia goes YoungNCool only, there is no place left to go but Africa. Of course, you're too cool to get old, right?!
I did not see much of this and I spent over a month travelling in Vietnam. I think most of the older guys stick to Thailand and the Philippines and to be honest I saw very little of the white guy/Asian chick in public stuff that you see in other countries outside of foreigner centered bars. In a few of the towns I went to although the women had seen black guys before I was the first one a lot of them had actually had a conversation with. For some reason it seemed that Viet chicks were more inclined than other SEA women to stick to guys from their own country.
In all Asian cultures it seems acceptable for women to date/marry an older guy. I did see some 50+ Viet guys with younger women. I know for a fact that some country Viet girls look to become the mistress of older middle to upper class Viet guys (that's why a lot of them work in Hot Tocs). Ignore the age range and send a message, worst case you won't get a reply. Truthfully you can probably knock a few years off your age and they won't be able to tell.
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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
(10-21-2012 11:07 PM)DoctaWho Wrote: (10-21-2012 09:30 PM)iknowexactly Wrote: (04-07-2012 06:37 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote: than day or even night game. Just stick to the 23 to 26 yr olds and when they come to your pad absolutely go caveman, as they put up more resistance the filipino girls, but in the end they give in, as long as you refuse to take no as an answer.
Will try dating some 18 to 21 yr olds next week, as the philippines spoiled me in that regards. Im sure it will take more time, but have had my fill of 24 to 26 yr olds. Though, in Vietnam the girls take better care of themselves, so they age much better than in the Philippines.
Thanks for info. I looked at some online and they look more Western than filipinas, maybe just cherry-picked photos.
Does anyone have a feel for age-acceptance for older guys there? What I'm hoping is guys have seen those couples with a girl accompanying a guy who could be her grandfather.
I looked on vietnamese cupid and they mostly are requesting 15 year max age difference.
You guys in your 20's and 30's as if Asia goes YoungNCool only, there is no place left to go but Africa. Of course, you're too cool to get old, right?!
I did not see much of this and I spent over a month travelling in Vietnam. I think most of the older guys stick to Thailand and the Philippines and to be honest I saw very little of the white guy/Asian chick in public stuff that you see in other countries outside of foreigner centered bars. In a few of the towns I went to although the women had seen black guys before I was the first one a lot of them had actually had a conversation with. For some reason it seemed that Viet chicks were more inclined than other SEA women to stick to guys from their own country.
In all Asian cultures it seems acceptable for women to date/marry an older guy. I did see some 50+ Viet guys with younger women. I know for a fact that some country Viet girls look to become the mistress of older middle to upper class Viet guys (that's why a lot of them work in Hot Tocs). Ignore the age range and send a message, worst case you won't get a reply. Truthfully you can probably knock a few years off your age and they won't be able to tell.
It is a more "machista" culture in Vietnam and the men are more masculine than their Filipino and Thai counterparts. That is why women in Vietnam are more conservative. Most still have a "fear" of what their men think of them. Most Viet men demand virgin wives and look down upon women who consort with foreigners. Also, they love to drink but ostracize women who do the same.
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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
(10-22-2012 10:38 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote: That is why women in Vietnam are more conservative. Most still have a "fear" of what their men think of them. Most Viet men demand virgin wives and look down upon women who consort with foreigners.
I was on a long distance train in Vietnam recently when these two local women (both in their early to mid-30s) came into my cabin (each took a lower bunk bed). A little while later I made out heavily with one, and then on a lesser scale with another, and then for a short time with both at the same time.
Granted, the logistics and overall situation was impeccable: we were all in the same small room, the door didn't have any window, (and there was no chance that anyone else would come in). I was relaxed, cool, but also dirty-minded.The one that I made with more (and more sexual) was also pretty aggressive toward me even though she initially wore a wedding band (which she later took off without realizing that I noticed that). Because she spoke rudimentary, but understandable English I figured her for an experienced chaser of foreigners. She gave me the usual b.s. how "hensom" I was, etc. She then offered her "younger sister" (21) to be my girlfriend (sight unseen), and then phoned her (the "sister") and told her to wait for us at one of the upcoming stops. When we walked outside at that stop indeed the "sister" waited for us/me. A young, pretty woman summoned by her "older sister" just as a relationship bait to a random American.
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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
(10-23-2012 03:36 AM)Gaston Wrote: (10-22-2012 10:38 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote: That is why women in Vietnam are more conservative. Most still have a "fear" of what their men think of them. Most Viet men demand virgin wives and look down upon women who consort with foreigners.
I was on a long distance train in Vietnam recently when these two local women (both in their early to mid-30s) came into my cabin (each took a lower bunk bed). A little while later I made out heavily with one, and then on a lesser scale with another, and then for a short time with both at the same time.
Granted, the logistics and overall situation was impeccable: we were all in the same small room, the door didn't have any window, (and there was no chance that anyone else would come in). I was relaxed, cool, but also dirty-minded.The one that I made with more (and more sexual) was also pretty aggressive toward me even though she initially wore a wedding band (which she later took off without realizing that I noticed that). Because she spoke rudimentary, but understandable English I figured her for an experienced chaser of foreigners. She gave me the usual b.s. how "hensom" I was, etc. She then offered her "younger sister" (21) to be my girlfriend (sight unseen), and then phoned her (the "sister") and told her to wait for us at one of the upcoming stops. When we walked outside at that stop indeed the "sister" waited for us/me. A young, pretty woman summoned by her "older sister" just as a relationship bait to a random American.
Women have their own ideas everywhere. But in Vietnam the man still rules. The women do their thing but it has to be somewhat hidden.
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RE: First Impressions Vietnam vs Filipina girls
Chatted with a few Viet girls.
Much more intellectual than Filipinas and much colder, these are calculating women.
Again, selection bias due to these being English speakers. But realistically, English speakers will be the girls forum members will mostly be interacting with.
The last three I messaged were not pleasant at all...and they liked me, wanted to chat with me...they were straight up rude, by Western standards, and very into themselves, very direct, very cold...I don't even want to think of what an interaction with a Viet girl that doesn't like you is like.
I'm thinking if I go the Viet route, learning Vietnamese is the only way, to access the more normal girls (assuming the normal girls are different).
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