Post: #51

(09-01-2013 04:19 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-23-2013 04:51 AM)Fisto Wrote:  You mean you PAID to get on a website to date older women?

Because they "put in the work"?

This is your choice and I respect that but if that's your only reason....

Get better at sex man. Young girls love acting like they're in a porno, especially when you make them cum like they're in one.

Thanks for your input Fisto, as always...respectful. I get what you're saying and as I get older I see your point of view. It's just that girls my age (I'm 21) seem normal to me, nothing exiting there. To each his own, you get more younger gals and I get more older ones this way.

Whenever I paid to be on the site it was for various reasons.

1 - They're centrally located, no need to search OKC.
2 - They want someone younger, there's no "hit and miss" on OKC
3 - They're don't flake as much, women on match actually want to meet...because they pay.
4 - They're dtf, after all they joined a cougar site.

My only problem with it was the mentality in some profiles, 30/40/X year olds calling themselves cougars but only want to date a man 4-6 years younger than her. It's like....do you even know what "cougar" means?

Yep. Women go on sites that are set up with a particular niche in mind, yet default to their regular standards regarding what they're looking for. Even on sites that are set up for quick hookups and fucking, you'll have bitches talking about going to the movies, dinner, etc. Basically...DATES. Under the guise of wanting to "get comfortable" with you, but it's really them looking for a boyfriend, or at least to get some free meals out of you before you get the pussy. If you get the pussy. Shit...if you think I'm attractive from my pics, all we need to do at most is talk on Skype or the phone, and meet for a drink before I smash. If dick is what you're after, that's enough for you to get comfortable.

Post: #52

A 21 year old dude looking for a milf is different than an older guy in his 30's. I was being unfair.

I'm too old for milfs. A milf for a guy my age is late 30's at least and probably 40 plus. Too old!

But an early 20's guy screwing a woman ten years older is much better off.

Post: #53

(08-22-2013 07:45 PM)metalhaze Wrote:  "single by choice" hahaha....only one reason...they're easy.

Yeah...they're single by choice alright. By the choice of men that don't want to be with them except to smash occasionally. I love watching the dating exploits of a chick in London that I hit 3 years ago. She's always posting those single girl quotes and mantras on FB, yet she's always on the hunt for a boyfriend. She posts tons of pics, so I always know what she's doing and where she's doing it. She goes to those over-30 nights at clubs with her sister and girlfriends, on the hunt. She'd been seeing a guy for a while, then all of a sudden she was back to posting her single girl quotes. I asked her what happened, and she said the guy couldn't handle her and her disabled daughter (she's about 20 now, and she has to take her everywhere with her, so when they take trips and go here and there, she's always there). As fucked up as that seems, I totally understand from a man's perspective how difficult that must be because you don't have much alone time with your girlfriend. Next thing you know, they're back together, after all of her single girl battle cries. Ridiculous. She was single by choice. A man's choice, not her own!

Post: #54

(08-22-2013 11:13 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 11:07 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  To add to that, they really put work into their blowjobs.

They sure do. Older broads known they are competing against younger girls so they put in the extra work.

33-40 = age bracket where people (women in particular) want to re-live their youth, women in this age group have a huge energy bump.

Courtesy of my FB, she knows her place. Older and younger = jackpot.

Gonna bump this up..

I've recently realized that I prefer girls my age or girls with a mental age similar to mine and sometimes girls a little older.

I'm with you on this CR.... I really don't mind an older women 1 reason is when we find a sexy mid 30s+ woman she is the absolute best of the best at her age, think top 3%.

If one is looking to marry there is no way to be sure that the sexy 22 year old will be sexier in 10 years at 32 than the 35 year old who will be turning 45. If a girl has shown the ability to stay fit and healthy up to 35 I'd say she will keep it up to the best of her abilities while we don't really know what will happen to the younger girl.... is hard to even compare the to their parents as their parents didn't grow up in the fast food boom.

One thing to be careful with when it comes to good looking older women are the ones who are trying to relive their 20s or constantly confirm their sexiness in their minds.... assuming you are dating with them. These girls will fuck around on you with young guys and not because they need the dick but because they need the approval. Let a 25 year old with good look and solid game chat up a certain type of sexy older woman and she will give in because she needs it to feel young and to help confirm in her mind that she is still hot..... Jimbo Fishers wife just pulled something like this.

Post: #55

(08-22-2013 11:58 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 11:08 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 10:41 AM)Dusty Wrote:  "As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age"

Yeah, right.

