Post: #8726

(09-08-2018 11:45 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Darlten - Toronto wouldn't be my first choice, unless you have ties to the place.

TheScientist - true words my man. North America is a big region to explore.

Huey - we had a WhatsApp group with a few members before, it turned into a pissing contest. I am trying to find a space on the web, where we can share ideas and keep it away from the lurkers.

Thedarkknight - be thankful you are in London my man. Despite your complaining, you seem to have an active social life dating different women from different backgrounds. All the guys I know in London, have settled down with foreign women. In London, the glass is always half full.

Yeah I've been to Toronto before but don't really have any ties at all out there. Would Vancouver or Montreal be better then? What would your first choice be?

Post: #8727

^If you have the money, then Toronto is my first choice.
Apart from the women. We have festivals, concerts and a lot more going on than the other Canadian cities. Tonight I will be heading out to some TIFF parties, the last call has been extended to 4.00am.
Montreal is a great city, even better if you speak some french.
Vancouver is also a great city, I have yet to visit it. The only thing that would deter me from moving there, is the heavy Asian population. I prefer cities with an even mix of people.
A lot of people are raving about Ottawa, maybe give that some thought.

Post: #8728

(09-08-2018 11:45 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Huey - we had a WhatsApp group with a few members before, it turned into a pissing contest. I am trying to find a space on the web, where we can share ideas and keep it away from the lurkers.

I agree. At times, there seemed to be a perceived dearth amongst members regarding the available supply of lizards (usually white) and this would eventually sink into bickering and cyber money flashing. Although it's good to show what one has got (you worked hard for it) too much of it seems very tacky and petty. If most of us are in North America, some meetups would be helpful to calm the more excited members down.

(09-08-2018 11:45 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Thedarkknight - be thankful you are in London my man. Despite your complaining, you seem to have an active social life dating different women from different backgrounds. All the guys I know in London, have settled down with foreign women. In London, the glass is always half full.

I agree. Most of the guys I know from school in London are working ok jobs. None of them had an issue with lizards. Realise that some of the guys in North America have been priced out of the market You can still sex a lizard over there of any colour while chronically unemployed hahaha

Post: #8729

Halfway through the book, in the approach/attraction section.

"Look into her eyes, pay attention to what she’s saying, and let your instinct guide your responses."

This is the guy that feminists hate.

This is the guy that they want banned from different countries.

This is his seduction style, paying attention to what the girl is saying.

And you tell me the world isn't fucked up?

WIA

Post: #8730

"You can only get the quality of hot girl that you are willing to lose. The hotter girl you are ok losing, the hotter girls you will get."


A quote from RSD Madison. I haven't found a quote that summed game better. I noticed that my quality of women started to increase after I increased my standards and started rejecting women who made advances on me. What has been your experience?

Post: #8731

Same as yours and Madison.

I think it's two things,

Change in body language

Change in focus

Post: #8732

Hey fellas --

I'm eyeing a quick trip to Mexico for about ~10 days this fall.

There's ridiculously cheap tix from my location to the following: Guadalajara, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico City, Cabo, Cancun, Silao.


If you could hit 1 of these (I have Tinder Gold for pipelining) in Fall of 2018, which city and why?

Glad to see this little sliver of the forum here. Thanks

Post: #8733

(09-11-2018 05:34 PM)thatguy7 Wrote:  Hey fellas --

I'm eyeing a quick trip to Mexico for about ~10 days this fall.

There's ridiculously cheap tix from my location to the following: Guadalajara, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico City, Cabo, Cancun, Silao.


If you could hit 1 of these (I have Tinder Gold for pipelining) in Fall of 2018, which city and why?

Glad to see this little sliver of the forum here from what is a lot of the other shitholes

I was down in Cabo not too long ago - Tinder was mediocre to lacking (I used two differ accounts one young, one my age) I also used Bumble, same issues. I got laid approaching at a pool party.

You'd obviously get more hits in large cities like Puerto and Guada.

To be honest most dudes I know that hit touristy resort towns got bangs through approaching or night club game. You'll notice alot of American/Oz/UK girls that have profiles online.

Better odds with tinder and approaching in a larger city, I'd say hit Guada or Mexico city if you aren't too concerend about the resort lifestyle.