"So much so, that I wrote an entire article begging for date!"

I do wonder about this though. Now we know that men with high choice are probably not chasing 35+ women for serious relationships. But I still wouldn't be surprised if such women are still getting tons of attention, even if it's from Betas, attention to a woman is still attention.

For me personally I have always had a bit of a fetish for them but I didn't really start going after them until I matured and could no longer stand younger girls 18-22 and sometimes up to 25.

I'm currently in a 3rd tier city in northern Mexico and can pull some extremely hot younger girls but damn do they annoy me. I find myself more and more chasing after late 20s and early 30s just for the ease and conversation factor....not to mention that not only do they pay for their shit and sometime mine, but they offer to do it.

Post: #56

Older attractive women, in my opinion, are really good at blow jobs. But, I much prefer youth. I like young beautiful women aged 17-23. I don't care what anyone else tells me either. That's what I like, I don't apologize for it, and that's that.

Post: #57

I'll take an 18 year sack of potatoes over a 40 year old with a beef jerky pussy any day of the week.

Post: #58

(06-19-2015 06:15 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  I'll take an 18 year sack of potatoes over a 40 year old with a beef jerky pussy any day of the week.

Doesn't work out that way sometimes.

Post: #59

I don't care about older women supposedly having great skills in the sack. That may be true, but a young pussy feels so much better than an older wizard sleeve. I don't care, I'll do all the work as long as the pussy feels tight and juicy and when I grab her ass I feel firmness.

Feeling of the pussy and general firmness > skill

Post: #60

The 18-22ish broads which have been my mainstay for my entire sexual life have been squirty little fountains of lust.

The approaching 30 crowd all had strict limits to their lubrication. Any notion of something not being arranged properly in their mind, whether it was financial, something they didn't like that I said, or their inability to lock me down after months of fuck sessions lead to obsessive neuroticisms in their attitude and what I can only refer to as the drying. Their bitchiness grew exponentially. Their blowjob enthusiasm dropped. I gladly let them slip through my grasp like sand on the beach and plundered more pouring pussies waiting for my pumping phallus.

The bounce in their skin, the glow in their face, the warmth in their eyes. All gone, like tears in the jizm that pasted their face over the decade before me.

Give me fertile females, or give me celibacy.

Post: #61

The funny thing about "older attractive women", let's be honest, how often do you see a woman over 40 that you would consider even a solid 7?

For me, it's extremely rare, I mean, there are some fuckable older women due to their bodies being on point, but from a facial attraction point, again, it's rare.

Post: #62

(06-19-2015 11:01 PM)jariel Wrote:  The funny thing about "older attractive women", let's be honest, how often do you see a woman over 40 that you would consider even a solid 7?

For me, it's extremely rare, I mean, there are some fuckable older women due to their bodies being on point, but from a facial attraction point, again, it's rare.

I take yoga all the time, so I occasionally see older women(i.e. over 40) that look mid 20s to mid 30s and a solid 7, but that is definitely the exception rather than the rule.

But a 20 year old woman who is thin, is almost going to be at least a 7 by default. Shit just go to the beach and run beach game.

Post: #63

When I was younger I absolutely went for older women. First they did not flake that much, the conversation with them was a little bit better and sex was good. I learned quite a lot from them. I would not describe them as a mental guide but they emotional quite different then a 18 or 19 year old girl what I personal find relaxing. Maybe its related to my more serious nature.
They also have a high in their sex drive and are very devoted to please you.

Of course they don't have the body of a 18 year old but well you don't have to go for the fat ones. I had some that keep in shape and it was very pleasing for me.

Post: #64

1) She's not 'old' old (like 30-35).
2) She's still respectable in appearance - not what she once was, but still enough fuckable.
3) She has cash and she doesn't mind spending it on you.
4) She has no demands of you.