Post: #8734

We are thinking of doing a podcast about making money and doing business.

Anyone care to be a guest on the show?

We can make it a roundtable discussion.

Post: #8735

Old flame was in the area, so she hit me up on FB. Take her to dinner, she pays. After dinner, we’re chopping it up while walking back to her hotel. Tells me she’s living with her boyfriend back in her hometown.

Get back to her hotel, pick up a bottle of wine from the hotel bar. Flirt with the bartender, then head up to her room.

She takes off her shoes first.

Pour out two glasses, then we put on a movie. We’re touching each other, reminiscing...

Well, you know the rest.

...

And this is why I can’t be in an LTR right now. This broad was perfectly happy in her relationship. But give her some anonymity...

This broad told me she cheated on the same bf with a doctor.

Funnily enough, back when we first met, she tried to cuff me up. Dodged that grenade...

These hoes ain’t loyal, brothers. Hypergamy is real.

Keep gaming.

Post: #8736

Mexico City with no hesitation.

Post: #8737

(09-12-2018 07:15 AM)BasketBounce Wrote:  Old flame was in the area, so she hit me up on FB. Take her to dinner, she pays. After dinner, we’re chopping it up while walking back to her hotel. Tells me she’s living with her boyfriend back in her hometown.

Get back to her hotel, pick up a bottle of wine from the hotel bar. Flirt with the bartender, then head up to her room.

She takes off her shoes first.

Pour out two glasses, then we put on a movie. We’re touching each other, reminiscing...

Well, you know the rest.

...

And this is why I can’t be in an LTR right now. This broad was perfectly happy in her relationship. But give her some anonymity...

This broad told me she cheated on the same bf with a doctor.

Funnily enough, back when we first met, she tried to cuff me up. Dodged that grenade...

These hoes ain’t loyal, brothers. Hypergamy is real.

Keep gaming.

AMS said its not a matter of if your girl steps out on you.. its only a matter of when.

The sooner you come to terms with that, the better.

Post: #8738

(09-10-2018 07:31 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Same as yours and Madison.

I think it's two things,

Change in body language

Change in focus

One of my favorite game experiences was standing in a corner suited up in a classy establishment as the only Black Man. Chilling there being and watching the hottest blonde in the establishment, who has an orbiter in her group, slowly inching towards me. I'm keeping my cool never looking at her except with the corner of my eye. She starts dancing towards me eventually violating my space. I'm the only guy in the room that has not validated her either by talking to her or staring at her. Being that I'm tall, I keep looking up and around, not looking down at her literally inches below me. I acted like she didn't exist. She does a walk of shame back to her home base.

Later in the night, I go to the bar. Guess who taps me on the shoulder and comments on my drink choice? The same blonde.


I've done the same thing in other bars and watch literal 8's start backing up and start grinding on me. I try to keep my cool because I know if I start grinding back, they will move instantly.

Post: #8739

@kaotic and @WestIndianArchie --

Thanks fellas -- looks like The City is the move; will keep yall posted.

Post: #8740

So many cats assume women are naturally monogamous and predisposed to remaining faithful. This is how you set yourself up for failure.
I cheated while I was married and in LTR’s, so I’d be a fool to assume my s/o couldn’t, wouldn’t or didn’t step out. The sooner you realize women are no diff than men, the easier life gets. The goal should be finding a women emotionally mature enough to talk about shit in the open. She gotta crush on another cat, cool tell me about it and I’ll do the same when it comes to the receptionist who keeps showing her snatch under the desk, lol.

Post: #8741

(09-12-2018 11:53 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  So many cats assume women are naturally monogamous and predisposed to remaining faithful. This is how you set yourself up for failure.
I cheated while I was married and in LTR’s, so I’d be a fool to assume my s/o couldn’t, wouldn’t or didn’t step out. The sooner you realize women are no diff than men, the easier life gets. The goal should be finding a women emotionally mature enough to talk about shit in the open. She gotta crush on another cat, cool tell me about it and I’ll do the same when it comes to the receptionist who keeps showing her snatch under the desk, lol.