Those are my 4 reasons. Here are eleven (of hundreds...) reasons to date a young girl:

1) Younger = hotter, tighter.
2) Younger = stupider, more naive, easier to control.
3) More sexually curious and adventurous. Much easier to get a 21 year old girl to do ass-to-mouth and roleplay than a 31 year old.
4) The pride you feel with a hot young girl on your arm and the pride you feel knowing you bested tons of competitors to get access to that sweet young pussy.
5) Young pussy is tight, looks good and tastes good. Old pussy is not tight, looks busted and I won't even consider eating it.
6) The average young girl has less sexual experience than a 31 year old - less chance she has an STD (outliers exist).
7) Far easier to mould a young girl into what you want her to be.
8) Young girls are more fun dates - they like to go dancing and out for drinks at shitty bars. Older girls demand drinks at lounges or dinner.
9) Young girls have shiny hair, soft skin and asses that you can bounce coins off of - that they begin to lose in their late twenties (I had an LTR I met when she was 19, who I fucked as a re-visit a few years ago when she was 26 and it wasn't close to the same as it once was).
10) Young girls in the peak of their sexual life want to fuck all...the...time...like spending all day in bed banging and alternatively shooting the shit? Girls lose that desire when they hit their mid twenties.
11) If you want to have a kids, it's far easier to knock up the 22 year old than the 32 year old.

Post: #65

WB

Post: #66

(06-20-2015 05:12 AM)Ivan_ Wrote:  Hi,

First post. I bang older women. When I say older, I mean my age, 44 or thereabouts.

My mother always challenges me about dating women my own age, she thinks it's wrong, and I would say she is correct on that.

This is out of sheer laziness on my part. Is my generation of women completely effed in the head? Yep. Do I regret it at times? Yep. In fact, I almost always do. My generation of women are man-hating to an extreme.

Mind you, in the last 3 or 4 years, I have slept with women between 24 and 44, so it all evens out. However I can honestly say, the longer a woman goes on in life childless, husband-less.....the crazier they become. This is an inalienable truth.

In fact, I've actually found that women in their 20's these days are more pleasant. That's not to say they aren't effed up as well. But perhaps some of them have witnessed their mothers or older sisters, aunts etc. not reaping too many rewards from their lives....I don't know but I suspect as much.

Anybody want to get a bead on how deceptive woman are? Understand why they are so crazy? Menopause is like a man having his balls turn black and fall off at 45+ years old. It is a hell of a judgement by mother nature. Woman are given a mandate. Get married and have kids or else. When the grim reaper comes for their eggs and beauty homones they get left looking like a ghost of their former glory.

Post: #67

Yea, a 38 year old woman is "single by choice" yet writes about 7 reasons why you should date an older woman.

If she wrote that she was single and lonely, just be flat out honest, I'd have some empathy. Instead, it's more "why can't I just have what I want" feminist nonsense.

And yes, this quote is especially hilarious:

Quote:Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days. As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. Big time.

What a bunch of bs. I've heard this from women my age before, but they count the times they're at a Starbucks and a male barista hands them their latte as 'flirting'. They're basically the guy (and we've all had or have a friend like this) who claims that the bartender/waitress/stripper really likes him.

The problem with these women is that they don't want a guy. They want to be 'that girl', the one who has her choice of men, who is being pursued daily by a gaggle of desirable men. The episode of Louis CK with the fat girl complaining captured modern feminist thinking women in a perfect way, but not how they intended. The part where the fat girl said she wanted to be 'chased'. It's not about finding a guy, it's about stroking the ego. In other words, delusional narcissism.

And in a society that encourages this with women, that they're all perfect and beautiful, it'll only continue. At least it's hilariously entertaining to watch.

Post: #68

(08-23-2013 12:36 AM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

(08-23-2013 12:23 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  You won't believe the amount of secretive cougar/milf lovers that abound since the trend took off. Before there was not much competition but now older ladies get hit on quite a lot.

Cougars are simply the new Fatties: hit on because they're seen as 'easy'.

Wasn't there a recent internet dating study that rejected the whole MILF myth?

I wouldn't mind seeing this internet study because my hunch is that online dating has singlehandedly driven the MILF thing. Quite frankly given the price inflation attached to women online, an average man (6) with nice guy game has the choice between a younger 4 or if he wants a (not price adjusted for age) 7+ he would have to progressively contact older and older women until he finds a price match.

When I was on POF, I found that the average age of women who contacted me first was 4-5 years older. I lowered my profile age and found that most of the messages came from women of my real age.

Post: #69

slump buster, slump buster, slump buster, slump buster, slump buster, slump buster, slump buster,

Post: #70

Lol, to all those who say younger women are tighter.....I beg to differ, and I can tell they are not talking from experience.

The 21 year old I fucked earlier this week had a pussy seemed wide as a NYC subway tunnel. Older gals can definitely have tighter pussies.

Post: #71

This topic came up back in early 2013 when I first joined the forum. I have a negative opinion about it based on experience, sad to say. And unlike a lot of my opinions, I found this one has not changed one iota in two-and-a-half years.

So I hope you all don't mind if I just quote myself. I think this is something younger guys and new members should know about.

"...meeting a woman 6-7 years older than you can be the kiss of death to your life in a lot of ways. I know first-hand. Forget, kids, baby rabies, ticking bio-clocks, etc. Something more subtle and insidious happens. If you end up in a relationship, you board her train, since her life is already at a more mature stage than yours. This makes you gradually become a player in someone else's play; a bit player in your own life. Since this happens gradually it's hard to see it for what it is, esp. if the sex is good. Even if you're dominant and control the frame it often ends up with the woman leading because of age and experience.

But putting your own life on the back burner (even unconsciously) can have disastrous effects. THIS is why the media is pushing the cougar thing: they prefer men to take subservient roles in life. As soon as it goes from sex to relationship, danger is ahead."

Post: #72

(06-21-2015 10:11 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Lol, to all those who say younger women are tighter.....I beg to differ, and I can tell they are not talking from experience.

The 21 year old I fucked earlier this week had a pussy seemed wide as a NYC subway tunnel. Older gals can definitely have tighter pussies.

True. The biggest vag I ever experienced was in my teen years.

Fortunately I have the average internet penis size of twelve inches so it was no problem.

(06-21-2015 10:40 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  This topic came up back in early 2013 when I first joined the forum. I have a negative opinion about it based on experience, sad to say. And unlike a lot of my opinions, I found this one has not changed one iota in two-and-a-half years.

So I hope you all don't mind if I just quote myself. I think this is something younger guys and new members should know about.

"...meeting a woman 6-7 years older than you can be the kiss of death to your life in a lot of ways. I know first-hand. Forget, kids, baby rabies, ticking bio-clocks, etc. Something more subtle and insidious happens. If you end up in a relationship, you board her train, since her life is already at a more mature stage than yours. This makes you gradually become a player in someone else's play; a bit player in your own life. Since this happens gradually it's hard to see it for what it is, esp. if the sex is good. Even if you're dominant and control the frame it often ends up with the woman leading because of age and experience.

But putting your own life on the back burner (even unconsciously) can have disastrous effects. THIS is why the media is pushing the cougar thing: they prefer men to take subservient roles in life. As soon as it goes from sex to relationship, danger is ahead."

Yes, whenever I meet a woman in my age range, it is interesting to notice how they try to dominate the conversation. The stereotype that a man becomes set in his ways has an element of truth, but a man does tend to settle into his personality and become at peace with who he is, and thus more confident and easygoing. On the flip side, a single woman, as we know, gets more cunty as she gets older.

The younger women I meet let me take the lead and decide where to go, and are far more amenable. The old hags that I've gotten set up with are always more entitled and more aggressive. As you stated, it's the media/feminist pushing the 'strong/independent' woman as a good thing, not the boner destroying phenomenon that it really is.

Post: #73

(06-21-2015 10:40 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  But putting your own life on the back burner (even unconsciously) can have disastrous effects. THIS is why the media is pushing the cougar thing: they prefer men to take subservient roles in life. As soon as it goes from sex to relationship, danger is ahead."

Young men are especially susceptible to this, you see it happening all the time, everywhere. Especially if the older woman has a decent body, puts out heavy, has disposable income she spends on the young man. It totally derails and robs the young man of his life's focus, resources and potential.

Post: #74

Reason #8: To fuck her hot daughter!

Post: #75

(06-21-2015 10:40 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  This topic came up back in early 2013 when I first joined the forum. I have a negative opinion about it based on experience, sad to say. And unlike a lot of my opinions, I found this one has not changed one iota in two-and-a-half years.

So I hope you all don't mind if I just quote myself. I think this is something younger guys and new members should know about.

"...meeting a woman 6-7 years older than you can be the kiss of death to your life in a lot of ways. I know first-hand. Forget, kids, baby rabies, ticking bio-clocks, etc. Something more subtle and insidious happens. If you end up in a relationship, you board her train, since her life is already at a more mature stage than yours. This makes you gradually become a player in someone else's play; a bit player in your own life. Since this happens gradually it's hard to see it for what it is, esp. if the sex is good. Even if you're dominant and control the frame it often ends up with the woman leading because of age and experience.

But putting your own life on the back burner (even unconsciously) can have disastrous effects. THIS is why the media is pushing the cougar thing: they prefer men to take subservient roles in life. As soon as it goes from sex to relationship, danger is ahead."

The media didn't tell me to do squat, I decided this way beforehand.