I think the truth is a gray area. Some woman are, some aren't. Just like I've come to realize that some men are, some aren't. And better yet, some women go through ho phases, one-man phases & engage in affair once in a while phases while similarly you see men going through man-whore phases & one-woman phases, or dabble in side pussy once in a while phases as well. End of the day every situation is different.

Post: #8742

@jordy
The overarching point is that women are no better or worse than men are. Once we stop holding them to different standards and managing our expectations, life gets easier.

Post: #8743

I gave my girl a free pass to mess around a while ago and it just made her not want to. Figures.

It’s not like she hasn’t had the chance or opportunity either, cats are always throwing themselves at her. The issue is they’re so thirsty it’s just a turn off.

If some guy came at her with some Game she might entertain it but realistically those kinds are in short supply.

Some times I wish she would so I’d have to pull less weight in some areas and less guilty when I see something I can’t ignore and have to have.

I’ve got other cats that pull mad but they couldn’t handle the idea that their girl could step out so they just try to lock her down heavy. We all know how that ends so I opted for the opposite approach.

Doing the exact opposite of what everyone else does in life works out a lot of the time.

Post: #8744

(09-13-2018 11:37 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:  I gave my girl a free pass to mess around a while ago and it just made her not want to. Figures.

It’s not like she hasn’t had the chance or opportunity either, cats are always throwing themselves at her. The issue is they’re so thirsty it’s just a turn off.

If some guy came at her with some Game she might entertain it but realistically those kinds are in short supply.

Some times I wish she would so I’d have to pull less weight in some areas and less guilty when I see something I can’t ignore and have to have.

I’ve got other cats that pull mad but they couldn’t handle the idea that their girl could step out so they just try to lock her down heavy. We all know how that ends so I opted for the opposite approach.

Doing the exact opposite of what everyone else does in life works out a lot of the time.

Have a reoccurring behavior issue with my wife. I told her monkey ass she should start dating other men since she seems to have a problem with me. She cried on the spot and was deeply insulted. I didn't care.

Post: #8745

(09-13-2018 11:37 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:  I gave my girl a free pass to mess around a while ago and it just made her not want to. Figures.

It’s not like she hasn’t had the chance or opportunity either, cats are always throwing themselves at her. The issue is they’re so thirsty it’s just a turn off.

Curious, what made you want to give her a free pass?

Some background info would be great here, like the result of an argument or a talk about monogamy/poly, etc

It's true tho, endless supply of thirsty dudes are a huge turn off to girls, and guys with game are far and few in between.

Post: #8746

Monkey ass lolol

Post: #8747

Hi I am stanley blong.

Post: #8748

Checkin out Vancouver and Montreal on tinder right now, considering moving to one of those places. In both cities so many good looking girls are openly telling me they prefer black guys and I'm gettin like 40+ matches a day. For those of you that have bin in those cities how do you feel about them especially recently?

Post: #8749

(09-13-2018 12:39 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  @jordy
The overarching point is that women are no better or worse than men are. Once we stop holding them to different standards and managing our expectations, life gets easier.

Totally agree.

Post: #8750

Kaotic,

Guys get at her all the time. She’s fine and models in NYC/Paris/Milan and is well connected so it’s a bit of a given. I’ve had her locked for years since before the come up so it was never much of an issue for me to navigate that.

After enough guys come with terrible Game and try to spit while you are out with your chick (usually when you step away for a minute to get drinks cause they are herbs) eventually you just don’t care much and start letting them have at it while you do other things like make biz connects or chat other chicks at the joint.

Then we’d head back to her spot and she’d be like “what don’t you care about that” etc etc.

I was basically like “nah you do you I’m not tripping as long as you are still x y z for me, so if someone catches your fancy you should try it out some time”

Not to mention she knows how I am and basically turns a blind eye to everything I do outside of our situation so really it’s only fair.

She easily could have done something and not told me cause I jet a lot and we’ve spent plenty of long stretches apart but I still get what I need and more out of it so I could really care less.

Who am I to deny her a little fun?

The thing is that girls are all emotion and really it’s more or less impossible for another guy to match the kinds of emotions (good and bad) that we’ve had together, so it would be very hard to knock me off my spot.

Obviously this kind of mentality is not really shared around with most guys cause they’d just look at you crazy but then most either aren’t pulling or getting played so I don’t pay much attention to the masses.